BE!Maria Tachimi's AITA Story

AITA for not allowing my close friend’s mom friend and her spoiled kid to bring home a haul of Pokémon plushies we were donating to other less fortunate kids.
Hey everyone. I'm BE!Maria, and this is gonna be my first in a long list of AITA stories I have. Now this incident in particular happened last week and I need to know who was in the wrong.

But first, here's some background: My friend Josie Jr, who I’ve known since she was little, she has a baby girl called Denise, Josie is friends with a woman called Alicia and a son called Simon.

Simon without a doubt is one of the worst-behaved kids I’ve ever met. Despite his age, he is bratty, spoiled, screams constantly and his mother does nothing to discipline him, his grandmother is also a vile bitch.

One example, It was Simon’s birthday and I got him an Ironhide figure and a Build-A-Bear, the next week, the figure had been broken and the bear ripped, I yelled at Alicia I wasn't going to buy Simon anything again.

Now, we received a large haul of Pokémon stuffed toys ordered from the official Pokémon Center US site and a seller on eBay, Around 87, I was permitted to keep three and I promised the two girls Xiu-mei and Akara, my “nieces” they can keep three each if they’ve been good.

I asked Josie to come over to help us unpack and help with unboxing the plush dolls.

My boss got understandably upset I spent a fuckload of cash but helped anyway. He told me to remind him beforehand, since he initially thought one of the rival gangs got ahold of our money.

When Josie and Denise came, so did Alicia and Simon despite me telling her not to bring him. Josie said she tried to tell Alicia and Simon that they can't go, but they persisted anyway. Josie kept Denise upstairs for her nap and helped with the boxes.

I also told both that neither Denise nor Simon was going to have them and that they’re for less fortunate kids, both agreed (Alicia for about an hour and ten minutes).

I would also like to remind everyone that Alicia didn’t do jack shit when Josie was helping unwrap toy after toy, as she was just on her phone with her mother about us “unwrapping toys like we were kids on Christmas”. We put some of them in the kitchen and it took over an hour.

Soon after we were done, the girls helped too and I allowed the two to pick which ones they liked since we had several extras. Akara picked a Pretend Boss Pikachu plush (Lysandre), a kimono Pikachu and a Charmander, Xiu-mei picked three Pretend Boss Pikachu (Cyrus, Ghetsis and Maxie), I was allowed to have the remaining three Pretend Boss Pikachu.

Now, Lei told Alicia at least three times that these were only for the children of poorer gangs in bad neighborhoods, not her son. Once again, she initially agreed, but as you'll see in a moment, her cooperation didn't last long...

After Xiu-mei received her toys, Simon then said he wanted one, and for some reason, Alicia seemed to have forgotten the fact that none of the plushies were going to her or her son.

Alicia: "Please give the toys to my son. He really likes them."

Simon was told no then he started becoming more demanding and started stamping his feet.

Simon: "I WANT THE TOYS!!! GIVE THEM TO ME RIGHT NOW!!!"

Now, Denise was sleeping upstairs and he risked waking her up. Then, Alicia said the most vile and sexist thing I’ve ever heard:

Alicia: ”How about you make Xiu-mei give her plushies to Simon? After all, she’s a girl, and girls don’t play Pokémon.”

I don't think I need to explain why that was shitty. Girls can play Pokémon, and there are probably more female Pokémon fans than males.

Anyway, Simon agreed with her shitty statement and tried to snatch the dolls out of Xiu-mei’s hands, but failed.

Xiu-mei: (moving the toys away from Simon) "No! They're mine! You can't take it! Besides, daddy and auntie Maria said you can't have them!"

Simon: (struggling to shove Xiu-mei away) "I DON'T GIVE A CRAP!!! GIVE IT TO ME RIGHT NOW YOU STUPID LITTLE GIRL!!!"

Realizing that things are gonna get bad fast, Lei told both Akara and Xiu-mei to take their dolls upstairs to my room. Both agreed while Simon threw his screaming fit.

Simon: (crying and throwing a tantrum like he's 3) "I... WANT... MY... TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOYS!!!!!!!!!!"

Then she told us we should give ALL of them to her son and that those "poor brats" didn't deserve them. Once again, Simon stopped crying when he heard that, then started crying again after we both said no.

Alicia began to scream at Lei and me that we were selfish, had no consideration for her or her “little angel” and how we were terrible people.

Alicia: "I'm not gonna ask again! Give those toys to my boy! Those poor brats don't deserve it!"

It was at that point that Josie put her foot down and told her to “fuck off”. I looked at her in shock and saw her telling Alicia she was the “selfish“ one who thinks her son matters more than kids who can’t even afford toys.

Josie: "As a matter of fact, you two need to leave right now! We are not gonna tolerate that behavior! And Alicia, please discipline your son while you're at it!"

It’s been a week and me, Josie, and Lei have gotten messages from Alicia’s bitch of a mom and her friends that we were being “selfish”, a “fucking bitch to a child” and how we could act like that to a “sweet little angel”.

TL;DR: Entitled mom friend demands Pokémon plushies that were going to poorer gang member’s children, was told several times that she wasn’t keeping any, then she throws a hissy fit with her son crying, friend puts her foot down and calls her out for her actions.

Comments
"NTA. If anything, Alicia and Simon are the assholes for thinking they're entitled to plush toys when it belongs to the poor kids. Ungrateful bastards!" - Deftonesfan003

"I agree with Deftonesfan. That whore and her shit-stained son probably don't even have a man in their lives." - MoozeMKain2

"ESH. Well, sort of. Honestly, they shouldn't have been that demanding, and had they've asked nicely, then the gang probably would've let them keep one. At the same time, however, Josie probably should've handled the situation in a more peaceful manner. If they were gonna misbehave, you could've just kicked them out a lot sooner." - Justice4JacobBlake2020

"This is Alicia here. The workers there are assholes for denying my child the plushies! I don't give a shit about the poor kids! If my son wants something, you FUCKING GIVE IT TO HIM!!!" - Aliciaandherlovingson

"Alicia, just because your son wants something doesn't mean he has to get it. That's not how life works. You and your 'loving' son need to learn about greed and how it can destroy you. You need to be more humble." - MarigoldFlowers55

AITA for telling one of my friend’s mom friends her son wouldn’t get anymore gifts from me?
This happened last week and I’m still infuriated as fuck.

It was Simon’s birthday a week ago and me, Alicia and Josie took him to Build-A-Bear, I don’t mind shopping with Josie, she’s a pretty sweet woman and she’s better than her vile bitch of a mom and grandpa, Now, she knows I don’t like Alicia nor Simon.

So, I went alone to get his gifts, I brought an Ironhide figure and a Build-A-Bear plush from Build-A-Bear Workshop, I gave him to him before I had to be called for my job.

Next week after Simon’s birthday, I met up Josie and we both went to Alicia’s home, I found the remains of the Ironhide figure scattered on the front yard, Let‘s just say, being pissed off was an understatement.

I found the Build-A-Bear I MADE HIM basically “disemboweled” and the cotton scattered.

Me and Alicia had an argument, apparently, Simon didn’t like the heart inside it and wanted it taken out and the Transformer didn’t work, Now, I can’t stand to see broken Transformers, I grew up with Transformers and I treated them with compassion, something Simon lacked.

He basically destroys his own toys, Then I told her I wasn’t buying her brat anymore Christmas or birthday gifts and fucked off.

A week later, I get messages from Alicia’s baby obsessed friends about how I’m a horrible piece of shit, I deserve to die and how I killed Josie’s mom as a baby and in no room to talk how I took “a mommy away from her baeybeeee!”, Josie doesn’t give a shit about her mother and grandfather, she’s aware the latter was a horrible POS.

TL;DR: Kid destroys gifts I give him a week later, I tell his bitch of a mom I’m never buying him gifts again, she flips her shit.

Comments
"What the hell is with Simon and Alicia being ungrateful and entitled as shit? If they were my son and wife I'd make them live in a poor farm in India for a week!" - KikiLuvrr81

AITA for flipping my shit at my closest friend’s mom friend’s mother because of her extreme pro-life (aka Forced Birther) and misogynistic views
Now, This is about Alicia’s vile bitch and cunt of a mother, She’s one of those religious misogynists who thinks women should devote themselves to children and family.

She’s an old-fashioned women who believes the following:
 * Women devote themselves to their children, family and faith.
 * Good women never leave their husbands (domestic violence is no excuse).
 * Abortion is murder and good women keep their babies.
 * God believes in marriage between a man and a woman.
 * A woman who gives birth outside marriage is a “whore” and a “slut”.
 * Boys are to work, while girls devote themselves to helping their family.
 * Heavy metal is the devil's music.

Yeah, It’s no wonder everyone in my gang thinks she’s a evil monster. She remains, to this day, an incredibly vile human being and a piece of pig excrement.

She literally thinks women in this gang shouldn’t work because men do all the work and women must do housekeeping chores.

She’s also so baby obsessed that she wanted to keep the videos of me as a baby and a toddler because “They’re so kyuuuuute!”. I've refused to let her have it because they’re one of the footage of my parents.

Most of the abuse she lands out is to me, Lei and Jiayi, Fumei, Akara and Xiu-mei and Tanisha. Tanisha in particular fucking hates this woman and makes every excuse not to be around her. She even haggles me and Lei for listening to heavy metal and thought Lei was teaching Xiu-mei to become a devil-worshipper, even though he is bringing her up as an atheist.

Another thing she likes to do is verbally abuse Xiu-mei for being a girl and born out of wedlock, even going as far as to tell Lei that Fumei should devote herself to her daughter instead of him. Fumei and Lei are basically a separate couple marriage because neither of Fumei’s fellow gang members like Lei and we don’t hate Fumei, but she thought it was better to have joint custody. She’s called Fumei a “whore” several times.

She’s even sexist and called Xiu-mei a “whore” for watching Toy Story, which she considers a “boy’s franchise”. She believes only boys can like “boy franchises” and girls with “girl franchises”. She’s even tried to snatch her Pretend Boss Ghetsis/ゲーチス plush because she sees Pokémon as a “boy’s franchise”.

And believe it or not, she is even less of a disciplinarian than Alicia. She refuses to discipline her grandson for any reason whatsoever, even when Simon is throwing a major tantrum and acting like a psycho. And if Xiu-mei or Akara misbehave, their fathers make them either go to their room for several minutes or face the wall. She’s actually accused both of being too hard on them and even abusive.

But what really set me over the edge with this bitch is that Tanisha had an abortion and on November 18th, the anniversary when Tanisha had the abortion.

This bitch had the audacity to have a memorial to a unborn embryo that Tanisha never ever wanted inside her. It was implanted by the Devil himself and she’s spoke to psychologists and they all agreed that she would have no love for the baby because of the circumstances conceived and to this day, calls the embryo “a parasite implanted by Satan-given flesh”. She even called it “Tanisha’s murdered baby, November 18th 2003” and somehow got a hold of the scan pictures that we threw away!

One thing to learn, Tanisha goes into a fit of rage if she sees the scan photos and becomes almost inconsolable.

Now, it’s not something Tanisha really likes to talk about or revisit with people. She’s fine in every other sense, but discussing her husband’s murder and her rape freaks her out.

Now remember: This stupid bitch is a forced-birther, and she doesn’t care about the baby until after it’s born. My mom, who died when I was a teenager, had an abortion when I was a toddler because she would die if she gave birth and it went on ahead.

Tanisha flipped her shit and ripped the memorial to shreds and yelled at Jackie that the embryo was just a “parasite” implanted by a “disgusting human“, as well as calling her every name in the book. Alicia's mother yelled back at Tanisha and call her a "whore" who should've been killed by her rapist! The two were ready to beat each other up before me and others had to break it up. But that wasn't the end of it. Things went from bad to absolute madness when I ended up having to physically hit this bitch an hour later.

Now, the reason was she said my mother was in “hell” for having an abortion and ”good women never have abortions” and called her “selfish” because her life was on the line.

I was playing JoJo: EOH and I almost broke my DualShock 4 in a fit of rage. I got up, then smacked her to the floor. This was in the living room and her head bled from falling on the marble floor. I then beat her with said controller. While doing that, I told her this in the biggest rage ever in Japanese:

Me: なんてクソあえて、あなたは娼婦、雌犬、偽善者をクソだ！ あなたは、あなたが得るあらゆるクソのチャンスであなたが虐待したXIU-MEIとAKARAよりも悪魔生まれの胎児についてもっと心配しています！ 私が銃を手に入れて、あなたのお尻を撃ち殺すまで待ってください！(HOW FUCKING DARE YOU, YOU FUCKING WHORE, BITCH, AND HYPOCRITE! YOU ARE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT A DEVIL-BORN FETUS THAN XIU-MEI AND AKARA, WHOM YOU'VE ABUSED WITH EVERY FUCKING CHANCE YOU GET! WAIT TILL I GET MY GUN AND SHOOT YOUR ASS TO DEATH YOU BITCH!)

My boyfriend had to hold me back to prevent me from killing her and Alicia took her mother home. Now, Alicia threatened to press charges on us for assault and attempted murder, but we reminded her that informants are usually killed by other gangs, and that even if she did reported us and the gangs didn't get to her, we'd get off scott free due to them provoking us and me being justified in my anger.

To this day, however, I still get messages from Alicia’s friends berating me for the fact that I assaulted their mother for trying to help Tanisha have a memorial to her “baby”.

Let me make this clear to your pro-lifers who still think Tanisha shouldn't have killed the baby whatsoever: Tanisha sees that “unborn baby” as nothing more than a “parasite”. She’s never loved it, and will never love it. It’s the reminder she was brutally raped and her husband murdered. Please be nice to women who suffered rape like Tanisha. They never did anything to deserve it.

TL;DR: Religious and misogynistic bitch sets off my rape survivor friend who had an abortion by having a memorial to a “deceased baby” she never even wanted and was confirmed to have no love for it, later told me my mother was in “hell” because she had an abortion and was very “selfish” when I was a toddler, I ended up losing my temper and hitting her with my hand and a DualShock 4 controller.

Comments
"Jesus motherfucking Christ. I thought Alicia was bad, but Alicia's mother is an absolute demon. The fact that she thought it would be a perfect idea to hold a memorial to an aborted fetus that Tanisha didn't like and then disrespect your deceased mother is appalling. I hope that whore stops living in the 1950s!" - Mumbaii11

"As someone who's pro-life, this was absolutely appalling. I'm nothing like her. You and Tanisha had every right to confront her and destroy the 'memorial'." - Death2HarshRock

"This is Alicia's mother here. Tanisha and BE!Maria ARE the assholes, not me! She blew this story out of proportion! I never said anything disrespectful about her dead mother at all, and that beating she described was because I destroyed her shitty house in Minecraft! And as for you, Tanisha, the fact you think it's okay to destroy a memorial that pays respect to a dead fetus is beyond me! You think I'm crazy? You committed MURDER!!! Nobody is forcing you, nor making you have that baby! And I don't care how much you hate it! It's a human being at the end of the day! You must respect it! I hope I never see you ungrateful brats ever again!" - AliciasCoolandAwesomeMother

"What. the. fuck. For starters, I never blew anything out of proportion. And you never even played Minecraft in your damn life! And Tanisha was right to destroy that shitty 'memorial'. She was raped and hated the baby that came with it. She had a good reason to abort the baby. And how in the hell are you gonna tell us to be respectful, but you disrespect her for showing her the scans and disrespect me for saying my mother is in hell for aborting a fetus. The next time you pull that shit, I can guarantee that you won't be walking ever again!" - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for smacking Alicia's mother for berating a domestic violence victim?
Another story about Alicia's shitty mother and her shenanigans, yay...

Alicia's mom has beliefs that are only accepted in the 1950s. She thinks that good women never leave their husbands, even if they are abusive to them. This theory was tested just last week and I'm still pissed about.

Basically, a woman named Tiarra came into our hideout covered in all kinds of bruises. When we asked her what happened, she said that her husband was extremely abusive towards her and beats her on a daily basis. She then said that he had schizophrenia and believed that the devil was inside her and that the only way to get him out is to beat her.

Tiarra works at a bakery for an undercover job and is actually the younger sister of a Hispanic-American crime gang boss, He doesn’t want his sister, who is 5 years younger than him being involved what he does, Carlos sometimes comes to us to check on her and he was here at the time of the incident.

It was tragic, really, because many women in the gang experienced something similar to Tiarra's case. I was almost raped at 17, Jiayi was almost raped at nearly 17, and Tanisha got raped and got a baby from it, which she despised. She later aborted the baby and hates it whenever we bring it up. We comforted her and told her that we were gonna support her and help get through this.

However, Alicia and her mom were here. Alicia didn't say anything, but her mom really had to throw in something shitty. She went up to Carlos and Tiarra and said this in a tone as if she was a principle scolding a student for misbehaving:

"How dare you leave your husband over some bruises! I don't give any flying fucks about him beating you! You are a sick woman for abandoning him! You don't know true love at all! I hope he finds you and beats you to death because you are a worthless piece of scum who deserves no sympathy at all!"

What. The. Fuck. Just when you thought things couldn't get worse for that bitch, she is berating a woman for leaving her crazy ass husband. That's weird, because she is willing to defend a fetus of a rapist that Tanisha loathed, but attacks a woman for doing the right thing and opening up her abusive situation to us. How fucked up is that?

Enraged, I went up to Alicia's poor excuse of a mother and slapped that hoe so hard she got knocked clean the hell out! I then yelled at her about if she was in a domestic violence situation and I berated her like that, then she wouldn't like it. Lei was there and also chewed her out for having no consideration for Tiarra's situation.

In the mist of all of this, Tiarra was just sobbing in her brother’s arms, and Carlos almost saw red.

Alicia then comforted her mom and then called us out for using "excessive force" over her mother "sharing her opinions". At that point, we kicked these jackasses out of the hideout and told her mother to never come back.

If you're wondering where Tiarra is now, her husband has since been committed to a mental hospital, and is now living in my place. However, she is now being attacked on social media by Alicia's mom's yesmen on how she is a whore who doesn't know true love and shit. I reported these users for cyberbullying and blocked them.

TL;DR: Friend's mother berates girl for leaving her abusive husband, and I slap her out of anger.

Comments
"Holy fucking shit. Alicia and her mother have hit a new fucking low. I am so pissed right now because I was abused by my husband as well. How are these fuckers not in jail?!" - LesslyPallie28

"I feel so bad for Tiarra right now. There was no excuse for Alicia's shit-stained mother to do that shit. Would she do the same if her daughter left an abusive relationship?" - MorbidAngelFan1989

"I hope Tiarra is doing okay now. Alicia's mom really needs to fuck off. Maria, can't you get a restraining order from them?" - Motherof3AutisticChildren1923

"This is Tiarra. Thank you all so much for the support. It means so much to me. All of Alicia's mother's friends are banned on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other social media sites for cyberbullying, and me and my brother are getting a restraining order on them. I hope I never see them again." - TiarraCarlos92

AITA for punching and yelling at my friend’s hateful girl-incel daughter for sexually assaulting my married friend with mental health issues and ASPD (Sociopathy) (NSFW)
This happened yesterday and I’m still annoyed as hell.

Lei’s perfectly fine, he never liked being touched by anyone other than his wife, sister and daughter, but trying to discuss it with him makes him nervous and has refused to go near Annabella since this and Michaela is not allowed to bring her daughters here again after this.

Onto this story:

Josie has this friend named Michaela, she’s a nice person and she’s perfect if Lei and Fumei want a date night to themselves, but she’s a terrible parent (not abusive, just a really bad parent), she has two daughters, 18-year old Annabella and 7-year old Emily.

I hate Annabella with a burning passion, She’s basically a female version of an incel, to her, every man is a ”man-slut” and ”deserves to be treated as such”, She’s a hateful bitch who sees men as ”sex objects”.

She treats Lei the worst out of the boys, She fucking treats him like a ”sex object” porn star than a human being and has been caught sniffing his underwear and clothes, even anything that Lei owns such as his copy of Cells at Work!: CODE BLACK Volume 2.

My gang has a policy against sexual harassment for both genders and both Lei and Dongshun complained about her to Josie.

She’s been caught sniffing the guy’s underwear and clothes and even masturbating in Longwei’s room and even screenshot topless attractive men and masturbating to that. Despite all of the complaints on her, we didn't ban her for some reason.

Now, Annabella is a bit on the unattractive side, and she kinda looks like Yoko Ono. I bet Longwei needed eye-bleach soon after seeing her.

This happened during a visit, Lei was reading Cells at Work!: CODE BLACK, One thing with Lei, he doesn’t like to be touched unless it’s Jiayi, Xiu-mei or Fumei, Everyone knows this and asks Lei before they put their hands on him.

He especially doesn’t like to be touched by men.

Now, we haven’t seen Annabella for a while, I went out of the room for a bit to get a drink, Xiu-mei was playing in her room, everyone was doing their own thing, Fumei watching a film with headphones in the kitchen.

Then I heard Lei call out and asked if he needed any help with Xiu-mei, no response, a few minutes later

I then heard screaming and thrashing coming from the living room, a male scream, I rushed back into the hideout to find Annabella on top of Lei who had his shirt unbuttoned, feeling his body all-over, sniffing his fucking hair and then her other hand on his groin near his crotch and was about to button his trousers while he looked horrified and hitting her in a bid to get her to stop. How she overpowered Lei is beyond me, but we found bruising on his neck, Fumei removed her headphones and walked in to find this bitch sexually assaulting her husband who was terrified out his wits, She wasn't trying to sexually assault Lei, she was already in the middle of doing it when I walked in.

Turns out she’d been doing this for five minutes when Lei’s scream was heard by me and Fumei.

I fucking lost it. I rushed into the room and punched that bitch. She then tried to punch me back, but I dodged it and slammed her down on the ground while restraining her. Fumei quickly got her husband out of the room during our fight. Lei was a little shaken but perfectly fine, you could put the guy through a nearly grisly attempted murder or even cutting someone’s balls off and he’ll still be fine, Lei is the youngest Black Heaven member, being several minutes younger than his twin sister, Michaela and Emily ran into the room.

He spent the rest of day near Fumei and Jiayi and blasted Cannibal Corpse's "Butchered at Birth" album on his iPod to calm down. He didn’t leave their sides until the next day.

While I was still restraining Annabella, I yelled at her at how she could treat a man with mental health issues and a hatred of being touched like that. Had Michaela not have been in the room, I would've fucking murdered her.

I then told Michaela to ”get your daughter the fuck out of our fucking place”. Now, I'd like to clarify and say that Michaela did not apologize to Lei for the distress caused by her daughter sexually assaulting a man with ASPD and issues being touched. If anything, she blamed us for leaving him unattended!

We now get messages from Annabella’s incel friends about how Lei was just another “manwhore” and that Annabella can treat guys anyway she wanted since "women were owned dues for all the rape they've endured" or some shit like that and that I had no right to punch her.

UPDATE: Lei’s perfectly fine, thanks for asking, he‘s allowed me to post this story, He’s now allowed his fellow female gang members to touch him and has calmed down a little.

Comments
"Maria, you should've just killed that bitch Annabella on the spot. She needs to die!" - KiKiPawni

"KiKi, you think she needs to die just because she tried to rape Lei? What she did was wrong, but death is a bit too much." - AngryGrandpaFan93

"You need to ban these people from the base immediately. The fact that you still allow them to run the base amok is ridiculous. And Annabella needs to get a spanking!" - WeLoveReicheru

"Annabella here. Lei was super hot and cute! I did nothing wrong! Women can do that to men! Maria is a loser who assaulted me for no reason! I even reported her and her gay friends to the police and they did nothing!" - IWannaHaveSexWithAllMenInTheWorld

"Annabella, you did something wrong. You know that he has sociopathy and that it was worsen by child abuse. And men can get raped by women. You are so delusional by your thinking, that you don't even give a shit about anyone who suffers from mental disorders. And the reason the cops didn't do anything is because they know all the shit you've done and aren't gonna do anything to someone who is just defending a friend. Fuck off and leave us alone!" - MariaTachimi1981

“NTA! This bitch sexually assaulted a man with mental health issues, the fuck?” - Zukoforever46

AITA for me and my friend teaming up to berate a guy who was defending the movie "Cuties"?
If there's one thing Lei hates more than anything, it's pedophiles. This is pretty evident since he has a daughter named Xiu-mei, who was almost molested at an anime convention. He later killed the pedofuck who did this. He doesn't even like the Cannibal Corpse song "Necropedophile" because of this hatred.

Now, what drives me and Lei insane is the fact that Netflix once tried to promote a kiddie porno named "Cuties". The poster to the film originally were these girls wearing skimpy clothes and in suggestive positions. It was absolutely disgusting. Despite writing an "apology" and changing the poster and description, they still allowed the film to premier, as the director claimed that the movie was going "against" child exploitation. Oh the irony...

Now, me and Lei came across someone who defended the film like crazy. We'll call him D, because he has threatened to sue us if we use his real name. D agreed with the (unfortunately) many critics who gave positive reviews of this film. It's the reason why I don't trust critics nowadays. They're fine with child porn, but berate a video game call Jump Force for having a lack of female characters.

D tried to convince us that the movie was good and that it was going against child exploitation and that it uses these tactics in the movies so as to shock people on how bad it is. Me and Lei weren't gonna take this fuckers excuses, and we gave him a piece of our minds.

"You ignore the fact that these child actresses are being force to twerk and shit for the name of a bunch of pedophilic old guys. The director probably has the entire film industry at gunpoint, or else why would there not have been so many positive reviews on this 'film'? It is a complete embarrassment to the entire community, and the fact that Netflix didn't even pull that shit off their category makes me sick! I mainly use Netflix to watch the Studio Ghibli films they have on here, plus JJBA and other shonen anime, but after this shit, I may just cancel my Netflix subscription!" - Me

"As a father of a 5 year old girl, shit like Cuties make me wanna throw up. The director is a fucking crackhead who needs to be committed to a mental hospital if she thinks what she is making is an 'anti-child exploitation film'. My daughter was almost raped by a pedofuck while we were at an anime convention, and I tracked down his ass, tortured him for 3 hours, and finally killed him. I do not fuck around with pedophiles, and I'm especially not gonna tolerate people like you who defend this shit. Did I mention that I also like death metal bands like Cannibal Corpse, but I hate one song from them, and that's 'Necropedophile'. That song made me feel disgusted. You're the reason why the old hags in Hollywood are enabling shitheads to make child porn and get away with it. Unless we team up to throw out these fuckers, this shit will only get worse and worse!" - Lei

D eventually had enough. He told us to go fuck off and ran off.

Later, we found out that D was found to have almost a terabyte worth of child pornography on his computer. He was arrested by the authorities and is currently awaiting trial.

TL;DR: Guy attempts to defend Cuties, and me and my friend berate him.

Comments
"You two weren't the assholes. D sounds like an extremely unlikable jackass. I hope Lei tracks him down and kills him." - ImmortalBlackMetalKing666

"NTA! I hope D gets life in prison!" - AndJusticeForChildren

"This is D's cousin here. I was absolutely shocked to hear that my cousin was arrested for child pornography. Our family condemn his actions and are going against him in trial. I'll keep you all updated on the trial.

UPDATE: D was found guilty for possession of child pornography and has been sentenced to 50 years in prison." - JamieDougs91

"I would've preferred if he got life, but 50 years is alright." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for telling my close friend to stop walking around naked in our hideout after a brutal kill.
Okay, Lei and I did come to an agreement that he must take a shower and put pajamas on as soon as he comes home from a killing like this and this is a habit he has.

Lei’s daughter, Xiu-mei was almost sexually assaulted by a convicted pedophile who lusted after preteen and toddler girls, He was released on bail much to Lei’s anger, he was charged for two sex attacks, one of which was against a 14-year old girl.

Upset at seeing his child so upset at the incident, a few days later he went out at 5:00pm and told us to take care of Xiu-mei if something bad happens, he drove off and picked up Dongshun, Fumei’s older brother.

He was away for 9 hours, I just stayed with Xiu-mei.

At the early hours of the next day, Lei came in, stripped himself of his bloody clothes and walked around naked, Fumei, Lei’s wife discovered him about to enter the bathroom, naked.

After Fumei asked what did he do, He said he murdered the pedophile who attacked their daughter, Fumei told him to take a shower.

In the morning, Lei was called into the room and the boss gets pretty upset if he walks around naked and covered in blood in case Akara or Xiu-mei get up in the middle of the night, The boss wasn’t angry at Lei for murdering the sick-son-of-a-whore, he was angry at him for walking around naked, Everyone’s saw him naked and covered in blood at one point, even the boss.

He let off Lei with a warning, but told him he’ll be on thin ice if he does it again.

UPDATE: Xiu-mei’s doing fine, She’s watching Cells at Work! with her father.

Comments
"Hey Maria, this is an admin here. Please refrain from posting these types of stories in r/AITA, since this isn't AITA-worthy and Lei could face criminal charges with this post." - WesternRoughness95

"Ok, sorry about that. Didn't knew where this story fit." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for snapping at a JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure hater for telling me I should sell my JoJo manga because it “triggers” her.
I need to ask this, even my friends and Fumei’s gang are conflicted on this.

Fumei’s undercover job, there’s a young woman who works there of Korean descent, her parents are North Korean defectors, let’s call her Mi-cha, she’s in her twenties and she came to our house today.

She’s been to our place many times, but the main problem with her is that she’s over-sensitive and has “triggers”, one of which is JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure.

Now, she picks and chooses things to hate and treats them like PTSD triggers and expects people to get rid of them, Fumei told me she isn’t a very well-liked colleague and she goes into rants how much she hates these things.

Now, Fumei told me she had a colleague suffering PTSD from surviving a massacre and he gets very annoyed at her.

Her “triggers” are... JoJo doesn’t have the best fandom, it’s plagued with fandom police cunts and people debating about part skipping, Many JoJo haters I met felt sorry about my mother and how her death impacted me, the reason Mi-cha hates it?
 * Pokémon
 * Pucca
 * Sword Art Online
 * Abridged series in any form.
 * My locket
 * My tarot cards
 * BTS
 * JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure.
 * Anyone taking medicine (She glared daggers at Takeshi for taking vitamins)
 * Heavy metal (she can't stand Lei headbanging to thrash, death, and black metal)

It’s too popular and people telling her she should watch it.

Now, she hated it to the point she demanded that Cells at Work! shouldn’t be watched by Xiu-mei because it features a JoJo-esque character and looked angry when I called Xiu-mei “Dioko”.

Now, when she was visiting, I was reading JoJo in my room, Volumes 1-44 are some of the last things I have of my deceased mother, who was murdered.

When I went downstairs to get a drink, She roughly tapped me on the shoulder.

Mi-cha: “Excuse me, but you need to sell your JoJo manga.”

I looked at her like she had barnacles growing.

Me: “What?”

Mi-cha: “I said sell your manga. I should have the right to walk around without seeing that horrible series everywhere I go!”

I don’t have a problem with people hating JoJo, you like what you like, Now, my fellow gang members are aware how much my mom’s manga means to her, She had her life and Derek cut that short.

Me: “Fuck off, these weren’t originally mine. They were from my mother.”

Mi-cha: “Come on, Maria! You gotta sell them! You know what triggers me!”

Me: “What triggers you? You get “triggered” by fucking Pokémon!”

Lei laughed a little, Mi-cha once told him to get rid of Xiu-mei’s Pokémon plush toys because they are things she doesn’t have and accused him of spoiling Xiu-mei.

Mi-cha: “I want everyone to know what triggers me!”

She went in about how JoJo fans are all assholes who don’t show care to people like her.

Me: “How about you shut the fuck up?! You’re nothing but an attention whore who thinks the world should bow down to you! My mother was fucking murdered and they’re all what I have of her! I had my fucking father murdered, and my grandfather was falsely accused of being a pedophile! You take offense at things because you want everything to be about you!”

Mi-cha left earlier and I get messages from a few of Fumei’s work colleagues that I should have been less harsh with her, so, I’m I the asshole for snapping at her when she told me to sell my manga?

Comments
"Mi-cha has no consideration for your dead mother's things. She needs to respect other's property, even if she doesn't like it." - TheDeicidesOfHeaven

"Both are in the wrong. Mi-cha shouldn't had suggested you sell your mangas. However, you also didn't need to yell at her like that. Just ignore her and walk away." - Down2Burzum

"NTA! The fact that Mi-cha thought it would be a good idea to try and get you to sell your mangas from your dead mother is beyond me!" - SpeedinBullet2Hell

"Mi-cha here. Maria, you know this crap triggers me! Why you think you should own a series that has excessive violence and a atrocious fanbase is beyond me! Please, oh PLEASE get rid of them!" - Michacha

"Mi-cha, you do realize that my now-deceased mother owned these, right? They're one of the last possessions of her I still own. And just because some JJBA fans are bad doesn't make me bad either. If it triggers you so goddamn much, just ignore it." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for not giving out candy during Halloween because of my severe coconut allergy?
This happened at Halloween and we have a “No Trick or Treating” sign. It reads:

ATTENTION: WE DON'T HAVE CANDY! THE PERSON WHO LIVES HERE HAS A SEVERE COCONUT ALLERGY SHE NEARLY DIED IN 2009 BECAUSE OF HER ALLERGIC REACTION NO TRICK-OR-TREATING IN HERE! IF YOU MIGHT HAVE COCONUT LEAVE AT YOUR OWN RISK! PLEASE TRY NEXT DOOR! -The Owner

It’s for many reasons because Mi-Yung, seeing how she is deaf, cannot hear the door knock, she also cannot be left by herself.

One of the prime reasons is I have an severe allergy to coconuts, and the gang can’t ensure my safety and it’s best for me to stay home, Lei and Devi check Xiu-mei and Akara’s candy, even touching the wrappers can make me extremely sick, another is accidental poisoning because of Feng working with poisons.

Now, I was playing JoJo HFTF with Longwei when we heard a door knock and Liu Wei opened the door, It was a mother with her son dressed as Superman.

Now, the main issue is that this lady completely ignored the sign not to trick or treat here:

Kid: “Trick or treat!”

Liu Wei: “I’m sorry, we don’t have candy. Please try next door.”

Kid’s mom: “Please give my son some candy, he’s been looking forward to Halloween all year long.”

Liu Wei then explained about one of the people living here having a severe coconut allergy, but it didn’t work out:

Liu Wei: “One of the people who lives with me has a severe coconut allergy, your son might have coconut, it’s better safe than sorry. Why don't you try next door?”

Few moments later, the mom and kid wouldn’t leave, It was starting to annoy me.

Now, As a gang girl, I nearly died in 2009 from an allergic reaction and a doctor had to be called in, The doctor said it was best I wouldn’t go trick or treating, I was given an EpiPen paid by the triad network, Xiu-mei and Akara understand that coconuts can’t be brought in.

During my week-stay at home, I completely shut down until Liu Wei and Longwei decided to cheer me up by dressing up as Jotaro and DIO.

Kid’s mom: “You must give my son candy, It’s Halloween!”

I was starting to get incredibly annoyed, Not only I fucked up a combo, but this woman was willing to potentially put my life at risk for just a few treats, her kid could probably be fucking poisoned because of Feng.

Me: “I’m allergic!”

The kid started crying.

Kid: “I WANT CANDY!”

Longwei had enough.

Longwei: "Lady, please leave, now or else I will take measures"

Later, he slammed the door and went back to playing with me.

I actually had some of her friends telling me I was over exaggerating my allergy, Bitch, I nearly died in 2009 because of my fucking allergy and I was “selfish” for denying candy to a kid.

So, AITA?

Comments
"You're the biggest asshole ever! That kid should've been given treats! You probably faked a coconut allergy to get them away!" - TheBiggestKarenEver

"TheBiggestKarenEver (how ironic), did you even read the story? Maria almost died in 2009 because of her allergy, and Feng could've ended up poisoning the candy and risking the child's life. The mother should've been more considerate." - XanaxMountain12

"A friend of mine, Rachel had a father named Gregory who also had a coconut allergy, so that's why he can't hand out treats nor go trick-or-treating. EVER. He even put up a no trick-or-treating sign here so trick-or-treaters can't trick-or-treat here. He would stay at home and watch Halloween movies with his kids." - BisexualAndProud2031

"While I had a severe egg allergy, I held up a sign on my front door that says "DO NOT TRICK OR TREAT HERE. THE OWNER WHO LIVES HERE HAS A SEVERE EGG ALLERGY! IF YOU MIGHT HAVE EGG, PLEASE LEAVE AT YOUR OWN RISK AND AT ALL COST!". Hell, I even locked the front door and stood at home to watch It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown!. I never went trick-or-treating nor that I handed out candy, but it's a good thing I had to stay at home. It happened in 1999 (where I was 13 years old) a Halloween episode of Spongebob Squarepants was on and it was called "Scaredy Pants". Mom ordered some delicious pizza from Pizza Hut and I stood at home with my 15-year-old sister, Clover. My dad is Bender from Futurama, my mom is dressed as Britney Spears from the "...Baby One More Time" music video, Clover is Blossom from The Powerpuff Girls and I was Spongebob." - eggallergyman33

"Okay, I had a problem with my neighbor. (I don't mind her) She had a severe peanut allergy and she's 27 years old. She had to put up a sign that says "No trick-or-treating" and lock the front door so kids won't come." - And3Quarters

"So apparently, I had a severe egg allergy. When I was younger, I have been to several Halloween parties and stood at home multiple times instead of trick-or-treating and handing out candy because of said severe egg allergy. Back in 2019, I'd let my husband Greg take my two daughters, Kelsey (14) and Riley (13) trick-or-treating, but it's a good thing I put up a "no trick-or-treating" sign and locked up the door." - GirlMom80

AITA for shouting at a NatDexer for yelling at my “niece” and snatching her birthday gift while we were buying SWSH and a Dragonite plush.
This happened on Xiu-mei’s 5th birthday, Now, in case you lot haven’t known or been living under a rock since last year, Game Freak had to cut the number of Pokémon in SWSH from 896 to 400, Over 200 were added back through DLC and updates, Crown Tundra comes out October 22nd, which is great.

I understand that fans are pissed. I’m a little pissed at Game Freak myself, but nothing ever excuses death threats or even fucking trying to hijack a Twitter feed about Black Lives Matter. It actually made me feel bad for GF’s employees having to listen to their bullshit.

Now, my view on BringBackNationalDex is that there’s a time and a place for everything. If BBND is something you support, that's one thing, but please STFU and let the fans enjoy it or when it’s not even about Pokémon!

And also, please do not take your anger and disappointment out on fucking children!

Now, Xiu-mei got a Nintendo Switch and wanted to play a Pokémon game for a while, she has played a bit of Ultra Moon and did episode RR for me, She did have difficulty with Lysandre and Giovanni though, but she did her best and we praised her for it, We actually did a livestream of her playing it, she said that Maxie and Ghetsis were her favorite boss battles, she wasn’t even startled when the latter pushed Lillie and held her hostage.

So, We went down and decided to buy the Pokémon Sword and Shield Dual Combo set, I promised I would get her the DLC, I went with her parents aswell.

My niece also thinks Dragonite are adorable and wanted a plush toy, I found one and allowed her to hold her gifts up until we got to the till, Now, due to the pandemic, paper money is discouraged so her dad put her birthday money in his account and allowed her to pay for them.

When we got to the till, A guy wearing a shirt with the BBND logo on it snatched the game out of Xiu-mei’s hands and put the game Digimon: Cyber Sleuth Complete Edition in her hands, Now, I already own this game, Xiu-mei is a little too young for Digimon, especially later seasons.

Lei: “What are you doing?!”

Let’s call him BBND Guy.

BBND Guy: “I’m doing her a favor. Who wants to play a game where not all the Pokémon are in it?!”

Now, Digimon Cyber Sleuth Complete Edition features 341, which is a bit of a hypocrisy point as Digimon did this for generations.

Cashier: “Sir, you need to give it back right now.”

BBND Guy: “No way! New Pokémon fans deserve better than this shit.”

He then pointed at the Dragonite doll,

BBND Guy: “Don't get too attached to him. He’s probably not gonna be in the next game.”

Xiu-mei looked like she wanted to leave the store now, not only she was getting a little impatient, This is something she doesn’t know about or gives a shit.

Xiu-mei: “Give them back! It's not nice to take things from people!”

BBND Guy: “No! I am doing YOU a damn favor! Do you want to be fucking ripped off? You’re paying more for only 400 Pokémon about of 896 and the DLC!”

Xiu-mei looked like she was about to cry, me and Lei stepped in.

Me: “What the fuck is your problem?! I get it, 400 out of 896! That doesn't give you a fucking right to take your anger out on a five-year old girl!”

Lei ended up snatching the game out of BBND Guy’s hands, He then picked up Xiu-mei and allowed her to use the PIN, the cashier felt bad for her as she began crying.

After buying her gifts, she cried in her father’s hands, she got yelled at by a complete fucking stranger!

The guy was later kicked out, turns out he tried to discourage consumers from buying Sword and Shield at three different stores.

Xiu-mei calmed down after we got home, her father even sat through Cells at Work! and Pokémon: XY with her and even let her put bows in his hair.

TL;DR: NatDexer yells at five-year old child for wanting SWSH and tried to tell us to buy Digimon: Cyber Sleuth Complete Edition instead.

Comments
"And people wonder why I'm against the BBND movement!" - TheInksters

"Dude sounds like a baby stuck in an adult body. How low does he have to be to berate a little girl just for buying a video game he doesn't like?" - DraggedIntoHelvete

"This is the 'BBND Guy' here. This Xiu-mei girl has no right to buy a $60 game that only has half of the damn Pokemon! And BE!Maria and Lei, how dare you berate me for trying to stop her! One day, I will nuke the Game Freak headquarters for ripping real Pokémon fans like me!" - BBNDMovementIsEpic

"This is Xiu-mei's father. How the fuck are you gonna yell at my daughter just because she bought a game you despise? You do realize I'm a sociopath, right? If we weren't in public, I would've murdered your ass! And no real Pokémon fan would do what your dumbass did. And good luck trying to nuke the GF headquarters, basement dweller." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

”On the behalf of BringBackNationalDex, I’m fucking sorry for this asshole, I dislike the cut dex, but there’s probably Pokémon your daughter likes, I really dislike the cut Dex, but no....” - Arabella6278

AITA for telling a visitor to stop thinking her views matter more than her sibling‘s views?
Hey, If you’ve seen Hope Plank’s AITA, then you’ve come to the right place.

Now, I met her, she’s actually pretty chill, but in no way an angel, She bans her siblings from watching Ponyo because she thinks it’s “childish and stupid” and not as good as other Studio Ghibli flicks, now, I’ve watched Ponyo with Xiu-mei aswell as My Neighbor Totoro, she loves both equally.

I also like games, movies and TV shows critics thought was shit, I play Jump Force, I can agree the graphics aren’t that decent, but fuck......The amount of idiots complaining about not enough female characters, It’s based off a fucking shonen manga magazine! I hate fucking people who think foreign properties like Shonen Jump should appeal to these pussies!

Now, I called her out by telling her to stop listening to these biased critics, Lei watches fucking gory Japanese war crime flicks, Jiayi and I dislike them, doesn’t stop Lei from watching them, he has an interest in the Nanking Massacre in particular.

And after that fiasco, she donated her younger brother’s Nine Inch Nail CDs and merch because she thought it would make him a Columbiner. Seriously? That's like if Longwei donated my JJBA mangas because he thought it would make me a toxic fan of the show (Note: Longwei doesn't hate JJBA, seeing that he enjoys the series with me as well).

I don’t even like Kanye West. I'm more of a rock and metal person myself. And yet, she expects people to listen to ‘good musicians and movies’ like Kanye and shun ‘bad musicians and movies’. I ended up commenting on one of her posts by saying this:

"Hope, selling Tyson's CDs just because you thought he would become a Columbiner is absolutely ridiculous. Just because someone listens to NIN doesn't mean they endorse the Columbine shooters. Let your siblings listen to NIN if they want to!"

She told me it was for his own good, some of her friends even defended her actions, so, am I the asshole for calling her out for being a holier-than-thou know-it-all who bans shit because she hates it and being a Moral Guardian who thinks listening to NIN makes someone wanna shoot up a school?

Comments
"I strongly disagree with Hope's decision to sell Tyson's NIN CDs. I listen to the band too, and I'm not a Columbiner at all. Fuck Eric and Dylan!" - MaziKyu10

"Hope sounds like a Karen for trying to ban music and movies that she considers 'evil'. Not even religious conservatives are like this!" - Freedom4BobbyHill

"I can see why a lot of people don't like Hope. I also liked Jump Force too, even though there weren't a lot of female characters in that game." - SoborTates

AITA for telling Elizabeth Forever that only Lei wants to kill Chao Qing-lai and not her and judging him for being a father aswell as having a violent past?
If you don’t know who Elizabeth Forever is, she’s this woman who believes in “punishing“ abusive parents, but even those who have the right intentions like Nicole, Nicole’s a little hard on the boys, but they tend to piss her off.

Now, one thing Lei’s made very clear to us, if he finds his biological father again, he’ll be the one to kill him, not anyone else, just him and Jiayi, considering all the pain from childbirth to now, it’s understandable.

Qing-lai was a rapist, murderer and torturer, it’s no wonder Lei wants him dead.

Now, Lei really hates her and finds her to be nothing more than ”the one who fights monsters” and a bitch who thinks she can’t be wrong.

Elizabeth is also pretty judgmental of Lei as a parent, Now, Lei is a sociopath with a terrible childhood, was in snuff films as a prepubescent boy, forced to kill animals at the age he should have been watching Pokémon’s first season and abused by his second set of foster parents, now, we did have concerns about Lei raising a child, he absolutely adores Xiu-mei and gives her the better parental care he never got when he was her age, she believed Lei was going to abuse her when she’s older.

Now, when Elizabeth spoke about punishing Jiayi and Lei’s father and killing him in the Abuser Chute, Lei pushed her against a wall.

Elizabeth: "Hey! Why would you do that?!"

Lei: ”Elizabeth, listen to me very carefully: My father is only for me to kill, not you. You’re not a vigilante for justice against child abuse, you’re just an annoying, self-righteous bitch who is no better than the abusive assholes you go after. If you’re going to judge me because I was born from rape, made to act in snuff films, abused by my father, starved and mistreated by my second foster parents, and having no positive male role model in my life, then we’re gonna have a fucking problem. Listen here Ms. Moral Guardian, if it’s anyone killing my father, it’s going to be me and my sister, bitch!.”

Lei then picked up Xiu-mei and walked away. I then stated that if anyone wants to kill Qing-lai, it’s going to be Lei and Jiayi. If that sick asshole is still alive and we find out where he is, Lei said he will stab him to death while his sister mutilates his limbs.

Me and Lei got messages from her supporters telling us that Elizabeth means well, that she’s not a self-righteous hypocrite and other shit.

So, are me and Lei the asshole for telling her that it’s going to be Lei to kill his father?

Comments
"It doesn't really matter who kills Qing-lai. I knew him personally and he was an absolute jerk! I don't know where he is now, since no one's heard of him for some time, but I hope Lei and Jiayi get some justice from their poor excuse of a father." - AliciaInChains

"Lei, did you really have to push me against the wall? I get you hate your dad, but then say I'm just as bad as the abusive parents? What?" - IHateAbusiveParentsSoMuch!

"Elizabeth, I pushed you against the wall because I was frustrated on you keep on proclaiming that you'd kill him and shit. I'd really prefer if it was me and Jiayi doing it, because he's the asshole that committed all of these shitty crimes and disposed us like we were fucking disposable diapers! So Elizabeth, if you happen to come across my ass scum of a father, just call us up and we'll take care of it." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for destroying a memorial for Josephine and Derek's memorial?
For those who don't know, I killed those people Josephine and Derek for killing my mom. The incident happened a few days ago and I'm still upset.

We took a trip to Miami for some business in our gang. As I was walking, I saw a memorial for Josephine and Derek that said this:

"RIP Josephine and Derek the sweet little angels. Screw NIjūichi for killing them!"

Now, this couldn’t be Josie Jr, she actually called her mother “the most vile human being” ever and her grandfather “a repulsive asshole”, turns out a distant relative who had no idea what they did had done this

I was furious! Not only do they think that Josephine and Derek were "sweet little angels", but they vilify me for killing them after they killed my mother!

Enraged, I grabbed a nearby hammer and I smashed that crap into many pieces at night. The people from the memorial saw this and kicked me out, threatening to call the police if I didn't leave, I told them that they drove my mother to an early grave.

I now get messages from the Josephine and Derek defenders led by their stupid distant relative calling me out for being disrespectful and wished I rotted in hell. So AITA?

Comments
"NTA! That memorial was stupid!" - KOKOMitti

"What the fuck? Maria, I usually side with you, but you kinda went too far to do that. I understand you hate Josephine and Derek, but you could've just ignored that crappy memorial. It wasn't like Alicia's crazy mom having a memorial for a dead fetus Tanisha hated." - DarylCoat1

"Yeah, YTA. Destroying a memorial like this is completely dumb, regardless of who it is." - RicoNicoNiii

Later, BE!Maria posted this.

“To those who said YTA, Let me tell you all something, you all have no idea how he mistreated my family and me as a whole, He tried to snatch me off my mother when I was a baby, did it again as a toddler, Stole my toys and things to give to his kids, broke my mom’s arms while we were getting ready for the day, he falsely accused my grandpa of sexually abusing me several times, abused his wife, gaslighted his two older kids and his daughter wasn’t any better, she was a sociopathic asshole who took delight that I lost my parents and living in youth hostels, He drove my parents to their graves!”

"Damn... Now I can kinda understand why you destroyed the memorial." - DarylCoat1

AITA for telling someone to stop telling us what films and music we should play?
Okay, Hope Plank is seriously starting to get on my nerves.

For this shit, I've met with Hope and her family again, we went to the gang hideout, One thing to know about Hope is that she really fucking hates Ponyo, and I did actually call her out on this, but she did cross the line.

Xiu-mei was watching Ponyo in the living room with her father, now, we don't think Xiu-mei is the right age for Grave of the Fireflies due to some of its graphic scenes and we plan to show it to her when she's older, She likes Ponyo and My Neighbor Totoro.

The kids went to sit and watch it with her, Lei didn't seem to mind despite him not going near other kids, now, Hope had this ban on Ponyo for her siblings, including what she thinks are 'bad movies' and 'bad music'.

Hope took the remote and said she was gonna change the movie to Spirited Away, but she was stopped by Xiu-mei, telling her "If you turn Ponyo off, I will be upset and daddy will be very angry with you"

Despite this, Hope tried to get her to watch GOTF, which got Lei really pissed and said this:

"What the hell is your goddamn problem? You're seriously gonna change the movie to Spirited Away or even Grave of the Fireflies just because you despise Ponyo? I don't even want my daughter to watch the latter at the moment due to its graphic scenes. We've already talked with you several times about doing this shit, and we've told you to stop it, and you STILL keep doing it! Just stop, and let my daughter watch Ponyo if she wants to!"

Hope took her siblings and left, but not before she tried to hand Xiu-mei a list of movies not to watch and recommended she watched Nostalgia Critic. We're not even fond of NC due to a decline in the quality of recent episodes, the infamous "The Wall" review, and the Not So Awesome documents exposing the business.

Comments
"Jesus... I thought Hope would've learned. Now she's trying to stop other kids from watching movies? Hope, if you're reading this, please let Xiu-mei watch Ponyo if she wants to." - PinkPegasus1999

Is my friend the asshole for not allowing his ‘foster mom’ to see his daughter?
Hey, I’m posting this on the behalf of Lei, one of my fellow gang members.

To start this off, Lei and Jiayi had a horrible childhood and teen years, Lei and Jiayi’s father, Qing-lai was a rapist and murderer, he kidnapped a 17-year old schoolgirl named Xiu-lan and the twins were the result of that rape, Xiu-lan died 7 hours later after giving birth.

Now, both were in two foster homes, the first one was a Christian foster home, they were well-meaning and assumed Jiayi and Lei were traumatized children in need of love and care, ignored Lei’s sociopathic tendencies, they were there for a week until Lei put a hamster in a microwave.

Their second home is the embodiment of pieces of shit, abusive, cruel and violent, Lei was starved to the point he developed binge eating, Jiayi was emotionally abused by them, They were there for several years until running away from home.

Now, Jennifer, or bitch as Lei and Jiayi call her think she’s entitled to see Xiu-mei, Gareth died in 2015 from alcohol poisoning, coincidentally when Xiu-mei was born, August 17.

The problem is she managed to get in contact with Lei after she found out Lei had a kid from Penelope after both met after over a decade, Penelope has a kid named Caroline and has a boyfriend, well ex after what Lei told him what really went on.

Now this bitch who doesn’t deserve to be called a mother thinks she’s entitled to the custody of Xiu-mei because of Lei’s sociopathy and mental health problems.

She called Lei at 4:30 am.

Lei: “這到底是誰？” (Who the hell is this?).

Xiu-mei often sleeps in the same bad as her father and will often wake up if Lei takes too long to get back to bed.

Jennifer: “Is this Lei?”

When Lei realized who it was, he went upstairs to the bathroom to avoid waking his wife and daughter,

Lei: “If this is about Xiu-mei, fuck off, You’ll never be a great parent to her.”

Jennifer: “You, a great parent?! You set my daughter’s clothes on fire, burned a hamster, tortured people and you think you’re a better parent than me, you stupid brat?!”

Lei: “At least I didn’t starve my child, You starved me so many times that I ended up developing binge eating until I developed a stomach ulcer and your bitch of a daughter claims she, your fucker of a dead husband and you did nothing wrong, You and her called my sister a whore after she was nearly raped, Your husband tried to starve me because of my race and mental issues and your bitch of a daughter had the nerve to mock me because I was so hungry!”

Lei when he joined was basically afraid of food being taken away from him and got upset if we ran out for today, he was like an eating machine back as a teen, he did end up developing a stomach ulcer due to binge eating.

Their call lasted for 15 minutes, then I heard “滾走再見， 婊子 ！ (Fuck off and goodbye, bitch!)” then saw Lei going out of the bathroom, I told him to make his call shorter because I nearly pissed on the floor, I regret drinking all that wine.

He told me that Jennifer thinks she’s entitled to having custody of Lei’s own daughter because she can’t accept it’s her fault Lei and Jiayi ran away from home.

Lei is now getting messages from Jennifer's friends calling him "selfish" and "entitled" for not giving Jennifer custody of Xiu-mei and saying he's "too crazy" to be a good father.

TL;DR: Abusive stepmother demands Lei giver her full custody of his daughter. He tells her no.

Comments
"He isn't the asshole! Jennifer is a crackhead who needs to be sent to an insane asylum if she thinks she can meet her granddaughter. She should go fuck off!" - MarilynMansonFan1666

"I've read Lei's story about her before, and lemme say that this 'woman' is incredibly fucked up. That bitch needs to beat herself with a monk flail for three straight months before she even thinks of doing something like this." - MiaCyrus14

AITA for refusing to give a limited Pikachu plush to my friend’s bratty daughter?
Hello again, This is Maria and I need to ask this.

I ordered a Pikachu Pokémon Center Kanazawa limited edition plush, now it is a female Pikachu (tail ends in a heart shape) wearing a kimono and a flower on her left ear, One of my favorite kinds of Pokémon plush toys is Pikachu in different costumes, Akara and Xiu-mei own some of them, but this one is mine.

It finally arrived and she was an adorable little thing, One of Josie’s mom friends was over, let’s call her Cathy and her 4-year old Vicki, Now if Vicki wants something, she’ll have it, This puts her at odds with Xiu-mei and Akara.

Now, Vicki is bratty, her mother doesn’t discipline and spoils the shit out of her, she screams constantly and gets what she wants it when she wants it.

Now, When I opened up Setsuko (節子), Vicki began to scream

Now, I paid this with my own money, It’s a limited edition plush, and I am in now way inclined to give it to your child

Vicki: “I WANT IT! I WANT IT! GIVE IT TO ME!”

Then Cathy stood up and tried to snatch Setsuko out of my hands, Now despite my height, I’m actually pretty strong.

Cathy: “Give it to her Maria, You’re not a child!”

Cathy tried to take toys off Xiu-mei and Akara before.

She struggled before I pushed her, Don’t you dare fucking touch me, bitch.

Vicki was still throwing a tantrum and during that time, I was not allowed to bring Setsuko downstairs in case she saw her and snatched her off me, Vicki has done that before with Xiu-mei’s Pikachu plushies.

Then Vicki decided she needed her Peppa Pig blanket and not her Disney Princess blanket and they went home.

Now, I get texts from Cathy calling me a “selfish attention whore”, “bitch” and “a child abuser”

So, AITA?

Comments
"YTA!!! YTA!!! YTA!!! I deserve that plush! You're an adult and adults don't have toys!" - VickiThePrincess

"Vicki, you are not entitled to my plush toys. The fact that you think you can just snatch them off of people is beyond me. You should know better." MariaTachimi1981

"I agree with Maria. Vicki, you can't have all the toys in the world. You're more spoiled than Veruca Salt from Willy Wonka!" - AnkaHans

AITA for refusing to help an obsessive anti-SJW in doxing liberal journalists?
This happened a few days ago and it's still crazy to think this happened.

We're anti-SJWs, but we're nothing like this guy named Rick. He runs an active channel on Bitchute where he considers SJWs as "the living devils" and actually goes out his way to harass left-leaning people. He once made a 13-year-old online almost kill herself because he was so pissed that she supported BLM and considered them "a terrorist group like ISIS".

His anti-SJW philosophy only got worse when Joe Biden was elected president. He's been making all kinds of accusations of Biden that I don't even feel comfortable typing in because they're so batshit insane. He also believes that the election was rigged and that the Democrats cheated, despite there being no evidence of foul play happening.

One day, I saw him running up some software. When I asked him what it was, he said that he was gonna dox some journalists who are known to be liberals and have their lives ruined by some false accusations or some shit. He even had the audacity to ask me to assist him. I really wasn't about to let this fool do that shit, so I shut down the program and said this:

"Look, I get you are against SJWs. I am too. But that doesn't give you a right to fucking dox these innocent people and ruin their lives like that. You make the sane anti-SJWs like me look bad. Now unless you're in a mood for prison and living the burden of ruining the lives of others, then I suggest you stop this shit."

I now get messages from his friends that I am a "triggered little libtard" for stopping his doxing and suggest that I get doxxed as well.

Comments
"NTA. Rick's plan is absolutely deplorable!" - RayconBroz102

"Hey Maria, is Rick some sort of neo-Nazi? Or at the very least, far-right?" - ADLForTheWin92

"As far as me and the gang are aware of, no. However, he did score this on the Political Compass, so he's similar to Margaret Thatcher politically." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for telling a SJW to fuck off over my friend’s Nazi Germany book collection after he refused to give back a book on the Nazi SS that Fumei got him as a wedding gift?
Hey, I’m back again with Lei, me and him want to know this.

We had someone over with us, let’s call this guy Kevin (Feel free to make your Kevin jokes in the comments section), Lei has a huge collection of books on genocides and war crimes, this ranges from the Armenian Genocide, the Trail of Tears to the Nanking Massacre, one topic Lei is into is the Holocaust, he’s no Neo-Nazi, actually very far from that, one of his victims he killed at the age of 21 was a Neo-Nazi extremist who murdered a Holocaust survivor,

Now, Lei’s interest in the Holocaust is something neither of us have a problem with, Lei doesn’t really like Nazis and doesn’t like those National Socialist bands, There’s a fine line between reading about the Nazis and the Holocaust and having an interest, then there’s being a Neo Nazi.

Kevin took a personal issue with Lei reading about the Schutzstaffel, he then took it upon himself to snatch it off Lei.

Kevin: “What the hell are you doing?!”

Kevin then went on a rant how people shouldn’t own books on the Nazis because it leads to Neo-Nazism and Holocaust denial, he even went so low to accuse Lei of being an Axis apologist, Lei is Chinese, Macau Chinese to be specific, and never try to accuse him of such shit, Lei’s been to Nanking Massacre memorial days when we travel to China in December and Holocaust Memorial Days where we visit museums to learn about the Holocaust.

Kevin: “You’re probably gonna make and force Xiu-mei to read this, aren’t you?!”

Lei had enough then punched him hard, Lei and Jiayi grew up in a life I can say is basically worse than death, abused and beaten by his mother’s rapist then sent to two foster homes.

Kevin went in a huff then fucked off, he is now trying to use Feng’s fucking poison lab as a safe space from Lei and won’t be in the same room as him, then I told him as long as Lei isn’t harming or being a Neo Nazi, we’ll happily let him keep his books.

He then called me an “abuse apologist” and told me I was the one to talk and spoke about all the horrible things Japan did in WWII and before that, Dude, my grandpa was like....12 and living in the states at the time of Nanking, what the fuck?, I then told him to stop being a self-righteous jerkass who thinks everyone who has an interest in the Nazis is a Neo Nazi in the making and stop treating Lei as such.

Comments
"NTA. Kevin really thinks that anyone who is remotely interested in the Nazi's, even if they don't condone their actions, is automatically a neo-Nazi? Smh." - RuggedMountainTerrainer23

"I actually used to be part of a neo-Nazi group before I left after a change of heart. Kevin, if you're reading this, it's okay for Lei to own these books if he's using it to learn about them because the only way we can stop the hatred of Nazism is if we learn about them and find ways to counter-attack their beliefs." - ExNeoNazi44

Is my friend the asshole for bringing up his young daughter an atheist?
This just happened when Xiu-mei was in that crappy kindergarten and we need to know this.

Now, because of Lei’s horrid childhood, he believed God’s tolerance, seeking redemption from hell and love don’t exist in a ‘cruel and disgusting world like the one he was brought up in’, and refuses to raise his daughter as a Christian, now, Lei actually has a few Christian friends and they’re completely okay with his choice,

Now, if Lei is to be believed, his daughter got in ‘trouble’ for being disruptive and disrespectful during a visit from a reverend, Xiu-mei had told the priest ‘she doesn’t read the Bible”, and after class, Xiu-mei was made to sit by herself and not allowed to play with her classmates as punishment, When Lei drove up, he found his daughter sobbing and the reverend wouldn’t let him comfort his daughter until Lei slapped him much to shock of her teacher, telling him to ‘piss off’ and yelling at him for judging a mere four-year old girl because of how he raised her, She only said she doesn’t read the Bible, she’s quite indifferent to religion all together, she doesn’t give a fuck about religion, This guy blew up at a FOUR-YEAR OLD GIRL!

She told him he yelled at her about being an atheist is a one-way ticket to hell and just verbally abused her the whole time.

The reverend got pissed off at Lei for this, telling him he was a devil since birth, then Lei yelled he was proud of that, He then gave him the middle finger and walked out with Xiu-mei, The church where the reverend was from was utterly disgusted with him for yelling at a four-year old girl because her father is an atheist and raised her as one.

Lei, however did get scolded for smacking the guy across the face and giving him the finger by a younger reverend who visited him and Xiu-mei and told him he’s not a ‘12-year old boy on a soccer team’, he’s a grown man, the younger reverend then gave Xiu-mei some candies to say sorry for how she was poorly treated, he said the reverend that scolded Xiu-mei had complaints before and he was no longer going to be giving sermons or anything, the other people who worked for the church were pretty fucking disgusted.

When we met the guy’s son when we were in a shopping mall, he was utterly appalled and actually gave us $160, which was nice, Xiu-mei even said thank you to him.

The younger reverend was actually a pretty cool guy and told her even if she doesn’t believe in God, he still believes God accepts everyone, even atheists, this guy was Lei’s age, the one who got fired was in his sixties,

Lei now gets messages from this corrupt asshole’s supporters that he and Xiu-mei will be going to hell for not believing in God, however, the thing is, Lei told me Xiu-mei can choose whatever religion she likes when she’s older, just telling her God and Love don’t exist in cruel and vile places.

TL;DR: Sixty-something manchild reverend yells at a four-year old girl for being an atheist and her father got pissed off, gets slapped, Lei gets called a ‘devil’, which Lei proudly admits, priest gets fired.

Comments
"Dang. Don't worry, Maria. That crazy old man who verbally abused Xiu-mei does NOT represent us Christians. I honestly don't blame Lei for slapping him!" - ChristiantheChristian

"NTA! What the reverend old fuck did was disgraceful! He should never join another church again for that!" - PerryThePlatipus

"Oh my goodness... people like him are the reason why us Christians are given a bad name by most non-believes. God loves ALL of his children, even those who don't believe him. I hope he learns to be respectful to others." - ReverendRaggaeton

AITA for ending our friendship with Hope Plank after she destroyed my friend's Deicide CD?
If you've been on my AITA stories before, you'd probably know about Hope Plank. She's done some fucked up shit before like sell Tyson's NIN albums and even attempted to stop Xiu-mei from watching Ponyo because she hated the movie that damn much. However, what she did was the last straw.

Now, Lei is into extreme heavy metal and particularly likes death metal bands like Cannibal Corpse, Deicide, Necrophagia, Mortician, and more. However, Hope doesn't like death metal and bans her siblings from listening to it because she's thinks the music is too violent. I can understand someone not liking the genre, but what she did was way too damn far.

She was visiting us and brought over Maria, Lianne, and Lilian when she saw the twins pick up a CD for Deicide's self-titled album. She feared that the twins were gonna listen to it, and so she took it, grabbed a hammer, and smashed the CD. Problem is, that CD was Lei's. When he saw what she did, he took the hammer away from her and slapped her so hard, you could hear it a mile away.

Lei: (trying his hardest to hold his rage) What the fucking shit?! Why the hell are you destroying my fucking CD?!

Hope: My twins were about to play it, and I ban my kids from listening to Deicide because that band is too inappropriate for them!

Fumei: So you decided the best course of action was to smash it? You could've just gave it to my husband and have him put it away somewhere where your siblings couldn't get it, but destroy it? What the fuck?

Hope: Well you know what, Lei? Next time, don't be leaving around your terrible albums around!

What really pissed off Lei was that the Deicide CD was a gift from a friend of Lei and Jiayi’s who had committed suicide after he was falsely accused of being a pedophile for leading Xiu-mei after her father took a little long to buy ice cream, I had never seen Lei so heartbroken when he found out one of the closest things he had to an uncle for Xiu-mei committed suicide, he spent tonight crying after Xiu-mei was put to bed in the bathrooml

Lei: “I’m not your fucking twins’ daddy, I’m Xiu-mei’s, It’s not my responsibility to monitor your fucking children because of your alpha 500 IQ brain who thinks her opinions are fucking facts, Even Xiu-mei knows not to touch my CDs without permission!”

I saw all of this and decided that enough was enough.

Me: You know what, Hope? We're fucking done. If you're gonna keep on flipping your shit just because people enjoy stuff that you hate, then we can't be friends anymore. Take your siblings and leave. You're no longer welcome here.

Hope then took her siblings and left while she promised us she won't visit TT10 again. She had to pay Lei $15 to replace the CD. Longwei later told me that while he was against Hope smashing the disc, he felt that ending our friendship was a bit too much. So AITA?

Comments
"I knew it! I knew Hope would snap! And this is why I hate her!" - TysonPlank1688

"This is Hope Plank here. Lei, I'm very sorry for destroying your CD. I know I should've just put it away, but I was too upset. Maria, I hope you can forgive me." - BobDylanYesBurzumNo

"Hey Hope. I appreciate you apologizing, but we can't be friends anymore. You've done this shit to us too many times and we can only handle so much of it. Goodbye..." - MariaTachimi1981

“Fuck off, apology not accepted, That Deicide CD you fucking destroyed because you can’t be a responsible bitch and gave it to me, just happened to be a gift from my late friend who was one of the only people nice to me in that shithole high school on my 33rd birthday, He got falsely accused of being a pedophile and committed suicide after a fucking hate campaign, his crime was basically leading Xiu-mei to fucking find me!, You took away one of the few sentimental things I was given and one of the memories I had of him.......屌你老母! (Fuck you!)” - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

Is Lei the asshole for destroying Hope Plank's cake?
If you saw the last story I did, I ended my friendship with Hope Plank because she destroyed Lei's Deicide CD, one that he got from his now deceased friend. She tried to make it up for it, but things didn't go well to say the least...

Me, Lei, Xiu-mei, and Fumei came back from eating at a restaurant when Feng and Longwei warned us that a special guest was coming.

Longwei: Some special guest came and said they wanted to talk to you.

Me: Who is it?

Feng: I don't know if we can reveal them yet...

Hope: It's me!

We saw Hope, but I felt surprised, but Lei look upset.

Lei: What the hell are you doing here?! I thought I told you not to see me or my family again!

Hope: I know, but I've done some thinking, and I think it's time to make things right.

Me: What are you leading up to this?

Hope then brought out a big cake that said "I'm sorry, Lei!". It looked like she spent a fortune on that cake!

Hope: Lei, I am deeply sorry that I destroyed your Deicide CD. I didn't knew it was from a deceased friend of yours, and I can assure you that if you accept this apology, then I will never get mad at you all for liking a movie/music album I don't personally enjoy.

Lei: After all the shit you've done to us and this is what you do?

Lei then did the craziest thing ever! He took the cake and slammed it on Hope's face! It was crazy!

Hope: WHAT THE FUCK?!?! WHY DID YOU DO THAT?!?! I WORKED VERY HARD ON THAT CAKE!!!

Lei: No! What you did to my CD was completely unforgivable!

Me: I'm sorry, Hope, but I have to agree with Lei here. What you did was fucked up.

Fumei: Yeah, please get out.

Hope: (crying) THIS IS WHY I DON'T DO NICE THINGS TO PEOPLE!!!

Hope then ran away crying like a baby. Longwei and Feng were upset with Lei, saying that he shouldn't have slammed the cake on Hope's face like what they do in Violette1st. However, Fumei and Xiu-mei also defended Lei and said that it was karma for everything Hope did.

Fumei: She deserved it. What made her think that giving Lei cake would make up for destroying a sentimental item of his?

Xiu-mei: Yeah. I thought it was funny for daddy to slam the cake on her face! I don’t usually laugh at stuff, but it reminds me of cartoons!

So is Lei at fault here?

Comments
"NTA! Hope deserved it!" - KOKOMitti

"Hope, if you're reading this comment, just move on from this. It's obvious that the gang isn't gonna forgive you for breaking Lei's CD, and you've done similar stuff before. Remember when I literally had to handcuff you to prevent you from destroying the van because Tyson and his friends were gonna take it to go to a Lil Xan concert?" - ValentinDaSailor38

"That actually happened? Jesus fucking Christ..." - MariaTachimi1981

== AITA for telling the vegan sister of my friend’s Italian girlfriend soon-to-be wife to piss off after she had a fit about the three stray cats I took home with me and naming one of them Endeavor after the My Hero Academia character? == This happened at December 31st, on Christmas Day, I found three male stray cats in the next neighborhood, I decided to name them all after characters Patrick Seitz voiced in anime, Dio, Endeavor and Kuíqísī/Fūikèihsī, Dio is a black cat that reminded me of Shadow while Kuíqísī is a Dragon Li cat, I also may think he doesn’t understand any other language other than Mandarin and Cantonese and may have immigrated from China or Hong Kong, I assumed that Kuíqísī/Fūikèihsī‘s family were dead or gone back to China or Hong Kong without him, Didn’t want him anymore or just didn’t give a fuck to speak English to him as he did not listen when spoken to in Korean or Japanese, Endeavor is a Japanese bobtail, I kept Dio, Satomi and Takeshi kept Endeavor and Lei and Jiayi kept Kuíqísī/Fūikèihsī, Kuí/Fūi took an instant liking to Xiu-mei and is a huge sweetheart with her, now, he technically has two names and responds to both, now onto this shit, Both names are derived from Ghetsis’ Chinese and Cantonese names, Fumei and Lei use the Chinese and Cantonese names while Xiu-mei uses both, the cat is a huge sweetheart in general and really loves Xiu-mei, Endeavor himself is a little shy and doesn’t really like company, Dio meows a lot, he basically demands hugs, Zhao agreed to let us keep the cats.

According to the vet, Dio is one, Endeavor is two and Kuíqísī is five months old, still a kitten, Dio is like a protective brother to him and the sickly Endeavor, Who was found suffering a cold.

Joseph’s girlfriend, Francesca has just fallen pregnant with their child and is due to marry him in January, she’s 23 weeks, a private ceremony because of the shitty pandemic that drove me fucking insane and Francesca’s 27-year old sister, Viola.

Viola’s one of those health and environmental nut, She’s also a member of splinter ALF group responsible for murder, She really annoys me and it’s amazing Francesca and Joseph put up with her bullshit, She once told Fumei to stop preparing rice meat dishes because it “makes her sick smelling it”.

Now, I know how to take care of cats, one rule is do NOT put your cat on a fucking vegan diet, since they aren't adapted to such diets.

This happened when Xiu-mei was feeding Kuí/Fūi some cat food and Viola started making gagging noises and yelled at Xiu-mei to take the cat food outside, Hahahahaha, No, Lei told her to piss off, We taught Xiu-mei to care for the new pet cat including feeding, mommy and daddy need to help her with the litterbox though.

Now, Endeavor himself is pretty damn sickly, he was coughing a lot and we did get a veterinarian to look at him and has been prescribed antibiotics and Satomi hugs him like a plushie, I assume Viola read BNHA, because she pulled me over and told me to change Endeavor’s name to something else, I said no, Ironically, It’s safe to say Takeshi’s horrible father is like Endeavor, he told me somewhat likes the character and loves the cat.

I told her if I’m an ‘abuse apologist’, how come I’m here because my fucking neighborhood I grew up in was abusive and toxic and my parents faced that as well and told her the gang members here had abusive fathers and left them for dead, in Lei’s case, tortured him to death.

Francesca speaks poor English and she’s worried about getting used to an Asian-American family, I told her not to worry.

Then Xiu-mei caught Viola sneaking vegan cat food into Kuí’s food bowl and she got really upset, even she knows not to put cats on vegan diets, Lei came over, He then told Francesca to get her sister out and she was banned from the wedding.

She told us we weren’t environmentally friendly because of carnivores, the power consumption and climate change, Now, I’ve met environmental activists, but nowhere near as bad, her boyfriend who was an environmental activist dumped her after she allowed his pet cat to die from malnutrition after she forced a vegan diet on the poor girl, poor cat.....

I now get messages from Viola’s band of misfits calling me an abuse apologist for naming a cat after Endeavor, It’s amazing they didn’t have a go at me for naming a baby kitten after Ghetsis and a cat after Dio Brando,

So, AITA?

Comments
"Oh, you think I didn't noticed you named your cats Ghetsis and Dio, didn't you? Ghetsis is a horrible character! And Dio... oh god, Dio! You know why people give you shit? Because not only do you support abusers, but you also support an extremely violent anime that has an atrocious fanbase! I should not only be allowed back to the wedding, but also let the cats go vegan! The articles that say cats don't go vegan are liars! So Maria, you ARE the asshole, and so is Lei, Fumei, Xiu-mei, and everyone else who sides with your sorry ass!" - ViolaTheVegan

"Jesus Christ... where do I begin? People can like Ghetsis and Dio if they want to, They’re pretty damn popular in their own respective fanbases, And just because JJBA has a shit fanbase doesn't mean I'm like those people, not to mention that the JJBA mangas are the only things I have left of my deceased mother. And yes, cats do not work with vegan diets because they aren't adapted to it! Did you even do any research at all? Of course not! And no I don't support abuse at all, because I went through that shit when I was little. So fuck you! Grow up for once, and leave us the hell alone!" -  MariaTachimi1981

“NTA, I have to admit, using Ghetsis’ Chinese and Cantonese names for a cat is pretty unique, It’s amazing she didn’t notice it, I own cats myself and I know not to put them on a vegan diet, My sister’s been called an ‘abuse apologist’ simply because she likes the Joker from DC and she survived domestic abuse herself” - AppleTree28378

“Really? Jesus Fucking Christ.......” - MariaTachimi1981

“NTA! NTA! NTA! Who does this bitch think she is?!” - DancingQueen2783.

AITA for lashing out at a rude party guest for trying to steal my mangas?
For this one, the base was having a New Years party. Since this happened during the pandemic, capacity was limited and we wore masks and social distanced. While at the party, I took out some of my mangas to read.

About two hour before 2021 hit, I saw a girl walking by. His name was Krisha, and she has a pretty bad reputation at the base. One time, she took Akara's Nintendo 3DS XL and refused to give it back unless her parents paid her $500. Another time was when Krisha went to the Plank family house in Hawaii and egged Hope's car after she found out that she destroyed Lei's Deicide CD. She also recorded the entire thing and posted it on Facebook to humiliate her. While I am against Hope's decision to smash the CD, egging her car was a bit too much, though Lei thought the incident was hilarious. With all the shit she's done, I'm surprised she wasn't banned from the party, let alone the base.

Krisha's time at the party was already poor. She drank all the lemonade, cutted in line multiple times, and in some instances, she got too close to people. What really crossed the line was when she saw my mangas and tried to take them. Now, some of the mangas she grabbed were the JJBA mangas my deceased mother owned. They're the only things I have left of her, and I didn't want to lose them. I catched up with her and took the mangas.'

Me: What the fuck is your goddamn problem, Krisha?! What the fuck made you think that stealing my damn mangas was a good idea? You do realize that my dead mother owned some of these, right? Next time you do that shit, I will do worse than tackle you!

Krisha was kicked out of the party and is due to visit the base's court for theft, where if convicted, will get her kicked out of the base. Krisha and her friends are now blowing up my social media accounts berating me for assaulting her and saying that lashing her out like that was going too far.

Comments
"NTA. Krisha shouldn't be stealing at all. Why would she wanna do something like that?" - MFDoomFan245

"YTA. As a friend of Krisha, this was horrible! She just wanted some free books!" - TrishaKings

"TrishaKings, if you read my post (which you didn't), you would've knew that my deceased mother owned some of these mangas and are the only things I have left of her. Do you honestly think I would let someone steal something so sentimental to me? Fuck no!" - MariaTachimi1981

Is my friend the asshole for having an adult-only wedding (with two exceptions)?
My friend Joseph and his fiancée Francesca are due to be married soon and want an adult-only wedding, Their wedding was delayed due to COVID-19 and we aren’t sure if we can let it go ahead, Now, Joseph made only two exceptions, Akara and Xiu-mei, who are flower girls, both my gang and hers were invited including her father, who speaks poor English and requires his two daughters to translate.

Now, Francesa’s cousin is a textbook entitled bitch, she once snatched Setsuko off Xiu-mei because her own son wanted it, The son is a badly behaved spoiled brat, let me make it clear, he isn’t 4 or 5, He’s freaking 9-years old, He thinks he’s virtually entitled to everything because his grand-uncle is the head of an Italian-American crime syndicate

Francesca’s dad is like a second father to his future son-in-law, he doesn’t care his daughter’s marrying a Korean-Japanese man, she’s happy, he’s happy, the cousin doesn’t like that and thinks Franci should marry an Italian man, She even told her to have an abortion because she wants the baby to be a boy, guess what, It’s a girl, They already planned a name for her, Cho Sa-rang, Named after his mom

Now, Joseph has made it clear no children other than the Flower Girls are to be at his future wedding, soon after the drinking starts, the girls are put to bed,

Her cousin did not take this well and she and her friends sent racist texts and whined why her son can’t attend the wedding, let’s just say she’s uninvited, She was a complete brat and her son wasn’t any better, he once snatched my niece’s White Blood Cell plush unless Lei paid $5000 to his family, Don’t fuck with Xiu-mei when Lei is around.

So, Is my friend the asshole?

Comments
"NTA. It's her party, and she doesn't have to invite everyone. And even without the children restrictions, they still won't be invited because they're such atrocious people!" - FletcherConner024

"Yeah, I agree with Fletcher. If you act entitled and rude, don't be surprised when you're not invited to weddings." - SSSOOOSSS

"ESH. Children should be allowed to be in weddings, and if you're gonna be doing adult stuff, at the very least have a kids-only area. As for her cousin and son, their rude behavior definitely got them banned from the wedding for good. If they wanted to go in, they should've asked nicely!" - DemonAlley444

"NAH. You don't have to invite kids in weddings. And the cousin and her son had every right to be upset. How dare they not go to her cousin's funeral!" - TotalTimmy25

"DemonAlley, the wedding is gonna involve a lot of drinking and adult games, so we can't even designate a kids-only area. And as for you, TotalTimmy, her cousin and son's behavior was utterly unacceptable and we don't condone it. That's why they're not going to be invited to the party." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for calling out on a Pokémon lolicon fan for their bullshit?
For this one, I was in a Pokémon convention with Longwei, Lei, Fumei and Xiu-mei. Since this was during the COVID-19 fiasco, we wore masks and social distanced from others. While walking, we saw some fat guy getting all pervy over some young anime girls on a TV. Now, most girls in the Pokémon series is aged 10-14, and the girls looked preteen in the clips. He then looked at Xiu-mei and gave her this creepy-ass smile.

Lei: I know what you're trying to do, so unless you want your skull fucking cracked, I suggest you go away.

A similar incident happened at an earlier convention where Xiu-mei was almost sexually assaulted by a sex-registered pedophile. Lei would later torture the pedofuck to death. Lei does not fuck around with these types of people. He also killed a necropedophile the other day.

LF (Lolicon Fan): Oh, come on, dude! Serena and Dawn are my favorite characters because they are so hot, and your daughter reminds me of them! You must also be Trump-supporting QAnon freaks who oppress the MAP community like the LGBT community!

What the shit? We aren't anti-LGBT. I then said this:

Me: We're dead serious. Fuck off, because someone else tried to sexually assault her, and Lei tracked him down and killed him. Do not test us.

Comments
"NTA. I don't understand how the convention would let people like him in!" - RachelSarahLion4556

"NTA! That guy needs to be fed worms and cockroaches for the rest of his life." - ItalianMobsAgainstPedos

"While I have seen a lot of Pokémon female humans that are aged up before, this guy needs to stop now, so NTA!" - ChildPornBadAgedUpMinorsGood

AITA for banning Princess Starlight from our Among Us server after she berated us for "lying about her behavior"?
Princess Starlight doesn't have the best reputation to say the least, especially after she mocked a person's dead aunt on Twitter. This led to her getting kicked out on the base.

Now for this, we go to the Among Us servers. We own a private server named "The Trio Gang Server", where us gang members play Among Us and chat for a bit. Somebody must've gave Starlight the password to our server or something, because next thing we know, she joins our gang and starts acting like an ass.

Princess Starlight: Remember me, losers? I've been hearing all the lies you've been telling about me, and it's all false!

Longwei: What lies? All of your shit has been well-documented in public. Plus, how the hell did you get in?

Princess Starlight: None of your goddamn business! You need to admit that all the things you've said were not true! Otherwise, I'm leaking your server password to everyone!

If others are to be believed, Starlight has manipulated and emotionally abused people just to get what she wants. The other day, she made multiple false copyright strikes on Susie Banshee's YouTube channel and said she won't remove the strikes unless she deletes the videos that criticized her.

Me: Well guess what? We're not admitting shit. You've been manipulating people just to bow down to you and we're sick and tired of it! As a matter of fact, we're banning you, because I'm not about to deal with this!

Lei: Yes, please tell her to go fuck off.

I then ban Princess Starlight off the server. We also changed the password in case Starlight tried to leak it, which she did, but her raid campaign failed quickly since no one could figure out the new password. Also, she's since got her stupid followers to raid our social media and threatened to expose us to the police if we don't unban her.

Comments
"NTA. Honestly, how low can Princess Starlight go at this point? She also got my YouTube channel terminated with false copyright strikes after I made an expose video of her!" - CrypoDoge664

AITA for telling a Karen to fuck off after she threatened to kill the cats if I didn't gave her the password to the hideout's Wi-Fi?
This is possibly one of the dumbest Karen encounter's I've ever had, and that really is saying something.

For this one, me and Longwei were catching up on JJBA in the living room when we heard a loud knock at the door. We went to the peephole to find a Karen-looking woman on our doorsteps.

Karen: Let me in!

BE!Maria: What do you want?

Karen: I need the password to your Wi-Fi! I live here!

Now, neither me nor Longwei recognized her. I think she's clinically insane or some shit like that.

Longwei: We're not giving it to you because we don't know where you are.

Karen then went to a window and looked right at us with these menacing eyes. They kinda spooked me.

Karen: Let me in right now! I need the Wi-Fi!

Me: What the hell would you want our Wi-Fi for?! Go away!

Karen then noticed Dio, Endeavor and Kuíqísī were in the room.

Karen: How about this? You either give me the Wi-Fi password or else I will break into this fucking house and stab your cats to death!

This took me and Longwei by surprise. This bitch then pulled out a knife and made a stabbing motion.

Longwei: Are you fucking insane?! Get the fuck out!

Karen: What do you value more? The Wi-Fi password or your cats?

It was at that point that I snapped.

BE!Maria: NO!!! Get the fuck out right now! You are not getting our Wi-Fi password and you're especially not killing Dio, Endeavor and Kuíqísī!

She didn't even leave until I pretended to call the police on her. Since then, however, she has gotten her friends to harass me and my boyfriend saying that we were rude to refuse her the Wi-Fi password and that we lied about her wanting to kill the cats.

Comments
"NTA. Someone please take Karen to a mental hospital, because that's where she belongs if she's seriously gonna murder some cats over a fucking Wi-Fi password!" - ThergothomResident4693

AITA for getting a NSBM show cancelled in the base?
Hey everyone. It's been a while since I've been on r/AITA, but this story has gotten me to reignite my interest here.

So, this one happened a few weeks ago. There was a band called Wotan's Hammer, which was gonna play at the TT10 base. Now, I was initially gonna go there since they play black metal, and I do enjoy listening to some black metal. However, when I saw that their logo contained a Black Sun, I started to get very worried about this band and them being part in NSBM. So I decided to go online and do some research.

Upon doing so, I found out that the band has National Socialism, White Supremacy, and Aryanism as part of their lyrical themes on the Metal Archives, and the band members themselves have cited other NSBM bands like Goatmoon, Capricornus, Fullmoon, М8Л8ТХ, and Peste Noire as their main influences. They also advocated for some antisemitism beliefs in interviews and spread misinformation on the COVID-19 pandemic and vaccines. Hell, one of their albums is literally titled "Dzielni Aryjczycy walczą o żydowską szumowinę", which is Polish for "Brave Aryans Fight over the Jewish Scum".

I contacted the higher-ups immediately about this, and they told the band that they couldn't perform at the base. While virtually everyone was pleased about that, word eventually got around that I was the one who "snitched" on them, and the band members have been spamming some racist shit on my profile, mocking me for not being able to separate the art from the artist and other cliché defenses for NSBM.

Comments
"YTA. We don't go around cancelling shows for RABM bands, as much as we fucking hate those SJW hypocrites! What makes you think you can do shit like this? You realize it's our main job, and by cancelling the show, we can't paid, and therefore, we end up going broke. Please think before you do dumb shit like that, you fucking c***k." - Wotan'sHammerOfficial

"Bro, who the fuck do you think you are harassing this poor woman for having the audacity to speak up against your shitty NSBM band? While I personally don't care for the politically charged black metal bands like NSBM and RABM, you acting like this is completely unacceptable. And this is your main job? God you guys are pathetic..." - Star Giant Productions

== AITA for telling a racist SJW to ‘fuck off’ after telling me I shouldn’t have been raised in Japanese culture because my father “robbed” my Japanese mother of her heritage and “appropriated Japanese culture” and told me to stick to speaking English because I’m half-white? == This happened and even my fellow gang members are fucking confused by it.

Now, a bit of backstory: My dad is white and my mom is Japanese. I’ve been bilingual since I started talking and have enjoyed aspects of Japanese culture including kimonos and tea ceremonies. I’m the only half-white member in the gang I’m in and the others are cool with it.

Now, Adil has this friend named Courtney from school and I swear to fuck she hates me. The irony is that she’s white and she hates white and half-white people.

Now, she’s been giving me shit once she found out I was half-white and she was being a massive bitch about it.

From me wearing my mom’s kimono, to speaking Japanese,to even making Japanese food my mom used to make. Hell, she even got pissed when I was telling Xiu-mei stories about Japanese mythology and yōkai.

The last straw, however, came when I reading the Pokémon manga (Mostly B2W2 and BW) and Dragon Ball manga to Xiu-mei (Volumes 1-17 only, although Xiu-mei insists on reading the rest, I promised when she’s a bit older). I even told Xiu-mei what it said in English before repeating it in Japanese. Then, Courtney scoffed.

Courtney: “You should stick to English.”

I looked at her oddly. Adil gave her a glare.

Me: “What did you just say?”

Courtney: “I said stick to English! Your father is white, and he likely robbed a Japanese woman of her heritage and culture and appropriated it. You’re better off appropriating Western culture so it’s not imperialist.”

I was in FUCKING disbelief by what she just said. And here's the thing: She claims to be anti-racist, but Adil told me she was actually extremely racist, especially towards people who didn’t agree with her. But then she kept going.

Courtney: “Besides, your father should have only married a Westerner! He only likely viewed your mother as a sex object to fuck everyday!”

My parents couldn’t have another child after me after my mom suffered complications, and she had to have an abortion because her second pregnancy endangered her damn life. Not to mention my father was a great man during this struggle and helped her whenever he could. He loved me and my mom, and she was more than happy to correct him if he wore a kimono or pronounced a Japanese word incorrectly and said that she loved him for trying.

Yeah, my dad was everything to me alongside my mom, and both had their lives cut short thanks to that fucking intolerant bastard Derek and his spoiled daughter Josephine. And to put the cherry on top with this crazy ass rant...

Courtney: “I hope your father is in hell along with all those men who rob Asian and African women of their culture!”

I fucking snapped and punched her. Yeah, I didn’t think straight, but I was beyond pissed off. My dad, the late Martin Kimmings, WAS FUCKING MURDERED!

She cried and whined that I was a racist where and my racist side showed. She literally insulted my dad, and she wanted to talk about how racist I was for confront her about it.

I yelled back that she was an actual racist who was no better than a racist white man who disowned his daughter for marrying a non-white man. And here’s the thing: I had to learn Mandarin and Cantonese because that’s what most of my gang speaks and even partake in Chinese culture. And I do respect their cultures. So what's her excuse?

Comments
"NTA. As a leftist myself, people like Courtney end up giving our community a bad name. It's okay if your father wants to learn Japanese culture, and it doesn't seem like a racist prick to me. I hope Courtney learns from this and educate herself on different race and cultures." - MiandiHagend392

AITA for kicking out a male gang member after trying to flirt with Gyeo-ul and refusing to leave her room?
Me again. This time, it's about Gyeo-ul.

For some backstory, Gyeo-ul is currently wanted in South Korea after murdering five people. A bunch of students came at her in a park and proceeded to rape her. Due to South Korea's lenient laws on minors committing crimes, all of the boys were given very light sentences, and her teacher would even victim-blame her. This lead to her killing the four boys and her teacher in violent ways. She has the nickname "Kumiho" because she wore a fox mask while committing the murders. Zhao and Joseph would find her, and she would later join our gang.

Now, due to her mental illnesses from what she's been through, Gyeo-ul doesn't like to watch any shows, movies, or even manga that contain excessive violent and sexual content. Zhao originally planned to ban that stuff altogether in the hideout, but she told him not to because she didn't want anyone's freedom to be restrained just because she doesn't like it. They do have to be checked for their content before she gets them. Also, until recently, men weren't allowed to enter her room at all. Since she's gotten better thanks to therapy, the rules have since been loosened so that men can stay in her room for up to 20 minutes.

Now, this story takes place when the rules were no men were allowed in her room under any circumstances. A gang ally was visiting us for some business deals. One of the members in the gang ally was a man named Justin. Justin is considered the goofball of the gang, as he does tell joke a lot. He told us it was he does this as a way to cope his rough past.

When Justin saw Gyeo-ul, however, he proceeded to take a subtle, but noticeable liking towards her. None of us thought of anything of it until we heard Gyeo-ul scream in her room. When I rushed in, I found Justin in her room trying to flirt with her!

Justin: (flirting) Don't scream. I'm not gonna hurt you.

Gyeo-ul: (panicking) GET... AWAY...

Now, there was a knife nearby and I knew it was only a matter of time before Gyeo-ul fucking snapped. I immediately shoved Justin away and took the knife and hid it so Gyeo-ul couldn't get it.

Me: What the fuck is your fucking problem?! Did you not see the sign that said "NO MEN ALLOWED"?!

Justin: Relax. I wasn't gonna rape her or do anything crazy! I just wanted to talk to her, that's all!

Lei, however, was nearby, and knew that was a load of bullshit. He slapped Justin in the face and said this:

Lei: Are you FUCKING kidding me?! This woman went through rape, was victim-blamed by her own teacher, killed her rapists and teacher for it, and doesn't want anything to do with men at the moment due to her fucking trauma. And you wanna come in her room and act like a goddamn creep?! If you did that shit to my wife or my daughter, then I would've let you fucking had to put it very lightly...

Zhao kicked him out of the hideout and told him he was no longer allowed in the hideout due to his actions. The gang leader apologized to us and said that he was gonna discipline Justin. It eventually led to Justin leaving the gang altogether.

As for Gyeo-ul, she was pretty shock by the whole ordeal, but quickly recover. She thanked me for intervening sooner, because she actually didn't want to kill Justin.

Comments
"NTA. This one was absolutely insane, and it goes beyond incompetence! Justin knew damn well that Gyeo-ul was going through a lot of shit, and yet, he ignored the sign and tried to 'flirt' with her, creeping the poor girl out. Had you not intervened, Gyeo-ul would've likely stabbed him to death." - BjorkFan1995

AITA for cutting ties with a long lost friend for being pro-Russian and mocking innocent Ukrainian citizens dying?
BE!Maria here. Now, this story revolves around Russia's invasion in Ukraine that is currently going on. I won't get into too much details here, but Russia basically being a bully to Ukraine like that over them wanting to join NATO is absolutely shit.

Now, I had a friend named Miguel who I had back when I was a kid. While we weren't best friends, we were still friends regardless. Unfortunately, that friendship was cut to an abrupt end after the CCOTD killed my mother and I had to flee. We eventually reconnected via social media, and that lasted for about a week until this invasion happened...

Right away, Miguel began with siding with Russia and saying that Ukraine deserved it for provoking Russia like that, as well as being anti-American and saying that Biden was weak and that the "woke US army" won't do shit. When videos of innocent Ukrainian civilians being attacked were shown on the Internet, Miguel actually went as far as to make fun of them.

Miguel: Lol! That's what happens when you fucking mock Mother Russia! #StandWithRussia #FuckUkraine

That was it for me. I unfollowed him from all social medias and told him I was cutting ties with him unless he changed his ways.

And I told him this about his so-called idol Vladimir Putin:

”Putin does NOT give a shit about the lives of the Ukrainian or the Russian people at all. Not even his most loyal soldiers. He is a lying war criminal who lies and gaslights his own people. He also lies saying Ukrainians can go to a safe place, but KILLS them when they try to get out. He’s a scumbag who cares about nothing but himself, and he does NOT care if you’re a Russian soldier or a Ukrainian civilian.”

Since then, however, Miguel has doubled down on his shit and even said it was my fault for making him believe the things he believed.

Comments
"NTA. Miguel looks to have succumb to his 14-year-old edgy past. Fuck him, and let his ass rot with the conservative idiots who are basically betraying the country they claim to be patriotic for just to own the libs." - OliverMarkusMalloy

AITA for not throwing away my Golden Kamuy manga because one of Lei’s friends from his Chinese-American group found it offensive?
This is arguably the dumbest thing I’ve seen someone get offended over, which is really saying something considering the other encounters we've had before.

Now, I’ve been reading this manga called Golden Kamuy, where despite the protagonist being a Japanese soldier and is in Japanese military gear, it’s not set during the Second Sino-Japanese War or even WWII. It’s actually set after the Russo-Japanese War, which is late Meiji-era.

Now, Lei and Jiayi have this friend who came from Nanjing like Lei (let’s say her name is Yiu-li), and she has a profound hatred of the Japanese, which I can say is understandable because if your city had their inhabitants raped, murdered and tortured for six weeks back in 1937, I would be pissed off myself. However, she takes her hatred to nationalistic fever extremes. For example, she takes the Nanking Massacre out on me who is half-Japanese, Satomi who left Japan after running from an abusive father and Takeshi, who is third-generation Japanese, and was born in America.

She actually accused my late grandpa and my great-grandpa of being in the Rape of Nanking after she discovered my family pictures in my room, which got me extremely pissed. The main issue being my late grandpa was just  12-years-old  when this occurred and was living in America for a while. This also included his parents and sister, who all died in Hiroshima.

She’s also a staunch CCP supporter which is why basically everyone in the gang despises her. Adil in particular even stays away from her because she accused him and his sister of lying about the concentration camps in Xinjiang (more on that in a bit).

She even went as far as to teach Xiu-mei anti-Japanese slurs and got her to repeat them, which pissed off her father.

Now, one of our gang members is an Uyghur Muslim boy named Adil, and both are at eachother’s throats constantly. She’s a staunch CCP supporter and he’s an Uyghur Muslim, but that’s for another day.

She actually called Feng a ‘disgrace to the Chinese’ for calling her out on her actions. The thing is, she doesn’t like Feng because he’s a criminal on the run and goes on how he’s a traitor.

In general, she purposely does everything she can to piss us off and even Lei gets annoyed by her.

Now, when I was reading Golden Kamuy and she came into the room. I was reading the first volume which the cover image had the main protagonist, Saichi Sugimoto, on the front.

She began to rant how this is all Imperial Japanese propaganda and how I should be ashamed of myself.

Now, if you haven’t read the previous thing, it’s set in the  MEIJI ERA! I told her that 10 times when she caught me reading this that and she refuses to listen to reason from anyone!

What really pissed me off is that this manga doesn’t belong to me. It belongs to Longwei, my boyfriend.

When he came into the room, she took her rant at him, yelling he was nothing but an Imperial Japan apologist who doesn’t care about national humiliation.

Now, Longwei hates it and tends to get agitated when he’s referred to as Chinese-American instead of Taiwanese-American, which is two different things and he was born in America.

She then went as far as to demanded he throw them away because they’re offensive to the Chinese.

We refused and she stormed out in a huff. Someone from the Chinese-American community group came over to apologize on the behalf because they were trying to deradicalize her from CCP propaganda, and said she didn't represent their community as a whole. We forgave them.

Comments
"NTA. You see what CCP propaganda does to people? I hope she gets a wake-up call someday..." - PureAmericanLibertarianAgainstChina

AITA for telling a someone at my Asian-American study group to STFU
Me and Longwei attend this study group for Asian-Americans and there’s a guy there we will call Jack, who I like to remind is NOT Japanese but a fourth generation Filipino-American. The guy is indoctrinated by the far-right, especially Japanese far right. He actually denies most Japanese war atrocities, which pisses me off to some extent, and goes in whataboutery when he’s been scolded.

Now, I work with Chinese, Koreans, Vietnamese and one Uyghur Muslim and they absolutely  LOATHE  this guy, and they try and stay away from him as far as possible.

Now, Jack has a crusade for Japan to cut off all relations with the west including Europe and North America and ban anime from reaching the west and all of Southeast and East Asia should unify to combat ‘western imperialism’ and constantly talks about Asian Unity, which as a Japanese-American is a stupid as fuck idea and the last time this happened. It led to a continent wide clusterfuck of biblical proportions.

Now, Jack doesn’t like me because I’m half white and he sees my blood as ‘tainted’. He once launched a one man crusade to get me and several other Asians of Caucasian descent to get kicked out of the study group, which thankfully didn't work. He also refuse to bring in an anime we all liked because he saw it as "Western propaganda".

Jack: ”Ban anime from reaching the states! It’s what the Asians in Asia want!”

This led to the study group leader decided to put anime in restricted mode until the end of the lesson.

Yeah, this guy is a major prick to everyone around him. Now, when I was reading JoJo, he was ranting about how I don’t belong here, how my father likely raped my mom and other crazy shit.

My dad, Martin Kimmings was fucking murdered. I punched him extremely hard in the face when he said that, only for him to try and hit me with a metal baseball bat in retaliation.

Jack: YOU AIN'T PUNCHING ME EVER AGAIN, YOU FUCKING TAINTED WHORE!!! YOUR QUOTE-UNQUOTE "DAD" RAPED YOUR OWN MOTHER AND YOU KNOW IT, YOU FUCKING POOR-EXCUSE-OF-A-JAPANESE-GIRL!!!

This was the final straw, as the study group leader kicked him out. To this day, he has not been allowed in our study group.

Comments
"NTA. The far-right Japanese nationalists are batshit insane. It's why I chose to refrain the right altogether." - DownWithJapaneseFascism

”Yeah. My grandpa was actually briefly involved in the Japanese far right stuff due to his service in the IJA during WWII before he turned his back on it after realizing it was all just a lie and that even those in charge cared very little. He and my other grandpa were also adopted brothers. He even proclaimed when I was growing up that I wouldn’t turn out racist like many in his generation and his parent’s generation was. My grandparents and great-grandparents would weep tears of shame if I denied Japanese war atrocities.” - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for getting a teacher fired after she discriminated against a poor student during a Christmas party?
This happened in December in 2021 and I just started work as a substitute teacher after the homeroom teacher for a class fell ill with breast cancer (She died in March 2022, and I ended up having to take over part time since one teacher was nice enough to fill my role when I’m not here).

Now, I teach 4th grade students under the name Miss Xiao. It seems ironic someone like me is teaching children at an elementary school, but I actually like being a substitute schoolteacher. The kids are great, they don’t piss me off, and it was great all around teaching them.

One girl said she liked I didn’t talk down to her and appreciated the way I taught.

Now, this happened during a Christmas party with another teacher’s class, and one of her students is poor.

This girl is a South Korean immigrant who’s father walked out on her and she relies mostly on benefits and handouts.

She doesn’t own a lot of clothing and I noticed something was up when she scolded her for not wearing a ‘nice Christmas dress’ and refused to let her have a picture with her classmates.

Now, all the students had to bring something in for snacks for the whole class. The student was asked to bring in Doritos for dipping and she couldn’t afford it.

The teacher much to my disgust made her last in line to have something from the snack table, and during gift exchange giving, she got a Pikachu plush from a classmate. Now, the same classmate of hers got her ‘Merry Christmas’ note and when the teacher saw, she grabbed the Pikachu plush off her and gave it to the boy and scolded her not bringing a good present.

The boy looked horrified at her actions and told me later on she could have the toy back.

That was the last straw for me. I asked the class to stay inside the classroom while I had a ‘talk’ with the teacher.

I actually shouted at her telling her how she can treat a student like that. I escaped after my father were murdered and that shit made me furious.

I struggled to make ends meet in high school and lived in youth hostels, so I was fucking enraged and I could barely hold down a job until I got picked up by the gang.

I went to the principal and complained to her about how Mrs. Parkinson was treating this poor girl during the whole Christmas party.

The next day, the principal called Mrs. Parkinson in and when she left the office, she went into the classroom I was teaching the kids about the Space Shuttle Challenger and SLAPPED me, yelling it was all my fault.

I shot back at her by shouting she had nothing to blame but herself and held her down. I asked one of boys to get the principal and she came in.

Mrs. Parkinson I found out had a long string of abusive behavior against her class. She even forced a boy with a broken arm to remove his sling because it was against ‘school rules’. She was also an ableist bitch, and she even had the audacity to tell me not to swear outside school grounds and tried to make a deaf kid remove his hearing aid.

Comments
"NTA. Mrs. Parkinson sounds like an absolute bitch. How she didn't got fired earlier is fucking beyond me," - MeccoSecko961

AITA for cutting contact with one of my friends from high school after he stole some of my things to give to his girlfriend?
I have a friend called Kevin, who was one of the few who stayed with me in high school, and I’m still fucking hurt by what he did.

Now, I collect Kreeptures, which is a line of goth and occult-style plush toys from the UK. I have family in Ireland that sends them to me. My favorite is Hades, which resembles a cat holding a staff with a blue flame with blue highlights. I own several they don’t make anymore.

When my friend Kevin was over and it was his last day, I came home from substitute teaching to find that six of the Kreeptures I keep on my bed were gone, one of them was Hades. The tags were gone too, which I keep as souvenirs.

I went around asking my fellow gang members. Kevin had already left until Gyeo-ul said Kevin was holding a black bag.

The tags have a “Limited Edition XXXX out of 3000” or “out of 1666” for later releases, so I posted them on social media to find them.

A day later, I got a phone call from his girlfriend, who is named Victoria (She’s from Ireland originally).

Victoria: “Hey, are you the owner of (insert Kreepture number here) of Hades, Medusa, Red Cluthulu, Pumpkin Dark Lord, Hydra: Draconite and Hydra Hemoglobin plush?”

BE!Maria: “Yes, why?”

Victoria: “Good, because I’m going to return them and break up with his thieving ass!”

BE!Maria: (Gasps) He didn't...

Victoria: Yes he did! I was getting suspicious on how he got them, and when I saw your latest post, I was in complete shock!

BE!Maria: Goddamn! Well, thanks for letting me know. You can come to the hideout and return them.

Victoria: Okay! I'll be there ASAP!

An hour later, Victoria returned with stolen goods. I also found out he stole some of Fumei’s jewelry. Lei and Fumei were very pissed to hear that.

Victoria: “I am so sorry about this...”

BE!Maria: It's okay. You don't need to apologize. If anything, Kevin's the one that needs to apologize.

Kevin, however, just glared at me. I ‘hmph’d and turned my head the other way. Not only was I fucking hurt, but this jackass wasn't even going to apologize! He then said this:

Kevin: “You didn't need them anymore, Maria! How about you stop being selfish for once?!”

At that point, I fucking snapped and punched Kevin. I then said this to him:

BE!Maria:  I'M  the selfish one? I'm sorry, but I don't fucking steal people's shit and give them as a gift to Longwei! You're an absolute scumbag, and the fact that you choose to not apologize and double down on your shit proves that you're the true selfish one in here!

Victoria followed on her promised and broke up with Kevin soon after. To this day, though, he still insists that he was justified.

Comments
"NTA. Why Kevin thought it would be a good idea to do this is beyond me. At least Victoria broke up with his weird ass." - Naugata025

AITA for telling a former friend I will not be turning off a movie because Vic Mignogna voices a character in it and the fact the film came out in 2012?
This just happened and I am very fucking confused right about now.

Now, I have a former friend named Cheryl and she became a born again Christian after I left high school and she became this annoying self-righteous know it all. She’s anti-violence, anti-lewd, anti-sex, and anti-anything she disagrees with.

If you ever heard of a ‘fandom purist’ she definitely is.

She has this view of “I’d rather enjoy nothing and be a good person than anything and support horrible people.”

She actually wanted me to throw my Harry Potter collection away because it supports J.K. Mouthful-Of-Shit (I don’t like JKR that much ironically, and I can’t get the image of wizards shitting and pissing themselves and cleaning it up with vanishing charms out of my head). Most of my Harry Potter books came from eBay sellers and auctions.

And she is really taking the moral fucking high ground. Now, Tanisha draws NSFW art of adult male and female Pokémon characters for commissions (not rape or noncon for obvious reasons) and Cheryl scolded her for it, telling her they were MINORS in the Pokémon fandom (She was drawing a pin-up Giovanni, who is an ADULT MALE).

She actually scolded me for watching Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood because Vic Mignogna voices the main character.

Now, if Xiu-mei’s parents are away on mercenary missions, we sit and watch a movie,

I bought some Pokémon DVDs a while back and Xiu-mei decided she wanted to watch Kyurem vs. The Sword of Justice.

Now, Cheryl got really annoyed at that because, you know, Vic Mignogna.

Now, I did used to be IStandWithVic because of Funimation’s poor handling of the case, but I became more neutral overtime. Some ISWV supports are really shitty people after a VA who didn’t like Vic died of COVID-19 and another came down with it.

But the issue with Cheryl is that she enforces a ‘If I’m boycotting, then everyone must boycott’ agenda.

I told her I am NOT turning off a movie because a VA she hates is in it and she wasn’t entitled to police others.

Cheryl’s other main complaints are:


 * She hates pornography, including drawn pornography with adult fictional characters.
 * She thinks no one should like ‘problematic’ characters (Endeavor from MHA, DIO from JoJo, Envy and Greed from FMA, etc, etc. She yelled at Lei after she discovered his Ghetsis cosplay pics).
 * She thinks Activision Blizzard should get ZERO attention because of the fucking sexual harassment allegations and even pressured others to stop playing WOW or Overwatch (She yelled at Jiayi for accidentally calling Cole Cassidy by his former name).
 * She thinks anything problematic like what ActiBlizz or J.K Rowling did should get no acknowledgment whatsoever. Not even torrenting or pirating.
 * She refuses to listen to anything containing Vic Mignogna’s voice. She either mutes any scene his character speaks or if he sings, she'll just skip the song altogether, even if his role is minor.

Comments
"NTA. I don't like Vic either, but even then, I'm not about to go do what she did and police other people's liking like that. Us sane anti-Vic people feel like we ought to apologize for her behavior." - ProvectusFanning832

”Yeah….I had to distance myself after some ISWV supporters turned to basically asshole tactics, I got called a traitor and treacherous scum after I was speaking to a friend who supports KickVic and we weren’t even talking about Vic…” - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for blowing up at someone after they stole my locket and tarot cards and pawned them?
Okay, this may seem controversial and I did get the locket and tarot cards back after the gang saw how fucking distraught I was.

Gyeo-ul has this friend from her therapy group named Fiona, who is African-American. Now, Fiona hates me because I wear a locket that contains a picture of a Confederate Army ancestor (Yeah, I know, that's a bit weird. I’m of Irish descent) who is my 4x great grandfather and the fact I had to tell her to be quiet because she had her music and singing when she and Gyeo-ul were in the latter’s bedroom too loudly.

Now, she also hates the fact I own tarot cards for some reason, but she hates the occult and paganism.

And one thing: if I’m doing a Black Lives Matter or StopAsianHate protest such as to protest against the injustice, I do not wear my locket and I keep it under lock and key. Even I know I shouldn’t bring my locket to protests unless I want to be put through a fucking wall.

Fiona is all into high end fashion, Project Runway, RuPaul's Drag Race, yadda yadda.

Now, my boss doesn’t really agree with the fact he was in the CSA but has agreed to let me keep the locket because it’s a family heirloom that has been passed down for generations aswell as the only things other than my manga that had been given to me and they did ease up a bit when I told them bits and pieces about him.

When Fiona was over at our place, I saw my locket and my tarot cards were gone.

Now, I wasn’t at a protest and I kept them on my desk, so I went downstairs and told everyone my cards and locket were gone, Fiona and Gyeo-ul arrived back from shopping.

What Fiona said made me fucking sick to my stomach.

”Oh, those old things? I pawned them. You shouldn’t own such a racist piece of history and those disgusting occult artifacts. They just sit there on your desk.”

There was no hesitation. I fucking punched her and had to be held back once I tried to stab her with my knife (An overreaction, yes, but that locket means a lot to me aswell as the tarot cards),

”YOU FUCKING WHAT?! DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT YOU FUCKING DID TO ME?! THAT WAS PASSED DOWN IN MY FAMILY FOR GENERATIONS AND YOU FUCKING PAWNED IT?!”

Now, Gyeo-ul was not there when she pawned them at the pawn shop and she told me she had zero idea where Fiona got the money so I couldn’t blame her for it.

When Fiona’s stepfather and mother found out when Longwei asked them to pick their daughter up (Thank fuck her parents are reasonable, even with her stepdad being a devout Christian who frowns upon the occult).

They grounded her for a month and said they were going to the pawn shop and get the locket and tarot cards back. The gang helped.

The stepdad told me he would appreciate it if I didn’t try to stab his daughter, however, and decided not to press charges and told Zhao what would be best for me for it.

They were originally going to give Gyeo-ul the clothes Fiona bought but they were too large for her, so they donated them to charity instead.

Now I get messages from Fiona’s friends how I’m a ‘racist’ for not pawning the locket and hitting her and even trying to stab her. Even some folks at BLM even praised Fiona's actions.

EDIT: The boss did reprimand me for using a knife. He took the knife off me for three weeks and I did face disciplinary action for it, but he told Gyeo-ul she was not to bring Fiona over here anymore.

“Maria, I know you were extremely upset with what Fiona did. I don’t condone that either, as she was under ZERO obligation to steal what is basically your property. However, I will have to confiscate your knife for a few weeks. I will decide what your punishment will be and determine if Fiona isn’t allowed back here. You’re actually lucky her parents didn’t want you charged.” - Boss

Comments
"YTA. I honestly don't give a shit about it being your heirloom or whatever. Yeah, the tarots were much, but your ancestors are literal racists! I don't blame Fiona for pawning them! And that's not even including the fact that you tried to stab her! You could've been arrested and had your entire gang exposed because of your selfish, foolish actions! Fuck you, and fuck the CSA!" - BLMCommunist777

"Maria, I'm sorry, but I can't side with you here. You destroying the graves of Derek and Josephine were one thing, but your overreaction of Fiona doing the right thing was a HUGE mistake on your part. It's probably better if you got rid of the locket." - AntiRacistsandAntiFascists

"ESH. You all do realize that Fiona is not entirely innocent, right? While it's debatable on whether or not pawning off the locket was justified, pawning off the tarot cards as well is uncalled for. Even if she hates paganism, there was no need to do that. And Maria, I completely understand your frustration, but there is no need to for you to punch her, let alone try and stab her. I hope both of you all apologize to each other and get along for once." - DirtySanchez9211

”I don’t agree with your ancestor in the CSA, but NTA, Fiona had no obligation to steal your property and pawn it.

Also, why the hell is the boss taking away your knife? You're a grown woman, not 16, and he shouldn't be treating you like such.” ~ Fleurdelis37

”To those who say YTA as someone who says ESH, Fiona is NOT innocent as you think. She had stolen someone else’s property. There was no call for Maria to punch and nearly stab someone and there was no call for Fiona to STEAL someone’s property and pawn it without telling her! She even said she doesn’t even wear the fucking locket to BLM and StopAsianHate protests because she knows how controversial it is! How did you all miss that?” - Enigma926

"Enigma926, the people who are saying ESH or even YTA has more than enough reason to come at Maria. Did Fiona needed to pawn Maria's property without asking her first? Absolutely not. However, Maria could've at the very least talked to her about it. There are many POC I know who have a rather bitter view of the Confederacy to put it lightly, and probably don't approve of her locket. At least Maria has the decently not to take it to BLM protests. Regardless, there was zero need for her to punch Fiona and even try and stab her. Also, the boss shouldn't be confiscating her knife and treat her like she's 16. Reprimanding her is tolerable, but she's probably 40 years old." - EnlightenedDeath525

"Zhao here. For the people coming at me for confiscating Maria's knife, you all need to understand that the gang has rules that every member, including me, has to follow. If Fiona's parents chose to press charges for the assault, then there's a good chance that our entire gang will be exposed and we will lose everything. And the punishments aren't restricted to losing privileges either. I've also barred them from going outside the city after a Karen tried to provoke them on the bus and Maria pulled a knife on her, though she didn't lose her knife then. I even barred them from TV." - ZhaoZhao246

”Zhao, that’s actually a good way of keeping them in line. So, what are your standards?” - Enigma926

”Good question. I do not physically hit them or deny them sustenance, for starters. There is a high chance someone like Lei would turn against me, so physical punishment is NOT an option. This is also because they came from extremely abusive home lives. Lei was physically abused and starved as punishment so I don’t starve my underlings. Hence, why I prefer doing simple punishment like confiscations and limits to going outside the base.” - ZhaoZhao246

AITA for kicking out a rabid RABM fan out of the base after she tried to steal my Satanic Warmaster CDs?
Oh boy. The last time I posted an AITA story here, I had the entire Internet come at us and even tried to cancel me. Don't worry, this shouldn't be as controversial as the last one, since this incident happened a few weeks before the Fiona incident.

Now, this one involves a woman named Kity, and we did became friends since we did had similar music tastes, but she is a rabid fan of RABM (short for Red Anarchist Black Metal). And when I mean rabid, I mean, Kity would sell off all things from any artist who had even the slightest amount of sketch in them. Here's her beliefs:


 * NSBM, RAC, and Hatecore are all fucking shit and deserve zero recognition.
 * Even pirating NSBM albums is still supporting Nazis.
 * Anyone who doesn't agree with ANTIFA in the slightest is a Nazi.
 * Anyone who doesn't agree with her is a Nazi.
 * Anyone who doesn't listen to RABM bands is a Nazi (even if it isn't about the politics).
 * Burzum should not be recognized at all due to the controversies surrounding Varg Vikernes.

So yeah, it's easy to see why a lot of people don't like her. Even Mark Slater said he had a bad experience with her, as she tried to sell off his Hate Forest and Drudkh records, despite him repeatedly saying that he doesn't support the right-wing beliefs of Roman Saenko.

Now, when she was visiting the base, she noticed I owned some CDs to Satanic Warmaster. Satanic Warmaster is known for being NSBM early on with their debut album "Strength and Honour", but he has since left the scene and the band does mainly apolitical lyrics, though his record label Werwolf Records is known for hosting some NSBM records like Goatmoon. For Kity, however, that was enough to deem him shit, and she tried to steal them. She actually nearly got away with it until Longwei noticed she had something underneath her jacket.

Longwei: You were seriously gonna steal my girlfriend's Satanic Warmaster CDs?! Why?!

Kity: The guy behind it is a fucking Nazi! I'm doing her a favor by getting rid of those shitty records! Your girlfriend is a fucking Nazi!

Pissed, I snatched the CDs and said this to her:

Me: Are you fucking serious right now?! I don't own their debut because of the NS themes, but I still like the rest of his albums. I don't condone his beliefs, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna not listen to the good music in of itself. Get out before I report you to Zhao!

She left in a huff, and to this day, insists that she was just trying to help me.

Comments
"NTA. Fuck the racist anti-SJW behind SW, but I thought Strength and Honour was a good record, even with the NS themes. Kity is no doubt an extreme case of a RABM fan, and she should probably stick to Arch Enemy or Metallica if she's that concern over sketchy people in black metal." - OfCelticHate1999

"For real. Black metal's always gonna have some sketchy people behind it, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna ignore good music. Obviously, I stay away from actual NSBM bands that are shit like Der Stürmer or М8Л8ТХ or even Absurd (their music still sucks ass, even without the NS themes), but for stuff like Graveland, Satanic Warmaster, or even Grand Belial's Key, I'm fine with, but I'll pirate the albums instead." - NowhereIsNoone5555

AITA for cutting contact with one of my friends on Twitter after he called me treacherous and traitor after I was talking to a KickVic supporter who was a close friend?
Okay, this actually happened on Twitter and not in RL. For privacy reason, I will not give out anyone’s Twitter name.

I know a guy who I will call Roman and my friend who is named Charlene.

I’ve known Charlene since middle school and were great friends to this day. She’s become a social activist on Twitter who advocates for women’s rights, trans rights, Palestine, and just any kind of rights you can think of like StopAsianHate and BLM (Before you ask, she doesn’t hold my locket and family history against me).

Now, she’s basically ‘woke’ (Not like those fake wokes that complain about sexualized women and ignore more serious issues).

Roman on the other hand is a self-proclaimed pessimist who advocates for a ‘zero mortal plan’ (Like the one in Dragon Ball Super. Xiu-mei even said she didn’t like Zamasu).

His views are pretty far-right nationalistic and is a staunch anti-SJW, and when I mean it, I fucking mean it. He once even sent some far-left Twitter users songs from RAC bands like Bound for Glory and Skrewdriver to scare them away from calling him out.

He also thinks Japan should ban all cultural imports from the west such as anime, games and manga because “social justice warriors ruin everything” and used Funimation’s dub of Miss Kobayashi’s Dragon Maid to back it up.

He also cannot listen to other people’s views other than his own. One is the case with the Vic Mignogna controversy. Roman is IStandWithVic and Charlene is KickVic.

Now, when me and Charlene were talking about the Pokémon manga and even doing a playful commentary (Absolutely NOTHING to do with Vic Mignogna whatsoever), Roman butted in and told me this:

”I can’t believe how treacherous you are! Talking with a KickVic supporter... What a schizophrenic.”

Now, his go-to insults are minor, gorilla, schizo or any term relating to schizophrenic. He also really hates minors for some reason.

He calls Charlene a minor despite the fact we attended fucking middle and high school together and she’s a mom of four.

Comments
"NTA. Those rabid anti-SJWs are losing popularity for a reason. That, plus the fact that he seems to listen to RAC bands like BFG and Skrewdriver, and I wouldn't be surprised if he turned out to be from the alt-right." - HaniGoggi643

"Yeah, I've questioned his actual beliefs since he does like RAC and right-wing Oi! music, but Roman has denied being alt-right and claimed he only listens to those bands for the riffs and nothing else." - MariaTachimi1981

AITA for cutting ties with a former friend for being a rabid pro-lifer and saying my mother is terrible for having an abortion?
So ever since Roe v. Wade got overturned, things have been absolutely insane. Like, Roe v. Wade made it so that abortion was federally recognized, and that all states had to legalize it. By leaving that up to the states, many places are going to either restrict or downright ban it altogether, and make it harder for women in America to have an abortion. It's a horrible situation all-round, and I have a bad feeling that this is gonna lead to contraceptions being restricted and even same-sex marriage being illegal.

But that's not what I'm here to talk about. I'm hear to talk about a former friend I had named Payson. Now, Payson is one of those rabid pro-lifers who believes that abortions should not happen at all, and that if a woman got raped and got pregnant, then it's her responsibility and that the rapist shouldn't be punished because in his words, "God willed it." No, I'm not strawmanning that shit. This is what he actually believes it. His beliefs were tolerant for the most part, but after the overturning, he's been out of control.

Last night in particular was when we had a breaking point. I tried to convince him that abortions could actually be beneficial, and I cited my mother as an example. Now, she had to get an abortion for the next kid, because had she actually went through it, she would've likely died because of it. But guess what Payson said?

Payson: That is still no goddamn excuse! She could've had a C-section! But nooooooo! Your mom just had to appease the woke crowd and get an abortion! If Roe v. Wade was overturned before, then she would've had no other choice but to have that fucking baby! She's terrible for even doing it!

Now, keep in mind, he doesn't care about the baby until after it's born. He'd go on and on about protecting the fetus and whatnot, but when it's born, he'll stop his preaching and say that it needs to face the harsh realities and shit.

Anyway, after his comment about my dead mom, I just snapped. I kicked him out right there and then and said that we were done as friends. I then unfollowed him on social media and blocked his number.

I am now being harassed by his friends as well as some conservative personnel for my "wokeness" and how he's in the right.

Comments
"NTA. I'm not threatening the judges like some folks are doing, but this overturning has got to be one of the biggest shortsightedness I've ever seen. They clearly didn't think through the implications of what this overturn would do, right? And with your friend being an absolute piece of shit with your mom, and at this point, I have ZERO sympathy with these pro-life douchebags." - AbortionRightsAreHumanRights1973