Lei Chao's AITA Story

AITA for not forgiving Hope Plank?
Hey, It’s usually Maria that posts my stories asking if I’m the dickhead or the other party on here. Now here we go!

A week ago, Hope Plank destroyed my Deicide CD that was a gift from a friend that passed away after he overdosed on painkillers after he was falsely accused of being a pedophile, which fucking broke me.

After that, this bitch had the audacity to make me a cake to say sorry! I wouldn’t forgive her for the bullshit she pulled on me and my daughter, who is fucking five.

And yet, she fucking blamed me for leaving my CD on a fucking coffee table in me and my gang’s FUCKING HIDEOUT! I even told her I wasn’t the twin’s fucking daddy and I was Xiu-mei’s. Even Xiu-mei knows not to touch my things without permission.

I don’t typically like wasting food because of my abusive childhood to late adolescence, but shoving her face in that piss-poor attempt at a cake was hilarious. While Feng and Longwei were shocked at my actions, they still talk to me and even ended up taking my side in the end. I never used my dead friend to be an asshole.

I do get text messages from some of the family members I do have contact with like Brooke and Kim who say that she was just trying to do something nice. Do something nice my ass...

Comments
"While I don't agree with your actions to ruin the cake, at the same time, I understand your frustration. My mom, who's a Jehovah witness, sold almost $500 worth of hip hop albums I got over the years because she thought I was gonna be a gangster or something." - Emine25

"NTA. Maybe if she didn't destroy your Deicide CD, she wouldn't have kicked out in the first place!" - KlaineFanatic

"I love Deicide, but it wasn't long until that stupid cunt destroyed your Deicide CD your dead friend gave to you all because her sisters wanted to pick it up. You know that destroying a CD that belongs to a dead relative or friend gave to you is bad, right? Imagine destroying a 19-year-old woman's Britney Spears CD her 23-year-old cousin who got raped and murdered gave to you?" - DeicideFan

AITA for not letting my foster “mother” see my daughter?
Back again. Now, if you read Maria’s story, you'll know what I’m on about.

My quote-unquote "foster mother" remains to this day, the biggest bitch I’ve ever met in my life. She believed she was wholeheartedly entitled to the money she got from taking care of us and nearly twenty years after escaping from her clutches. Gareth died in 2015. Good riddance to him.

I have one child, who is a girl and she’s five and she’s basically my reason I didn’t end my own fucking life. She’s gave me a purpose in life even If I’m not the mentally the healthiest (diagnosed sociopath).

Now, during the COVID-19 shitfest, my “foster mom” somehow got ahold of my details and called me late at night. The thing is, she thinks she’s entitled to my own daughter’s custody, which pisses me off for numerous reasons alone.

This woman starved me for days at a time, allowed her husband to beat me as a teenager, allowed her daughter to bully me, called my violated sister after she survived a rape attempt a “whore” and starved me again. We ran away on out 17th birthday, taking every cent they got.

Comments
"NTA! I've seen stories about her before, and she sounds like an absolute bitch!" - Akygy924

AITA for telling a 11-year old kid to leave our TF2 server?
Hey, Lei again and this happened yesterday.

Me, the gang, Fumei and Dongshun were playing Team Fortress 2, me and my sister are Spy mains, now, we have an 18+ warning for few reasons, foul language, sex talking and...pornographic pictures of us being sprayed throughout the map.

One photo taken was me masturbating while wearing only a turtleneck sweater while sitting on a bed with my “bits” on display, the best distraction of all, and hell, it’s actually pretty damn funny, I sometimes see the girls on the RED team staring at it except my sister, the only ones we don’t use porn of is Mi-Yung and Mila, Mi-Yung mains the Medic and Mila mains the Pyro.

During a Team Deathmatch, a user unknown to us joined the game, Let’s call him Skittles618362, He was a RED Soldier.

Me (BLU Spy): “Hey, can you please leave?”

Skittles618362: “Why?”

He was a squeaker, I heard them on COD, I’ve never been so thankful Mi-Yung is fucking deaf.

Jiayi (RED Spy): “This is an adults only server, Sorry.”

The kid didn’t take it well, He threw a fit being told he can’t be on this server.

Skittles618362: “NO! I WANT TO PLAY HERE!”

Everyone except Mi-Yung took off or switched off their headsets, We made Mi-Yung a mod and she was about to kick him from the server.

Skittles618362: “NO! I WANT TO PLAY HERE! LET ME PLAY HERE!”

This made us all thankful Mi-Yung is deaf, After kicking him from the server, after our deathmatch, The guy’s dad apologized on a message, but said his son had autism and didn’t understand why he couldn’t play and try to let him play the next time.

Okay, let me guess this straight, I share naked pics of myself to distract the ladies, Which includes a picture of ME masturbating, An eleven year old does not need to see my "los huevitos" on display, I told him that and he said we shouldn’t do it with kids on the server, We had an 18+ warning to begin with.

So, AITA for spraying nude pictures on an 18+ TF2 server we have and not letting a kid play?

Comments
"I'm not sure about this. The 18+ warning was clear, and as a 15-year-old autistic person myself, I know better than to go on adult servers. However, the kid's father might need to tell his child that some servers aren't for him and that he shouldn't join them." RickieMortay

”Okay, Lemme me put this in full perspective: I’m a 36-year-old man who uses nudes of himself in TF2 sprays. I would probably be fucked if kids and especially adults discovered me doing that.” - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

"Yeah, I'm gonna have to side with you on this one, Lei. Even though that kid was special needs, he still should know better than to go in an 18+ server that has nude photos of you." - PhillyDreamer02

AITA for telling someone accusing me of being an abuser to “fuck off” and then showing him my “family blood group” tattoo?
This just happened and I am still very pissed off.

One of Alicia’s guy friends, let’s call him Lionel is one of those social justice guys who hates “problematic things”, He also thinks I’m a child abuser, last time I checked, I’m a sociopath, not a narcissist, this guy also thinks I’m sexually abusive because Xiu-mei often sleeps in the same bed as me, She just likes cuddling up to me.

Xiu-mei herself is old enough to play on her own and she plays in me and Jiayi’s room, near a bunch of violent comics and books I own.

Now, I was watching the nineties’ X-Men with her, She actually likes the show despite being considered a “girly-girl” by most, she sometimes understands prejudice because she’s heard me being called the C-word.

Now, Lionel came in while we were watching it, he paused it and called me a future child abuser.

Me: “Xiu-mei, Can you go into daddy’s room? I need to speak to him.”

Xiu-mei nodded and went into my room.

Me: “Look, if you seriously think I’m a child abuser or that I’m going to abuse Xiu-mei in the future, then can you please fucking explain this?!”

I rolled up my right pant leg and showed him what I call my “blood group” tattoo, Chao Qing-lai, rest in cat piss painfully tattooed this on my leg at age 7, It was so painful I was unconscious until the very next day, Jiayi told me she managed to stay conscious.

The tattoo consisted of my blood type (B+), family name (周) and gender ( ♂ for me, ♀ for Jiayi), It just proved to us Qing-lai just saw me and my sister as property and tools for causing death and suffering and use for whatever he wished, he cared nothing for me and Jiayi.

Me: “Now, do you think I asked to be tattooed painfully by my piss-poor excuse of a father?! He never treated me and my sister like fucking humans, just tools and pawns for him to use in anyway he fucking pleased!”

Fumei came into the room, then he yelled I sexually abuse Xiu-mei. Pissed, she slapped him across the face. Never once in five years I have ever been sexually abusive to Xiu-mei, she gave me a new purpose, she never really takes notice of the history behind my blood group tattoo, thinking it’s gang identification, He stormed out not before yelling “YOUR WIFE AND SISTER ARE ABUSE APOLOGISTS!”

So, AITA for this?

Comments
"NTA. Definitely not by any stretch by imagination. I also read the story where you and your sister killed your abusive father, and I never felt that happy reading something off the web. Hope he rots in hell forever!" - MoneraFinker

"Lei, I know you're abusive to Xiu-mei! I even tried to report you to CPS, but they didn't do shit! Guess CPS is ran by abusive assholes as well!" - LionelUsernet03

"Are you fucking serious right now? The reason CPS didn't do anything is because there was absolutely no evidence that I abused Xiu-mei. You seriously need to fuck off, and leave us the hell alone!" - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for telling a special needs teenager that my sister doesn’t want a hug?
This happened yesterday and this family called the Archibalds came to visit us.

My sister was on her phone when one of the kids, Reginald, who is autistic, nonverbal and has Fragile X syndrome, came here. He communicates with a GoTalk 32+. He pressed the "hug" button on his GoTalk 32+.

GoTalk 32+: “Hug.”

One thing about my sister, she fucking hates being touched by men other than only me, this even extends to teenagers like Raymond, especially those between 14-19 years of age.

She shook her head in response, prompting Reginald to press the “hug” button, Then Jiayi told him “no”, Then he started to become unsettled, even beginning to hit himself.

Portia soon stepped in, I thought she would tell her son Jiayi doesn’t want a hug, but nope, she had the audacity to tell Jiayi to let Reginald hug her.

Comments
"YTA! Even if your twin sister isn't comfortable with hugs, she should leave an exemption to special needs children like Reginald! Are you two anti-autism?! Do you support Autism Speaks?!" - Autism4All

"Autism4All, I am not anti-autism, I'm anti-people who exploit autism to do wreckless shit. And if I supported Autism Speaks, then why would I be stealing money from those shitheads? Those people supported a "therapy center" that tortured special needs kids, damnit!" - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

"Friendly reminder that my little cousin, Sophie, has Rett syndrome and she doesn't like being touched by strangers." - KlaineFanatic

"Portia Archibald here. I think Raymond likes hugs and wants a hug from someone and he has trouble controlling his behaviors." - PortiaTheSpecialNeedsMom

You don’t understand this....My sister doesn’t like being touched by teenage or adult men other than me, Can I remind you she was almost fucking raped at Skyler’s age?! She won’t even let any of the other male gang members touch her! And she most certainly doesn’t want a fucking hug!~ TypicalSociopathicGangster999

"Oh my goodness! I didn't knew your sister was almost raped as a teen! I'm so sorry about that. I guess her rejection is justified." - PortiaTheSpecialNeedsMom

AITA for not giving the X-Men merch I brought after running away from home to someone’s little brat?
This just recently happened and I’m still incredibly annoyed.

As a brat growing up in a shithole high school, My favorite cartoon growing up was the X-Men aswell as the comic series, It is kinda was an escapist route considering the fact I came out...wrong.

Now, after running away from home, I brought a bunch of X-Men action figures and comics, They’re still in great condition and Xiu-mei loves looking at them, back in high school, I brought the comics when is scrounged up a few dollars, they really kept my mind off starvation.

I keep them on a shelf high away from the ground, It’s twice Xiu-mei’s height so she cannot reach them.

Someone from my wife’s undercover job came to our hideout with her son, aged 7.

She looked at the figures, and demanded her son should have them.

Me: “Fuck. No.”

These figures were a sign of my freedom away from awful people, I’m not giving them to some kid.

Mombie: "Give him the toy. You're too old for them."

Kid: "I AGREE WITH MY MOMMY!!! GIVE IT TO ME RIGHT NOW!!!"

Angered by their attitudes, I said this:

Me: You know what, kid? You're not the one who spend an entire day in the back of a high school feeling a shit-ton of pain because your abusive foster-parents didn't feed you for days. The X-Men was one of the few things I liked at that time, and I'm never giving them away. If you want some more toys, why not go pester your mom to get them at the nearby toy store?

Kid: "NEVER!!! I WANT THOSE!!!"

At that point, Fumei kicked the two out and said that if she and her son kept acting like this, then they weren't allowed in our house anymore.

Her friends have since confronted me on social media on how I had the audacity to "deny an angel the right to have unlimited toys". Fucking mombies...

Comments
"That boy is so spoiled, he makes Veruca Salt from Willy Wonka look generous!" - JadaPlayz2010

"NTA. That boy can't always take people's toys. And the mom needs to discipline her son more often, because that was ridiculous!" - WilliamGeorgia

AITA for telling my foster sister that she can't see my daughter?
If you know me and have read some of my stories, you may be familiar with Penelope. She was my foster sister who was spoiled rotten by Jennifer the Jackass. Not only that, she mentally tormented me by teasing food in front of me during my starving periods and even locked me out of the bathrooms so I can piss my pants or piss on the floor so her father could beat me up, several of these incidents led me to piss on her clothes and shampoo as payback. You can read more about that incident here, Yes, it was dirty and juvenile, but well-deserved.

Well in my previous AITA stories, my foster mother tried to gained custody of Xiu-mei, but when she was found out to be a shitty parent, she was denied custody of her and was told to stay 150 feet away from me and my family. However, it seems that she had a backup plan: Have that heifer named Penelope come to my house to try and see my daughter. And sure enough, two days later after the restraining order was put in place, Penelope shows up in my front door asking for me, My daughter was playing in the backyard.

Now, It was a warm day and I was topless with my coat wrapped around my waist. We had a Ring Video Doorbell in the foyer, so I spoke to her with it.

Me: "Hey bitch. Do me a favor and get the fuck out of my property and never come back. I know what you're doing and you're not gonna see my daughter."

Penelope: "Shut the fuck up, c****y boy! I want to see your daughter! I bet she will like me more than you!"

Xiu-mei doesn’t even like Penelope. She’s overheard me talking about her to Fumei and Zhao. But anyway, after she said that, I decided to mimic everything she said to me as a teenager.

Me: (think of this shrill voice that makes you want to kill) “Aww, is that belly of yours making so much noise because daddy dearest said no food for you, aww, poor you c***ky boy~! Stop banging on the door, Lei, I won’t get out until I hear you pee yourself, Doesn’t it feel better to let it out anyways? Hahahahaha, Daddy’s gonna be so furious when he sees that you peed on the floor like a mutt! (then, in my normal voice) Remember that shit?”

I then yelled at her.

Me: “Your father even beat me for a false rape accusation you had against me! You paid some hobo to cum in a pair of panties you stole from my sister and marked them as yours!”

Penelope: "You deserved it for being so annoying to me! Now where is your daughter? I want to see her!"

At that point, Fumei came up to see the commotion.

Fumei: "Who are you?"

Penelope: (in a sweet voice) "Hello, Mrs. Chao. I'm Lei's lovely foster sister. I would like to see your daughter please."

However, my wife is well aware of Penelope and her actions. I told her a time where me and Jiayi beated up a racist rapist in high school because he attempted to rape my twin sister. That guy in particular had a lust for Chinese girls. We spent a week in juvie for that incident and in the end, our foster parents berated us because we were suppose to buy that whore thousands of dollars worth of designer clothes with OUR foster checks, and punished both of us, with me in particular being starved. I even heard Penelope snicker how she wished Jiayi was brutally raped by that psycho. Two days later, we ran away from home. Our first meal in a Chinese restaurant was the biggest ‘fuck you’ to them.

Fumei: Penelope, I am aware of you and your family's treatment of my husband and his sister. You and your parents are the absolute lowest of scum who shouldn't be near children at all. Now get the fuck out or else me and my husband will assist you in getting out, and I don't think you want us to assist you, do you?

Penelope then flipped the bird at us and left. Since then, I get messages from her and her stupid friends about how rude we were to deny her from seeing Xiu-mei and that we were lying about the abuse the foster family did to us. Uh, you do realize that there are public records of them abusing me and my sister, right?

Even friends from high school who felt sorry for me said I was constantly hungry most of the time. They would've reported them to CPS, but I begged them not to.

Comments
"NTA. I've read your stories about Penelope and her parents, and these people are horrible! How they got to be your foster parents to begin with is beyond me! I'm surprised they aren't in jail!" - LilMisfit193

"C****y boy is DEFINETLY the asshole because I deserve to see his daughter! Not only that, but you still owe me my designer clothes that you and your sister burned down! I can't wait to get my hands on your daughter!" - PenelopethePrincess2944

"Why don't you just fuck off and leave my brother alone? You and your bitch of a mother abused me and my brother just for your selfish gain. Not only that, but you worsen Lei's sociopathy because your racist ass had to torment him and force him to watch you eat while he starved just for not buying you the right clothes! And we were teenagers at that time! I do not want to imagine what sadistic things you would do to Xiu-mei..." - JiayiBozz934

"Damn, sis. You completely summarized my thoughts on her comment! But seriously, Penelope, leave me and my family the fuck alone. You aren't entitled to see my daughter." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for turning Rick into the police after I found out he participated in the Capitol building riot?
For those living under a rock, some crazy Trump supporters raided the Capitol building and caused massive havoc. It was so crazy, that some people died, including a D.C. officer. However, I had to take some drastic action in relation to the incident and I'm unsure if it's the right thing to do...

If you read BE!Maria's AITA story before, you may be familiar with Rick. He's an obsessive anti-SJW who had to get a reality check after she called him out for trying to dox left-leaning journalists. However, he didn't learn, and he still spits out his shitty beliefs. He left to D.C. two days before the riot, and came back looking like he's trying to get away with murder. He even asks some of the gang members like me on how to keep a low-profile after a crime. I was suspicious, but I didn't think of anything crazy until recently.

The FBI released photos asking for identification on some of the participations of the attack, and wouldn't you know it, Rick is seen in one photo doing a Nazi salute while standing on Pelosi's desk. Once I saw the pic, I called the number and told the FBI who was in the photo as an anonymous tip. And a few hours later, Rick got apprehended.

Rick doesn't know who ratted him out, and neither does his family or friends. However, there's this voice in my head that's telling me that maybe I shouldn't had done it. It seemed like the right thing to do, but I'm not sure what will happen if Rick finds out who blew the whistle.

Comments
"NTA. If anything, you did the right thing to report him to the police and make him face consequences. I encourage anyone who knows the terrorists in the riot to report them immediately." - Biden4DaWin

AITA for telling a pedophile hunter to fuck off after I livestreamed my 3-year old daughter playing Pokémon Ultra Moon?
This happened in 2018, My daughter just turned 3 and since she was little, wanted to play a Pokémon game for a while, When she saw Maria playing Pokémon Ultra Moon for a livestream walkthrough, she decided that she wanted a turn next, It was before the Episode RR mission, so Maria decided to let her do it next

Xiu-mei was sat on the couch with two cameras and the 3DS XL and the capture card, so it was on the TV.

Now, she was given tips on how to deal with the trainers before the Six Mofos of Pokémon, They weren’t too hard for her.

She did very well dealing with the first two, she did Maxie first then Archie, then Lysandre and then Cyrus, she had a little difficulty with Lysandre but pulled through, facing Ghetsis and Giovanni in that exact order are mandatory, Ghetsis was pain to defeat if Maria is to be believed because he goes “screw the rules I have green hair and an underleveled Hydreigon”, but Xiu-mei had no problems defeating him, but Giovanni was a pain in the balls, it took her a while but she got it.

To reward her, I took her to the park and that's when this pedo hunter walked up to us. Now, I don’t have a good view of anti-pedophile vigilantes. I get that they want to expose pedophiles and lock them up, and I can respect that as someone who kills them for a living. But most of the time, they target innocent people who've done no wrongdoing and they don't even bother to apologize when they find out that the person they targeted wasn’t a pedo.

PH: "Excuse me, but weren't you live-streaming your daughter? You do realize you're making her vulnerable to pedophiles to do god-knows-what to her!"

Me: "Seriously? I kill pedophiles for a living, and you people make the actual good anti-pedos look bad."

PH: "But I'm just doing what's right! Do you want something bad to happen to her?"

Me: "No, but you don't see me accusing innocent people of being a pedofuck without any evidence! When I go after them, I make sure there is hard evidence against them."

Now, if the other witnesses are the be believed, he has falsely accused many people of pedophilia and has ruined many people's lives. And even when they are found not guilty, this fucker still claims they are otherwise.

Comments
"NTA. If PH wanted to stop pedophilia, why not follow in Lei's footsteps?" - Kreshawn45

"NTA. As a pedo hunter myself, that is not how you catch pedos. He might need to come to my company so I can teach him how to properly catch them." - Javone333

AITA for going off at a militant atheist for making a devout Christian mother cry?
Now, before you read this, I’m atheist, The reason is because God and Love don’t exist in a vile world the one I was born in, If I did believe in God, I would not consider him a benevolent or a good being, What kind of a God would allow a poor pair of Chinese twins to be born in a world and live their lives in agony and suffering?

One of Xiu-mei’s friends from her playgroup Fumei attends is Christian and is apart of a devout Hongkongese-American Christian family, the mom, Kelly is like the mom would wish you and I had, kind and very sweet, She still says Jesus loves his children regardless, she even is tolerant of Maria’s pagan beliefs and accepts she does not want to be a Christian, this woman is in her 40’s, 44 to be precise, I accidentally called her “mom” a few times because she was the closest thing I had to a mom in my gang life, we both speak Cantonese and this made me relate to her since Mila can’t really speak due to a disability.

She’s spoken to Tanisha and she accepted the fact even though she and her husband are pro-life, that Tanisha could not love the baby and she got on well with her.

Now, I told her it’s okay if she wants to share Xiu-mei Bible stories, but not allowed to take home anything related to it, she’s atheist like me.

Me, her and her son, who really does like hanging out with Xiu-mei, now, this happened at a fast-food restaurant, and before eating, she and her son pray and thank Jesus and God for their food, she says me and Xiu-mei don’t have to do this but I’d wait until she’s done.

This woman glared at Kelly and her son John, she then said something about how “Christianity is a bunch of bullshit”

When they were praying, This woman got up and slammed the table like she was the Hulk.

AB (Atheist Bitch): “Stop doing that.”

Kelly: “Doing what?”

AB: “That! Thanking a non-existent God for your food. I cannot believe you would believe that shit!”

Now, It’s these kinds of assholes that give atheists everywhere a bad name. I don’t give a fuck if you believe in God or Jesus, but at the same time I'm not gonna harrass people just because of it.

AB: (to me) "You believe in that shit too?"

Me: "No. Me and my daughter are atheists, but we are being respectful to Kelly's religious beliefs. Now can you go screw off? We're not bothering anyone."

AB: "You're no atheist! A real atheist would talk her down!"

Me: “I’m not atheist because I think religion is for idiots. The reason is because what kind of a God would allow me to be born in a disgusting and vile life and allow a pair of poor Chinese twins to suffer?!”

AB: "Aaaaaand, do I give a shit? No! Fuck Jesus, fuck God, and fuck every Christian in the world! Go back to worshipping your false god while you endorse Donald Trump and QAnon!"

Kelly was sobbing at this point as I yelled at this stupid bitch.

Me: "See what your dumbass just did?! You made her cry! You owe her an apology!"

AB: "I don't owe her shit! She is a brainwashed asswipe who probably supports child molestation in the church!"

It was at this point that Kelly snapped.

Kelly: "LEAVE ME ALONE!!! NOW!!!"

AB: (in a baby voice) "Awwww, is the baby mad? Does she need a bottle?"

I was about to reign hell on this cunt when the manager came and asked her to leave. To this day, AB still insists that she was in the right and hopes to "convert" Kelly into atheism. Kelly has blocked AB from all of her social media.

Comments
"Do you need to ask? Definitely NTA! As an atheist myself I apologize for her behavior. Most of us aren't like AB!" - KyleTheAtheist

AITA for telling someone to piss off over my daughter’s stuffed toy because it ‘offends’ her?
This happened at a comic book shop before the COVID-19 pandemic, and believe me, This is as stupid as it sounds.

Now, To begin with, We own a set of Pikachu dressed up as the villainous team leaders, her favorite out of them us a Pikachu in a Ghetsis outfit and one in a a Cyrus outfit, which she nicknames Mr. Funny Outfit and Mr. Grumpy, She has the Maxie one but it’s safe to say she loves all three.

We went to a comic book shop to buy the latest manga for the gang, Xiu-mei came with me, She brought Mr. Funny Outfit with her, She sometimes asks tons of questions and the staff, like “Why are these manga wrapped?” and the staff reply with “It’s so kids can’t access grownup manga”.

Xiu-mei was playing and cuddling him when I was at the cash register, Then Xiu-mei felt a tap, now, Xiu-mei hates being touched by strangers, It was a young woman in her 20’s.

YW: “Can your daughter put that away?”

I looked at her like she had three heads, she was pointing at Xiu-mei’s plushie, I was like “What the fuck?”

Lei: “No.”

Xiu-mei then stared at the woman for a moment before saying “Don’t touch me again.”

Then the woman went on about her dad was abusive and how I was an “abuse apologist” for allowing my daughter to keep “that thing”.

Now, I grew up under an incredibly abusive ‘dad’ who forced me and my sister in snuff films and murders. From what I’ve seen when playing Pokémon BW and their sequels, the shit my ‘dad’ did would give Ghetsis and many fictional bad parents a run for their money, oh my fucking god..... Like, IDGAF if my daughter owns it. She says “He loves to play with the others and he’s very nice.”

Me: Look, I'm sorry for what you went through. I went through an abusive childhood as well. However, me buying her a Pikachu in a Ghetsis outfit DOES NOT make me an abuse apologist. Besides, why would you go out of your way to pester a little girl for a toy you don't like?

The cashier also told her to buzz off and she’s being disruptive. But the last straw came when she snatched it out of Xiu-mei’s hands. And she was about to run off with it before a man stopped her. She tried to shove him away, but he won't budge. He gave it back to Xiu-mei, she asked the doll if “he” was okay. I really let that bitch have it.

Lei: “Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me, are you outta your mind? What the fuck made you think snatching a stuffed toy out of a child’s hand, let alone my daughter's, was the best solution?! If this is about the guy Pikachu’s dressed as, I don’t wanna hear it! Like I said earlier, I had an abusive dad! He cared nothing for me and my sister! I never loved in fucking return! But you don’t see me snatching toys off little kids!”

The man who saved her plush was very sweet to her, even reassuring her there’s nothing to be frightened of.

Comments
"NTA. I don't understand why people think they're entitled to everything just because something offends them. If it offended you that much, just ignore it!" - BobTheBuller24

== AITA for refusing the advances of one of Penelope’s friends from high school who called my sister a whore and me a “ugly scrawny puke” after she was nearly raped? (TW Sexual assault and attempted rape) == Back again, Now, This just happened and I sorta need to know this.

One of Penelope’s friends, Jetta, who still stuck by her even after me ruining my reputation, now, I wasn’t considered very attractive to the girls in high school, being a starving foster care brat constantly running on low fuel didn’t do it for me, so what most girls saw me as is a gangly teenager who keeps trying to steal food.

Now, me in my 30’s, Let’s say if I traveled back in time when I was a high school student, girls would fall for me in an instant, long hair, delicate features, slightly bulkier due to me finally eating regularly, Think of a long-haired pretty boy character and that is me.

Now, This happened at the park, Jetta recognized me from Penelope, It was warm so I was pretty much topless, I was there with my daughter, other than another parent with their kid, me and Xiu-mei were the only people there aswell as Jetta.

Now, Jetta called me ugly as a teenager and my sister a “filthy Asian whore”, I heard squealing, Now, I’m used to it because I’m sure most boy-crazy teenage girls and young women had this reaction upon seeing a man with long hair reaching his waist and hips and decently built, I got up and shit, It’s Jetta, she’s blushing over me like my sister with Sephiroth.

Now, I recognized Jetta and she was like.....

Jetta: “Oh God! Who hit someone like you with the sexy stick?!”

I got up, hand on hips and everything, My daughter was playing on the swings.

Jetta: “You used to be so damn ugly in high school, Do you remember me?”

Jetta went up and touched me on the chest and abdomen and started feeling me all over, now, I have pretty bad haphephobia, so I grabbed her hands.

Lei: “Fuck off.”

Jetta: “Come on baby....”

Lei: “I’m married you bitch, You called my sister a whore, me an ugly scrawny puke, You think I’m gonna date you? Even if my daughter didn’t exist and I wasn’t married, I sure as hell wouldn’t date you.”

Jetta got incredibly annoyed at me refusing her advances, the next thing I knew, I was dragged behind a tree out of Xiu-mei’s sight range, then was thrown to the damn floor and she started undoing my belt and pulled my fly down before she unbuttoned the button (I was wearing jeans), I’m not honestly sure what happened next, But I had to redo my belt, Thankfully the other parent stayed with my daughter.

My belt was still undone, I knew Jetta was a fucked up bitch, But didn’t realized she was that fucked up.

Jetta: “Wait, come back here!”

Me: “No! Get away from me!”

The mother that stayed with Xiu-mei called the police and when they came, I explained what happened and the parent confirmed my testimony.

Jiayi gave that bitch a black eye after she found out what she did when she arrived at the scene, I’m unharmed mostly and suffered no harmful effects, because I know most women in my life would never do this to me

TL;DR: Was almost raped by one of Penelope’s friends from high school who mocked my sister for nearly being raped and me for my appearance.

Comments
"NTA. She literally tried to rape you! No one deserves this!" - UncutGemz144

AITA for going off at a pro-choicer because she told me my mother couldn’t have loved me because I was a rape baby? Then told me my daughter, my own child should have been aborted?
Now, Before you read this, I’m no pro-lifer, a pro-lifer would probably justify the horrible life I’ve been through from childhood to early adolescence, My mother died giving birth to me and my twin sister after being brutally raped, leading to me and Jiayi’s conception, the coroner said she would have lived if she gave birth to one baby instead of two, needless to say, Qing-lai hated me for killing his “bride”, Like hell she was a bride to that old perverted lolicon asswipe, She had no love for the asshole.

I call the circumstances of my birth “born wrong”.

Now, Qing-lai (Not father, He doesn’t deserve that title after all the shit he put me and Jiayi through) told me all the time from the age of four I should have been aborted and I “don’t have a mommy because I killed her” because the coroner determined my birth worsened her rape injuries because at birth, I weighed more than Jiayi, which he caused, he even told my sister she should have been aborted too, because he didn’t want a daughter.

Even though she died after I was born, me and my sister are somewhat certain despite the horrible and abusive life we were born and making sure Xiu-mei didn’t suffer what I did at her age, She even wrote us a poem in Cantonese for us hours before she took her last breath, It’s one of the few things I have of her and is one of the only things to survive our entire childhood and adulthood, She loved us both, even if she’s only with us for seven hours.

Now, I do not like being told I should have been aborted, and I have never told my wife she should have aborted Xiu-mei because of me being mentally ill, it never ends well, Xiu-mei gave me a purpose other than a license to kill, from what I’ve known and after having child psychologists look at her, other than being well-spoken for her age and a slightly higher intelligence than any child her age, she’s a fairly normal little girl who loves to play with her daddy

This happened when I was sorting through my war crime flicks. I like to sort them alphabetically. Anyway, Francesca has a friend called Erica, who I’ve seen at pro-choice rallies, she’s more pro-abortion than pro-choice if you ask me. She believes in aborting babies with birth defects, something I can understand, but she takes it too seriously. When she found out me and my sister were rape babies, she wouldn’t shut the fuck up about it.

Then what she said really pissed me off.

“I don’t think your mother would have loved you. If anything, she would've been ashamed to have you.” Now, I know for a fact that’s not true. One of the “midwives” confirmed that despite us being that man’s “spawn”, she loved me and my sister very much.

I fucking lost it and slapped her and told her to shut her trap. Somehow unfazed by that, she then said my upbringing shows. Now, I’m a diagnosed sociopath or antisocial personality disorder and she knows this and what buttons to push.

“(SHUT THE FUCK UP!)” I yelled at her in Cantonese, then said this in English: “You’re gonna tell me I should have been aborted?! All because I was some teen’s rape child?! That ‘some teen’ actually fucking loved me!”

Then she had the motherfucking audacity to tell me my daughter should have been aborted because I was a mentally ill man with mental health issues caused by years of abuse, and therefore, Xiu-mei was gonna inherit all of that and be an insane girl that nobody would love. To make matters worse, she said it while my daughter was present. That's right, my FIVE-YEAR OLD daughter heard all of that! Now, Xiu-mei knows what an abortion is, because auntie Tanisha had one and Tanisha sometimes will bring it up, and this broke her heart (Don’t ask us that a five-year old knew what abortion is, because she’s overheard it).

Now, due my mental health problems, My sister and wife had to help me with Xiu-mei as a baby and toddler, I warmed up to her and despite mental health specialists telling me I would never be able to love a child, I loved this baby girl.

Then I heard her speak: “Daddy, should I’ve been aborted? And does that mean that no one's gonna love me?” while hearing her about to cry. Trying not to burst into tears myself upon hearing that, I ran and picked her up.

“No, sweetheart, Don’t say that.....Daddy and Mommy love you very much....I’ll give you a better childhood I never had...” I said to her mournfully, then glared at Erica “Get the fuck out of here, just get the fuck out! I've had it with your bullshit!”

"I'm sorry, I-" Erica attempted to apologize, but I cutted her off.

“Oh, you’re fucking sorry? Is me being a child born from rape such a catastrophe for you you’d rather the destroy the confidence of a five-year old child?! FUCK OFF!”

"Well fuck you then!" Erica yelled as she flipped the bird at me and left soon after. Francesca blocked all contact and apologized profusely to me and Xiu-mei and thought she was to blame for inviting her in. I forgave her and reassured her that it wasn't her fault.

Comments
"YTA, Lei! I was just stating opinions! And while I realized that it wasn't the best wording in hindsight, you took it way too damn seriously and berated me for no reason! You won't even accept my apology! So how about YOU go FUCK OFF?!?!" - EricaIzza924

"Are you fucking serious right now? What you did back there was not just 'stating opinions'. You literally went as far as to say my mother won't have loved me and that she would've been ashamed to have me, which couldn't have been farther from the truth. Also, if you read my other stories (and the beginning of my post), you would've known that my piss-poor-excuse-of-a-father was extremely abusive to my and my twin sister and also said the same shit that you were saying. Apologize all you want, but I'm not accepting that shit. Don't contact me or my family again, because we're fucking done for." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for not giving my daughter’s Build a Bear as well as my friend’s younger sister’s to someone’s severely autistic daughter?
Hey, Before you lot read this, I am NOT anti-autistic, I hate Autism Speaks with a burning passion, I also hate parents using autism as an excuse to justify their kids’s actions.

Me and Xiu-mei went to Build-A-Bear Workshop, Adil and Patime were there too, Xiu-mei had picked the last Happy Hugs Teddy and dressed it in a nice party dress and a bow, Patime dressed her bear, a pastel cat in hospital scrubs.

Now, Xiu-mei decided her bear was a girl and Patime decided despite her bear’s feminine appearance, she insisted on referring to it as a he, we jokingly nicknamed it the “BABW Bishonen”

Both of them were the last ones in stock in the Happy Hugs Teddy and Pastel Swirly Kitty

While we were paying for it, I felt a hand touch me, I almost flinched, I do not like being touched by anyone aside from a select few.

It was an older woman and her autistic daughter, who was at least 14, Now, I’ve seen many older autistic kids, Most are good kids and it’s clear their parents love them, but this woman, she had that Karen vibe, Let’s call her Karen.

Karen: “Excuse me, You’re about to buy the two bears I wanted for my daughter, Can you please give them to me?”

I looked at Adil then at Patime, I’m already paying for Patime’s, then Xiu-mei shook her head.

Karen then turned to her daughter.

Karen: “I’m sorry, the two selfish boys won’t give you it.”

The Karen’s daughter then began screaming and throwing a fit, Now....What made me NOT want to give it to her is that she scratched Patime and tried to snatch it off her.

Patime: “No! Back off!”

Adil, who had to be gentle, stopped her from scratching at Patime.

The worker told her that me and Adil were in no way inclined to give her the damn bears.

Karen: "How very disrespectful of you guys to not give my severely autistic daughter a Build-a-Bear. I bet you guys hate autistic people, do you?!"

Me: "No! We don't hate autistic people, but we're not about to give your daughter our bears that we're paying for!"

Comments
"NTA. People like Karen are the reason why autistic people aren't taken seriously!" - AntiAutismSpeaksPerson

"The Karen's daughter reminds me of Raymond's behavior. They both have in common. Both are severely autistic, scream a lot, throw fits and scratch people." - PortiaTheSpecialNeedsMom

"As Person with Autism (aka Asperger's Syndrome), My Foster Mom name Annette never use Autism as Excuse for my and My Other Autistic Siblings name Emily, Danny and Corey's Behavior, When I was Younger was Acting like a bully and Spoiled Brat and My mom put me in Time-out and take my Privileges but Now I'm almost 17 Years Old and Mature (But Still has Meltdowns)." - AutisticLyra

"YTA. May I remind you that I am the same woman whom you and your friend refused to let me give my daughter the bears? They were the last ones in stock and the employee told me that you guys were no way inclined to give my daughter the bears. She may look like she's at least 14, but she is still 15 years old. She has severe autism and diagnosed with it at the age of 2. She always wanted those bears. You think I have a Karen vibe do you? Well, I guess my daughter needed more sensory toys." - ilovemyseverlyautisticdaughter

AITA for telling an anti-vaxxer to fuck off and get away from my foster sister’s cancer stricken daughter?
Back again with this shit, I met Lizzie, my foster sister from my first foster home, Unlike Penelope, I actually allow her to see Xiu-mei, their parents haven’t met my family yet, Considering I killed their daughter’s hamster, I cannot blame them.

Jackie, even though he’s religious, He’s grew up a lot when I last saw him, Ironically, He became a music teacher that plays heavy metal.

Lizzie has a five-year old daughter fighting cancer named Aimee, She’s a good girl and Xiu-mei considers her her ‘cousin’.

Now, Aimee is short haired due to the chemotherapy and is currently in remission and her hair is starting to grow back.

Me, Jiayi, Fumei (my wife, She and Lizzie get on well) Lizzie, Jackie, Lizzie’s husband Roger and two daughters, one is Aimee were walking to the shops after meeting up and reconciling.

Aimee’s immune system is extremely weak and both of her parents and uncle shower several times a day in case they accidentally pass COVID-19 to her, Due to her weakened immune system, She is unable to be vaccinated and her mom wouldn’t let not wearing masks go near her

Now, While shopping, Aimee stays with Lizzie when I heard an argument broke out.

This mom was yelling at Lizzie about how COVID-19 is a hoax and that vaccines caused her daughter’s cancer.

Lizzie told me her she had to give up her job due to the pandemic and take care of her daughter.

This mom wasn’t even wearing a mask.

EM: “My child is disturbed by your daughter’s freakishness and no hair!”

I was pissed off at this point, I went to her.

Me: "Uh, you do realize that she had cancer, right? That's why she lacks hair."

EM: “She’s probably dying anyways!”

Me: (shocked) “What the hell?! Who said anything about dying?!”

Aimee: “Uncle....I’m I dying?”

Me: “No, You’re not dying.....”

Me and several others glared at the woman, Now, I never saw Caroline, Penelope’s daughter as my niece but Aimee and Mae, I swear....They grow on me....

EM: "Well get that freak away from us! She isn't vaccinated and I will not go bald because of that bitch!"

I was very pissed off at this point, especially with that "bitch" part. I then let out a barrage of swearwords, some of which were in Cantonese.

Me: “THAT IS IT! GET THE FUCK OUT! You have no idea what her parents have fucking been through!”

EM flipped the bird at me and Aimee and left.

Comments
"NTA. What's with these anti-vaxxers acting like asswipes? I thought we'd all agreed that vaccines were safe and effective!" - NoahzMatez44

AITA for kicking my friend’s gay friend out of the hideout for making inappropriate advances on me despite me telling him I’m married?
Me again. Now, before you lot accuse me of being homophobic, I have gay friends, including Darren Keene.

BE!Maria has a friend, Rickie from high school who is gay, now, This guy is quite masculine with muscle mass and tight clothes, read up bara manga for more info, however, I’m quite feminine looking like a JPRG villain with long hair, slight hints of muscle mass, soft features and eyes, Other than the height and slight muscle mass, I look like my sister.

Due to this, he makes pretty inappropriate jokes about my body and appearance and constantly violates my boundaries, and one thing to know about me is that I HATE being touched by men, childhood abuse did some pretty fucked things to the mental health.

This happened when I was in the main room cleaning up and sorting out documents.

Now, He soon came in and was asking me questions, the next thing I knew he began turning me around and fondling my body, Including my hips and chest, He soon began to pull on my buttoned shirt then unbuttoned it and inserted his hands up my bare torso, which was very uncomfortable and I was freaked out.

Rickie: (flirting) “Oh, baby... You’re so feminine for a man... Your long hair and hips... Yet you got some muscle underneath those layers, baby... Your abs and pecs... I just wanna worship it all...”

Lei: “Excuse me? Why don't you get the fuck off?! I’m already married, and I don't like being touched due to childhood abuse!”

He ignored it, and the next thing I did was ending up kicking him off me when he began to feel my thighs and lick my cheeks.

Rickie burst into tears like a baby and yelled that I was homophobic and hated LGBT people, which was untrue, since, like I said at the beginning of this post, I am good friends with Darren Keene.

Rickie: “You’re homophobic! I cannot believe you assaulted me!”

Lei: Hey, you started this shit by coming up to me when I said no!

Fumei and Rickie’s husband Joe came in.

Joe: “What is going on here?!”

Rickie then broke down on the floor and acted like someone told him his parents died from a car crash.

Rickie: “He was being homophobic to me and was calling me a f****t!”

Joe glared at me.

Joe: "What is your deal, dude?! Why would you do that?"

Lei: “Everything he said was not true! He was trying to molest me despite me telling him I was married, not gay, and certainly not into him!”

Fumei then turned to me, my destroyed buttons was all the proof she needed, she turned to Joe and Rickie.

Fumei: “I don’t believe it....”

Joe: “What the fuck do you mean you don't believe it?! Your husband assaulted mine AND call him the f word, and I'm not talking about the word 'fuck'!”

Fumei then showed Joe the indications of assault on me.

Fumei: “Who the hell do you believe?! Your husband who's currently acting like a jackass or a mentally ill Chinese man who has haphephobia? Look at these! Buttons unbuttoned!”

Maria soon came into the room. She saw me with by lower buttons unbuttoned and looking incredibly freaked out.

Maria: What in the world happened?!

Lei: “Your friend is a fucking creep who tried to touch me!”

That's when Rickie ended up snapping.

Rickie: HOW ABOUT YOU SHUT UP YOU FUCKING J*P?!?! GET HIS ASS, JOE!!!

Joe then slapped me, causing Maria to push him off me.

Maria: “Get out! Get out of my fucking hideout, Rickie! And you two, Joe! You being gay DOES NOT entitle you to disregard Lei’s boundaries!”

Rickie: "Why? It's because I'm gay, isn't it you FUCKING HOMOPHOBES!!!"

Maria: "No! This has nothing to do with you being gay! You kept on advancing on a man who is married, didn't consent to you, and has had a history of men and women trying to sexually assault him! Now leave or else I will make you leave!"

I, as well as Fumei and Maria, are now banned from Joe and Rickie’s friend group because they think we're homophobic for not liking Rickie touching me and making inappropriate comments about my appearance and body.

Comments
"YOU ARE A FUCKING ASSHOLE, LEI!!! I WAS JUST MESSING WITH YOU AND YOU OVERREACTED AND GOT YOUR FRIENDS TO ASSAULT ME AND KICK ME OUT BECAUSE OF MY SEXUALITY!!! YTA FOR LIFE, AND GO KILL YOURSELF YOU FUCKING C***K!!!" - RickieTheGayie

"What. The. Fuck? Rickie, if you were innocent, you cussing out at Lei for 'lying' and calling him a c***k is not helping your case. If anything, that's just exposing you for being racist and having no consideration for a haphephobic man. He is married, has a daughter, and gave you several chances for you to back off, and you still thought it was okay to act like a creep? You reminded me of Annabelle, who tried to sexually assault him in bed, which traumatized him for the rest of the day. You and Joe should not contact me or my friends anymore, because we're done for!" - MariaTachimi1981

"As a gay male myself, at least I am not like Rickie nor Joe. I am obsessed with drag queens, girly pop music and wore feminine clothes. I also hated Q-Force because of its negative stereotypes about the LGBT and queer community." - KlaineFanatic

AITA for calling out a woman by telling her her rainbow baby isn’t special?
Before you lot read this, I do sympathize with this woman, but fuck... She won’t discipline her brat for shit....

Now, There is a Korean woman named Mi-hee in another crime gang, her last baby, a girl was a stillborn and has now a 5-year old girl after that named Jang-yo who was born sixteen months after their stillbirth

The main problem with her is that she is bratty, screams constantly, her mother does nothing but spoil the shit out of her, Maria refuses to be around her whatsoever and I even declined babysitting her.

She was even rough with my family’s pet cat, Kuíqísi, He despises her and even scratched her out of fright and jumped in my arms, Her mother demanded I put him down, She pulled on his whiskers.

Now, This girl found a bunch of Patime’s birthday gifts which were due for 9th June which included Fulla dolls (Barbie dolls for Muslim girls), Some Arabic-language learning books and several others, including a Meowth plushie (She loves cat Pokémon and Kuíqísi loves her as much as he loves Xiu-mei).

When she was found unwrapping most of them, I pulled her away from the gifts only to have her try and scratch me. She went to her mother and demanded that they were now hers because she unwrapped them first. Her mom then agreed with her and said that her daughter was entitled to the gifts.

Mi-hee: "I'm sorry, but Patime cannot have the presents. Since my daughter found them first, she is entitled to the gifts. You guys know she is a rainbow child, and you have to go easy on her!"

After facepalming from that cringy line, I pulled her mother to the side and said this to her in front of our respective gangs:

Me: ”Mi-hee, let me make this abundantly clear: Your child is NOT special for being a rainbow baby. If anything, she is a spoiled brat who thinks the world revolves around her. Say what you will about me, but at least I discipline Xiu-mei and make sure she doesn’t grow up misbehaving and doing this shit. The fact your child is this self-entitled is so goddamn annoying. Listen here, my mother died giving birth to me and my sister. Was I ever entitled to being a golden child because my mother died giving birth? No, I wasn’t. My life was horrible anyways. The fact your child thinks she is this entitled to opening someone else’s birthday gifts and claiming it's hers is basically a sign you failed as a parent. And before you ask, yes, we get that your last daughter was stillborn, but you allow your daughter to be a brat and you enable this behavior. She hurt my family’s pet cat, and you played the victim because your kid was rough with him. She went through my gory films and heavy metal collection and you blamed me instead of watching your damn kid. This is why me and Maria refuse to babysit for you. Now get out! Both of you!”

Everyone was shocked at my brutally honest rant. Thankfully, Patime’s gifts were able to be wrapped again before she saw them.

I now have her boyfriend yelling at me and saying I should be more considerate of her because she lost her baby. I reminded him that at one point she tried to take our cats to the vets to have them put down because one of the cats had the audacity to fight back after her daughter was constantly terrorizing them.

Comments
"NTA. Why do you guys constantly allow these people in your base? They also have to start trouble! And just because you lost a baby doesn't mean you spoil your kid and pin the blame on others!" - RagnarokWorshipper666

AITA for kicking MALPS out of the base after she tried to steal my heavy metal CDs because they "triggered" her?
For those who don't know, MALPS is a Youtuber who is famous for her "calming videos". Calming videos are basically a character having a panic attack or scared of a flu shot and needs to be comforted by someone else. I don't watch those types of videos, but she does have a loyal fanbase. She's also part of the Go!Animate/Vyond community, but she's at least one of the more saner members of the community. At least that's what I thought before she arrived...

Now, MALPS was visiting the base because she was considering moving here since we have better Internet than the outside, and she needed the faster Internet speeds to upload her videos, since her place has bad Internet. As she entered my place, she found my heavy metal CDs. She felt disgusted by this and then attempted to take them. I saw this and stopped her.

Me: Excuse me, but what the hell do you think you're doing?

MALPS: I am taking away those horrible heavy metal CDs! They are triggering me!

She then pulls out some of the CDs.

MALPS: Autopsy, Darkthrone, Morbid Saint, and Iron Maiden... those bands suck! And is that a Cannibal Corpse album?!

Now, I have to be more careful with my CDs, as a few months ago, Hope Plank destroyed a Deicide CD that I got from my now dead friend Jacob because she thought her siblings were gonna listen to it. We cut ties with her, and then she had the fucking audacity to try and earn my forgiveness by making me cake. I ended up slamming that shit in her face.

Anyway, I took the CDs and said this:

Me: Look, MALPS, I get that you aren't so fond of heavy metal, but try and take them away? Are you shitting me?! The last time someone took my CDs, they ended up destroying it, and it was from a deceased friend of mine!

Despite me trying to reason with her, she persisted and then tried to make a run for it while carrying my CDs. Me and my wife (who was watching our fight from the kitchen) ended up having to tackle this bitch.

Me: You know what?! Get the fuck out! You're done!

The CDs ended up falling on the ground, but thankfully, none of them were damaged.

Since then, MALPS has harassed me and my friends on social media claiming that she got PTSD from the incident and that she threatened to come back and destroy the CDs.

Comments
"Jesus Christ... as a MALPS fan myself, I would like to apologize for her actions. This is not what we stand for in the calming community! - MiguelRivers93

"NTA. I've never been a Vyond guy myself, and MALPS sounds like a shitty person. I hope the base banned her." - HorridHarrison422

AITA for kicking a family out of a funeral after their bratty son tried to steal a Nintendo DSi and games from the casket?
Backstory: A gang member from a gang we partnered with, her 11-year old daughter So-won was terminally-ill with Huntington’s Disease and her last wish was to play the new Pokémon games. The gang member was a woman of Chinese-Korean descent and her husband who came from Harbin died from Huntington’s Disease when she was six, which is an incurable brain disease. So-won had a month left to live, and she passed away on the 8th April. In Black, she did not make it to the post-game as she no longer had the strength to complete it. I think she was on the final gym and she died in her mother’s arms. In White, she was barely away from the 4th gym. She didn’t complete both games because she didn't had the strength to continue.

Her mother requested an open funeral and she invited BE!Maria to help finish what So-won started. She completed both games in a matter of three days and she requested both Black and White were buried with her as well as the pink DSi she played it on. Maria told me that the hardest part of completing both games was to not get too emotionally attached to any of the Pokémon she caught in the game and trained because after that, since she'll never see them again after this. The rules were not to nickname the Pokémon and not to trade any.

Once the ceremony was over, me and my wife went to her casket along with BE!Maria when we noticed that the DSi and the games were missing. BE!Maria especially got panicked, and she told So-won's mom Felisha if she changed her mind about burying the games. She said she didn't, and we felt heartbroken.

Felisha: (making an announcement) If anyone has my daughter's DSi and her games, please return them.

While we were looking, we saw a couple with a 12-year old son, the latter was playing with her DSi. I immediately snatched it from him.

BK (Bratty Kid): Hey! What are you doing?!

EF (Entitled Father): Yeah! You don't snatch things away from my son!

Me: Uh, you do realize that this was So-won's DSi, right? (looking through the DS) You guys are so goddamn lucky you didn't delete her save files!

BE!Maria: Also, where are her games?

I noticed that the dad was holding them.

SM (Sympathetic Mother): I am so sorry about this. I tried telling my husband not to take it, but he insisted that we give it to our son!

Now, if the mother is to be believed, their son does not take care of his electronics well. He constantly breaks them, and his father spoils him rotten and replaces every electronic he breaks. Her son also smashed his DS last week and had been pestering his parents to buy him another one.

Me: Sir, you need to give the games to me.

EF: No! Fuck off! My son got it fair and square! The girl’s dead anyway!

BE!Maria: Give it right now or else! Her mother requested the DS and the games be buried along with her! Are you seriously gonna fucking steal from a dead girl?

BK: MY DADDY'S RIGHT!!! WE'RE TAKING THEM WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT!!! THE GAMES ARE MINE AND NOT THAT DEAD BITCH!!!

The "dead bitch" line nearly made me snap. I snatched the games away from the father and told him that next time, we won't be so nice. Felisha in particular looked like she wanted to kill someone and leave no witnesses.

Long story short, the family was kicked out of the funeral and banned from any future events held at the garden. The workers also apologized to So-won's family and promised us that the family won't come back again. Despite that bump on the road, the rest of So-won's funeral went pretty smoothly.

To this day, however, me, Fumei, Maria, and Felisha still get messages from EF and his friends on how we were rude and selfish and how we had no right to take away a DSi from "an innocent boy".

Comments
"NTA. At least the mother was apologetic. The dad and son are the literal male equivalent of a Karen!" - ThyDyingLight55

AITA for telling off another Pokémon Masters EX player for telling my daughter not to use a certain character because she doesn’t have it?
Now, me and my niece play Pokémon Masters EX, which is a gacha game focusing on Pokémon trainers, Me and her share the same account and when she’s playing, I turn off micro-transactions, She’s very good at it.

Her aces in the game are Champion Iris, Ghetsis and Blue, Mine is Ghetsis, Cyrus and Giovanni, our first ones are our favorite to use.

This happened at a little gathering where everyone could send friend requests, team up in co-op battles and many others.

Xiu-mei always puts Champion Iris at the front and I always put Ghetsis in front, the best part is both own Hydreigon in B2W2, So it’s reflected even though he uses Kyurem in Masters.

Xiu-mei uses Ghetsis and Blue to pay homage to me and Adil because “it shows you two are playing with me.”

During the gathering, There was a co-op battle with the EU (Entitled User) and another user I’ll call Jack.

I told Jack that my daughter is actually using my account but she’s really good at the game.

Jack uses Grimsley, Steven Stone and Sygna Suit Elesa, EU uses N, Silver and Hilbert, Xiu-mei was using her team.

We were about to start until EU said.

EU: “I’m not battling.”

Jack and Xiu-mei turned to look at her.

EU: “I didn’t get Champion Iris in March, It’s only fair if she doesn’t.”

Champion Iris was a limited time offer in March, Xiu-mei was very lucky, and she got all excited, She calls her Princess  Àilìsī  (Iris in Mandarin, The language is usually set to Mandarin Chinese), “DADDY! I GOT PRINCESS AILÌSI!”, She ran into me watching Black Sun: 731 just to tell me that, heh...kids, I was proud of her, We did the Father or Foe mission together, Pokémon Masters basically became our bonding activity, she hummed the Legendary Event theme the whole time.

Xiu-mei got very confused at that.

EU: “Didn’t you hear me? Make her change her character!”

I told her no, My daughter wasn’t inclined to change her main ace for the sake of this spoiled little brat.

If you don’t believe me she’s a spoiled little brat, She demanded someone pay her gems for having Ghetsis, Hilbert and Hilda on the same team together, called the poor girl a “An abuser apologist”, The poor girl was 14 and only made Hilda her healer while the boys did the most damage

When it came clear Xiu-mei wouldn’t change her team for this brat’s sake, During the co-op battle, she refused to do anything while Xiu-mei and Jack battled, This greatly annoyed Xiu-mei...over a character she had.

Xiu-mei: “Come on! You need to work as part of a team!”

EU: “No! I'm not gonna help you unless you change your character!”

Xiu-mei sighed in annoyance, It was then until another player who noticed both Xiu-mei and Jack were annoyed with her, she grabbed her phone and proceeded to play it, We’ll call her Alice, turned out this was the girl falsely accused of being an abuse apologist,

Alice: “Next time, Don’t be such a brat due to a kid owning a character you don’t fucking have!”

Alice, Xiu-mei and Jack won anyway, Xiu-mei glared at EU before returning to my side.

Me: “I couldn’t get Alder the first time but you don’t hear me whining like a little bitch about it!”

Now she complains how no one won’t co-op with her and how it’s not fair on her how Xiu-mei has Champion Iris and she doesn’t, at the end, she called me a horrible father who is inconsiderate of her ‘feelings’.

TL;DR: Entitled and jealous spoiled little brat, who is 17 years old demands a 5-year old not use her favorite character because she doesn’t have it due to her being available for a limited time event, she called someone an abuse apologist over her team, she teaches her a lesson.

Comments
"NTA. Who does this woman think she is to boss around a 5-year-old?!" - LucaMeataa246

”I have no idea, Luca. I actually had some issues with other players for me using N and Ghetsis on the same team and me also using Giovanni and Silver on the same team. This is because I grew up with an abusive biological father and abusive foster parents and they would honestly give Giovanni and Ghetsis a run for their money. I actually got called an abuse apologist once, which I don’t give a fuck. He’s a powerful as fuck Ice Tech Sync Pair....” - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

== AITA for telling a mother during my daughter’s 3rd birthday to get out after she unwrapped a iPhone, a new Barbie dollhouse, a Hello Kitty plush and several others for her spoiled brat, then stealing said gifts to teach them a lesson? == This happened during my daughter’s 3rd birthday in 2018, and I’m typing this as she’s cuddling her Glameow plush I got as an early gift for her.

If you’ve seen the episode with Cartman at Stan’s birthday, you'll know what I’m talking about, and to this day, this still pisses me off.

We invited several of her classmates from preschool. This included an entitled mom and henpecked father with their spoiled child.

Now, this was held at a picnic in a national park. Xiu-mei got qipaos from me and Fumei, some alphabet blocks, some books and many others. Now, Xiu-mei was not into tablets, phones or anything she wasn’t into. She was less raised on technology than most children today, and she is supervised when she uses the Internet.

When Xiu-mei was unwrapping her gifts, the spoiled kid, who we will call Erica (Heh....Eric), started unwrapping a gift which revealed a Hello Kitty plush. My eyes got a little wide at that, since it wasn't even her birthday yet.

When Xiu-mei was unwrapping her next gift, which was a kimono Barbie from Satomi and Maria, Erica unwrapped a Barbie dream house. I began to glare at the mother.

Me: "I don't know what this is, but this is looking fishy..."

Liane: "There's nothing fishy going on, Lei! I think your sociopathy is making you see things!"

Now, yes, I do have ASPD, but it doesn't make me see shit. I'm not fucking schizophrenic.

During the next gift, which was a Purrloin, she was mid-unwrapping it when she heard Erica squeal in delight at her new tablet. That's right, her mother brought her a FUCKING iPhone! And she had the fucking audacity to open it at MY daughter’s birthday party.

Xiu-mei took her Purrloin plush and ran off crying, knowing her birthday was going to be ruined by a selfish brat who cannot stand others having attention and the fact she opened an expensive iPhone.

I was seeing red at this point. Seeing my daughter upset at being upstaged at her own birthday isn't something I liked to see.

Me: (coldly) “Get out. Now.”

Erica’s mom, Liane (Another South Park reference LOL) looked at me as her daughter was playing with the things she got at my child’s birthday because she is a spoiled brat.

Liane: “I don't know why you're getting upset at me for. Look, I just wanted my daughter to feel included!”

Me: “You can't be fucking serious right now! You got your daughter a FUCKING iPhone! A FUCKING PHONE?! ALL WHILE MY DAUGHTER GETS LESS VALUABLE THINGS?!”

Now, Erica is the type of kid that throws temper tantrums when someone gets gifts on their birthday because she doesn’t get any.

I was honestly pissed off at Liane, all this because she wanted her child not to throw tantrums.

Me: “You made my daughter cry on her birthday! Are you proud of yourself?!”

Erica: "We don't care! My gifts are better than hers, anyway!"

Xiu-mei was found by a mother with three kids four minutes from the party. She assumed my daughter was lost and did lead us to her.

I thanked them before turning my head back to them. It was at that point that I seized Erica's gifts.

Me: “You are NOT keeping these whatsoever. Leave the gifts and get out! GET OUT!”

Liane: "WHAT?!?! YOU CAN'T DO THAT!!! THAT'S STEALING!!!"

Erica: "YEAH!!! DON'T YOU FUCKING DARE TAKE THEM YOU LONG-HAIRED FREAK!!!"

Erica then tried to snatch them away from me, but failed. It got to a point where me and others had to physically drag them out of the party.

I kept the phone that I now use for me and Xiu-mei, and Xiu-mei kept the Hello Kitty and Barbie Dreamhouse. This may have sounded cruel on my part as I did take them from a child, but it will teach her and her entitled mother a lesson to have consideration at the next child’s birthday party.

Since that day, however, Liane tried to get me charged for theft, which failed miserably after I explained my situation. What was even funnier is that the cops suggested they charged her instead for failing to parent her child properly!

So, AITA?

Comments
"NTA. This was completely unacceptable of them to make Xiu-mei feel less-valued at her party! At least they got karma by having their shit stolen from them." - YuKaga295

"YTA TIMES THE POWER OF 5,000!!! Not only did you embarrassed me and my daughter, but you went as far as to steal her gifts that I PAID FOR and somehow escaped getting charged with theft! I paid for those gifts with my money, and I didn't want my daughter to feel left out! You and your daughter don't like it? SUCK IT UP, BUTTERCUP!!! No wonder you're a diagnosed sociopath, because YOU FUCKING SUCK, AND SO DOES YOUR DAUGHTER!!! YOU BETTER SHIP IT BACK TO US RIGHT NOW OR ELSE I WILL PERSONALLY BREAK INTO THAT FUCKING SHITHOLE TT10 CALLS A BASE AND WREAK HAVOC ON YOUR GODDAMN HIDEOUT, THEN TAKE WHAT'S MINE AND EVEN NUKE YOUR DAUGHTER'S ROOM SHOULD YOU ALL TRY TO STOP ME!!! And one last thing... FUCK!!! YOU!!!" - LianeIsLikeful

"Holy shit.. this might be one of the worst responses I've ever read, and that really is saying something. For starters, the gifts your shit-stained daughter got were in far better value than my gifts, leading to my daughter feeling like she was being less valued on her own fucking birthday! How do you not understand that?! And you deserved to have your gifts taken away! You spoil your daughter like crazy and she is probably one of the worst spoiled kids I've ever met. You guys give Alicia and Simon a run for their money! And I haven't even mentioned your threat of breaking into the base, 'wrecking havoc' on the hideout, and even wanting to demolish my daughter's room! And all for what? Some plush, dollhouse, and iPhone? That is the literal definition of pathetic! I hope you and Erica realize your mistakes and strive to do better. Until that day comes, though, you two are permanently banned from the base and especially the hideout until further notice." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

"Actually, Lei, I think I'm gonna have to side with Liane on this one. Yes, them making Xiu-mei feel less valued on her birthday was bad, but taking their gifts was a bit much. You need to return it to them immediately." - SadeFan395

"Okay, let me put this into full perspective: Liane has done nothing but spoil her daughter to a point where she needs to give her expensive gifts on other children's birthday parties just so Erica won't throw a tantrum. And Erica in particular is one of the worst children I've ever met in my life, and that really is saying something. Simon, Sally Georgia, and Rebecca Vinterland wished they were this bad! And if you still think I am in the wrong here, then how about I remind you a time where Liane and Erica had actually stolen birthday gifts from a 5-year-old kid? That actually happened, and when the family came to try and get the gifts back, they destroyed them!" - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

"They actually stole from a birthday kid? Holy shit..." - SadeFan395

== AITA for yelling at someone who traded my daughter a Pokémon with an extremely insensitive nickname and made him trade the Pokémon, a Purrloin with perfect IVs and at a decent level and a Mesprit back? == This happened during a Pokémon GO meeting event, this happened during a 2018, Xiu-mei was three.

My daughter was trading Pokémon with this 18 year old named Richard, where he tricked her into trading away her Purrloin, which had been transferred over from Black 2 and holding an Everstone because she likes Purrloin that way and her Mesprit.

To my horror, he traded her two male Muk nicknamed Jim Jones and Jonestown.

Xiu-mei: “爸爸, What’s a Jonestown?”

If you don’t know who Jim Jones is or have been living under a rock, he’s the founder of the People’s Temple and he was a pretty terrible guy to say the least. In 1978, his followers were forced to commit suicide by cyanide-laced grape-flavored Flavor-Aid at Jonestown. I’ve even heard the death tape that Feng showed me....fucking hell, now Muk is a purple colored Pokémon that looks like goop, and yeah, that added to it.

He laughed at her in the face and then attempted to make a run for it. I caught up with him and snatched his 3DS off him and demanded he give back my daughter’s Purrloin and Mesprit, He then yelled at that they were traded to him and he has the right to keep them.

Me: “You fucking traded my daughter two Muk with disgusting nicknames! What is your deal?”

Richard: “Well, It’s that brat’s fault for trading her Pokémon! Now give me back my 3DS, you long-haired ass!”

Two security guards went over.

SG1: “What appears to be the trouble?”

Me: “He traded my daughter Muk with the nicknames Jim Jones and Jonestown!”

SG2 took a look at the Muk and the guy’s game, as his ID and name were a match. After my daughter got her Pokémon back, the guy was banned from the place.

I've had others, mainly his friends, tell me it was just a joke. Oh, FFS! Using Pokémon to make fun of a cult suicide isn’t fucking funny!

Comments
"Richard here. Lei, you still owe me that Purrloin and Mesprit you took from me even though I got them fair and square! And you getting offended over a little joke I made about Jonestown makes you a SJW libtard who can't take jokes!" - RichardTheBest444

"A little joke? You can't be serious... I'm a gangster who specializes in poisoning, and I have an interest in Jim Jones and Jonestown. Even then, I can safely say that your 'joke' was fucked up and unacceptable. Hell, I even own a shirt that has Jonestown Juice on it that parodies the modern-day Flavor Aid sachet. The gang doesn't allow me to wear it in public since it can offend some, and I can understand that and use it as pajamas. See, what I have is control. You don't." - FengsSpecialJuice55

AITA for saying that Jake Birou-Jennings needs actual discipline and not a Calming Bottle?
So, Nicole and Robert have adopted this kid named Jake, and the thing is, he won’t let himself be disciplined because according to him: ‘Discipline’ is for ‘evil people’.

This kid, FUCK I HATE THIS CHILD! He’s an undisciplined, selfish, spoiled little child who’s behavior is only enabled because ‘He can’t be disciplined’ and ‘Discipline is for abusers’ according to the self-righteous little bitch known as Elizabeth Forever, who thinks she could of killed Qing-lai instead of me. Speaking of which, she blew up on me and Jiayi that we killed our piss-poor-excuse-of-a-father and not her and would never stop bringing it up. We actually had to cut ties with her because of it.

Now, the reason why this bothers me and why I hate it is because I would NEVER let Xiu-mei get away with some of the shit he does. He actually makes people like Simon or Erica look sane, YES, Even good parents who came from extremely abusive backgrounds discipline their kids.

And the thing is, Elizabeth Forever keeps telling Nicole if she ‘abuses’ him (a.k.a, actually disciplining him like sending him to the Naughty Pit), she’ll send her to South Africa or a mental health institution.

Now, I know Nicole’s approach is tough, but fair, so my rant was more at Elizabeth ‘Bitch’ Forever than her.

Lei: “You do realize that you're just FUCKING enabling him, right? A Calming Bottle is not a discipline technique. It’s just used by parents that think disciplining your child is ‘abusive’. Look here, I had an actual abusive childhood! From the day I was born all the way up to 17 years old, I was abused by that piss-poor-excuse-of-a-father and the narcissists known as the Gardners! And putting your child on a stool, step, or even that pit is a FUCKING CAKEWALK COMPARED TO WHAT I WENT UNDER AS A KID! At least I discipline Xiu-mei. You, Elizabeth, are nothing but a self-righteous hypocrite who thinks Nicole is like Qing-lai! SHE’S NOTHING LIKE HIM, YOU FUCKING ASS! I’m sick of a self-righteous bitch who allows a 5-year old to act like a brat and refuses to let his mother discipline him because you think it’s ‘abusive’ and you teach that spoiled little shit that the Naughty Pit is for evil people! And this is coming from someone who had an abusive childhood!”

And you know what she said to me?

Elizabeth: You know what, Lei? FUCK OFF!!! I'M THE NANNY, NOT YOU!!! I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH AS A CHILD!! YOU ARE IN NO POSITION TO CRITICIZE WHAT I DO!!! THE NAUGHTY PIT IS ONE OF THE WORST ABUSIVE TECHNIQUES I HAVE EVER WITNESSED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE, AND ANY PARENT WHO DOES THAT IS GOING TO A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN HELL WHEN THEY DIE!!! SO SHUT THE FUCK UP AND LET ME DO WHAT I NEED TO DO OR ELSE I WILL SEND YOU TO THE HYPNOSIS CHAMBER!!! OH, AND BY THE WAY, YOU SHOULD'VE LET ME KILL QING-LAI INSTEAD, NOT YOU AND JIAYI!!!

I fucking snapped. I slapped her and told her to fuck off and never come back. I also told Nicole to just cut ties with her and get a better nanny that wasn't this batshit insane.

Comments
"NTA. Elizabeth Savage Forever needs to get cancelled and blacklisted from the nanny community. Her antics are going too far!" - UKFan385

"NTA. Elizabeth Savage Forever need to realized that calming bottles and sensory bottles are used for people who are disabled/mentally illed not for undisciplined children, and also as a mom I do discipline my one kids and also give them a calming bottle when they have a meltdown, but I do agree with you calming bottles shouldn't be used for undisciplined children." - Momof10

AITA for telling the neighbors to quiet their Fourth of July after they started fireworks late into the night?
If it’s one thing I hate, It’s fucking fireworks late into the night when everyone is trying to sleep.

Now, we live in a home that's five houses down places that tends to throw these wild Fourth of July parties, and they’re really fucking loud and even got complaints from some of the neighbors.

Now, my foster sister and her family was staying with us for the Fourth of July festivities, I don’t celebrate it and never had.

This family was setting off fireworks at 2am, I actually got up holding my daughter, Lizzie followed soon on, and went to the house.

Me: “Shut that damn party! We're trying to get some sleep!”

They were also playing patriotic music that would put the Star-Spangled Banner to shame really fucking loudly. Thankfully that stopped.

Me: “I can accept if this was at 6pm... BUT IT'S FUCKING PAST MIDNIGHT!”

Lizzie: “I agree! There’s other people that live here including my foster brother and my niece. Please turn it down!”

It was also a huge ass family, including an extended family which consisted of 5 uncles and 1 aunt from the father’s side and 2 sisters from the mother’s, both sets of grandparents, and more kids than I could count. The kids were screaming and shouting and just being a fucking nuisance in general.

One thing I can say is, the aunts from the mom’s side were the most tolerable and actually apologized for the disruptive party, but the same can't be said to other family members...

ED (Entitled Father): “Excuse me?! Are you trying to disrespect this beautiful country?! We can celebrate America if we want to, you communist!”

Me: So, I'm a communist for asking you guys to keep it down at a party? What sense does that make?

I had Xiu-mei sleeping on my shoulder. She gave a mild death glare at the guy, and I cannot blame her. She was also holding her Dragonite plush.

EU1 (Entitled Uncle 1, father’s eldest brother): “What’s your deal?! We're not doing anything wrong!”

Me: “Excuse me, but since it's pretty obvious you don't know what the fuck I'm talking about: There are people who live in this neighborhood other than you and your family. Mine in particular is trying to sleep! Your crack-infused firework party woke my daughter up!”

EU2 (Entitled Uncle, father’s eldest brother): “So what?! We have the right to throw our party, and you're an ass for trying to stop us!”

Me: “You can have parties, but NOT this loud at midnight when everyone is sleeping! I'm surprised the police haven't showed up to give you a ticket for causing a disturbance!”

EA (Entitled Aunt, Father’s younger sister): “Go back inside, c***k!”

Lizzie then punched her. You don’t call me a racist word when she’s around.

EA: DID YOU JUST PUNCH ME IN THE FACE?!?! WHY?!?!

Me: You deserved it! I don't call you all crackers!

Lizzie: “You...light one more firework... I will put you through a world of pain....”

EA: OH, I'D LOVE TO SEE YOU TRY!!! LET'S LIGHT ANOTHER FIREWORK SO WE CAN SEE WHAT THIS BITCH CAN DO!!!

Me: Please don't. She's already pissed enough as it is. Don't test her or me!

Then, the eldest uncle’s 5 year old son noticed Xiu-mei’s Dragonite plush.

ES: “I want that, daddy!”

EU1: “What?”

ES: “That! I want that! It's my favorite Pokémon!”

EU1 pointed at the plush. Now, Xiu-mei LOVES that plush, and she takes it everywhere.

Also, one thing with Xiu-mei is that she gives the most terrifying death glares. When ES went over to take Dragonite, Xiu-mei gave him the ‘glare of Dioko’. He cried about Xiu-mei being scary.

EU1 soon went over and proceeded to try and snatch her Dragonite plush and I punched him hard.

EU1: WHAT IS IT WITH YOU PUNCHING PEOPLE?!?! JUST GIVE US THE DAMN PLUSHIE!!! BESIDES, POKÉMON IS A BOYS-ONLY FRANCHISE, AND SHE CAN'T HAVE THAT PLUSHIE!!!

Me: “Some patriots you all turn out to be! Disrupting everyone’s sleep! Pissing everyone off! Trying to steal a fucking toy off a 5-year old girl and calling me and Lizzie racial slurs! And also, girls can play Pokémon!”

The family I found out who threw the Fourth of July from hell was eventually kicked out and evicted. The father’s third eldest brother was actually convicted of raping a 16-year old girl and was sentenced to life in prison, and died in jail weeks later because her brother just happened to be his cellmate. You do the math. The father later had his kids taken from him because he had been abusing his two eldest daughters, and the mother was convicted of buying illegal fireworks. Yikes...

The mom’s two sisters, one younger and one older came over to apologize a month later during Xiu-mei’s 6th birthday.

I accepted their apology as it was not technically their fault. They moved away a month later.

Comments
"NTA. I know that parties can get a bit crazy, especially when it's during the Fourth of July, but with the family calling you communists and the c word, trying to snatch a plushie from a 5-year-old girl, insisted that Pokémon was only for boys, AND the convictions of rape, child abuse, and illegal fireworks, and I can't see how anyone can side with them." - MrYoogushi024

"Oh sweetie, you're NTA here, it's my husband and his obnoxious side of his own family. At least my two sisters didn't do anything wrong! I finally apologized, for Pete's sake!" - AWomanWith2Sisters

"This is AWomanWith2Sisters' here. I am Gertrude Wallis, Meredith's sister. My other sister finally apologized for that incident." - GertrudeJWallis

"Hi, I am Meredith, Gertrude's sister. We are very sorry for what happened." - Meredith1986

"Lei here. I'd like to thank AWomanWith2Sisters, GertrudeJWallis, and Meredith1986 for apologizing, and I'll accept them. Not many assholes in these AITA stories even show remorse for what they did, so I appreciate you all owning up to your mistakes." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for refusing to accommodate another parent while at my home?
This happened in 2019. My friend Bopha had a friend from Mommy and Me class, in which we’ll call her Melinda. She has sole custody of her daughter Sally with her separated husband, who is a good for nothing deadbeat who can’t even bring himself to spend time around his own daughter. What. a sperm donor....

Now, Melinda despises me for a reason even I don’t know.

Now, she sometimes stays over. I often have my wife, the mother of my child, and she makes up all these rules for me:


 * No goth or tight clothing as it sets a bad example (Fuck that, especially since the latter is apart of our paramilitary uniform)
 * No violent video games as it sets a bad example
 * No heavy metal (She's especially worried with some of the more extreme albums I own)
 * Quiet time is at 7pm as that’s her bedtime (My daughter goes to sleep at 8:30pm every night)
 * Not allowed to have Fumei over as she’ll wonder why she can’t see her daddy and ask why her and mommy can’t be with daddy.
 * Not allowed to watch Cells at Work! because Sally will copy acts from it.
 * Not allowed to have friends over (Most of my friends are old high school classmates and Lizzie and Jackie)
 * Not allowed to eat cookies, potato chips, cake, chocolate, donuts, etc, etc in front of the TV because it sets a bad example (Fuck you, I’m hungry....)
 * Not allowed to talk about me being mentally ill because it’s ‘scary for Sally’

This woman’s acted like Xiu-mei’s not my daughter and I don’t actually have kids, and she treated my wife, the mother of my child like she’s my girlfriend.

She treated me more like a teenager than a fully grown adult, which is fucking ridiculous.

I told her I’m not going to change the way I dress, eat, my schedule, how open I am about my mental health problem to suit her and her daughter. She yelled that I was being selfish and inconsiderate and that I was gonna be a bad influence on her kid.

Me: “I’m the inconsiderate one? You fucking treated me like a 18-year old childless man rather than a 34 (at the time) year old father of one! Your rules are shit! Total shit! If you’re so sensitive to what your daughter sees, don’t come here then!”

To this day, she still brings it up and still berates me for not changing to keep a good image for her daughter.

Comments
"NTA. Some of these requirements are absolutely ridiculous. Melinda needs to stop trying to police people for the sake of her kid." - LisaLuca934

AITA for flipping out at a guy for turning off my daughter’s show saying she should watch Elinor Wonders Why instead?
Lei again,. This story is about my daughter. She’s nearly six and has been thriving.

Now, my daughter LOVES Cells at Work!. It’s basically about the human body where the cells are all people. The series actually can be pretty adorable at times and it sparks interests in the human body. It also uses language that children can understand too, like it gently explains the organ or cell, even how viruses and bacteria work. It plays like an edutainment series, yet it’s quite graphic time to time again. The antagonistic bacteria are mostly cartoonish aside from the virus zombies and Cancer Cell. The show is way friendlier than most other kids’ shows, one pro is that she has an above average detailed knowledge on the human body, which is actually great.

She told me many times she reminded me of the main white blood cell character because he’s covered in blood. She woke up early one day while I was cleaning blood out of my hair and body, She said ‘Neutrophil!’ and made her way back to bed. She was still smiling when I went back to bed.

Now, there’s a show called Elinor Wonders Why, which is on PBS Kids. My daughter doesn’t really watch PBS Kids aside from Sesame Street, and doesn't really care for EWW.

We had this guy named George who visited us and he would NOT shut up about Elinor Wonders Why. I swear, his obsession of the show was a little unhealthy.

Now, as I've stated earlier, Xiu-mei doesn’t give a shit about Elinor Wonders Why, and she has zero interest in the show.

When she was watching Cells at Work!, George turned it off.

Xiu-mei: Hey! Why did you turn off my show?

George: You shouldn't be watching anime. You should be watching Elinor Wonders Why instead!

Xiu-mei: Sorry, but I don't like to watch that show.

George: You need to watch it! It's far better than that crap!

When I came in the living room, Xiu-mei immediately told me what happened.

Me: Dude, put the show back on.

George: Never! Anime is stupid!

I was getting pissed, and I took the remote from him and put the show back on.

Me: What's your damn deal?! My daughter doesn't like EWW, and she doesn't even watch any PBS Kids shows besides Sesame Street! You don't need to push your likings on others!

George got mad and ran off. He's since gotten his other EWW fans coming at me and my daughter for "hating" on that show.

Comments
"NTA. EWW is okay, but the fanbase is wild! This George guy needs to respect other people's opinions!" - MichaelDeReshawn145

AITA for celebrating my daughter’s birthday despite my narcissistic “foster family’s protests?
Hey again, About my racist ‘foster family’, This happened when Xiu-mei turned six in 2021.

Now, Xiu-mei was born coincidentally on the day my “foster father” Gareth died, August 17th 2015, and unfortunately for these whiny selfish assholes, It’s an ‘insult’ to ‘Penelope’s daddy dearest” and “Caroline’s grandpa” the fact that my wife gave birth to our baby girl the same day that piece of shit died.

Now, Gareth was a terrible person, he starved and denied me food days at a time, which caused me to develop an eating disorder where I’d overeat, He was also physically abusive, I would also like to point out Penelope would get me in trouble with him so he could physically beat me, and there was a time where she made them think that I raped her, leading to me getting a brutal beating. One backfired attempt was her refusing to let me use the toilet so I could wet myself, I peed on her clothes instead.

I got a message from Jennifer despite me blocking her number.

Jennifer: “It’s selfish to celebrate your daughter’s birthday while we mourn!”

Now, according to some of Penelope’s former friends and neighbors, they treat August 17th like a fucking depressing and miserable death gathering, there is no celebration or a usual day, just mourning and silence, These two and their relatives FUCKING COMPLAIN everytime I post a picture of Xiu-mei celebrating her birthday on my social media, Now, I don’t give her name out and I usually post “Happy (put birthday age here) birthday my dear baby girl, Daddy and Mommy love you!”…You know, Gang member parents and shit, No matter how much I change my name, they still find me.

Now, One photo I have is Xiu-mei hugging her Espeon Build-a-Bear she named Lighti and we ordered Umbreon for her that arrived next week and I posted a video with her pressing on Lighti’s paw to make her talk.

And this is the message I got from Penelope.

Penelope: “Stop posting it’s your daughter’s birthday! It’s not fair on me or mom!”

I got tired of them doing this shit for years, so I responded with this:

Me: “Oh! So because you lost your bastard of a father who physically abused me and my twin sister during our whole preteen and teen years that just happened to die on the day my daughter was born mean we can't celebrate our daughter's birthday? That cocksucker was a terrible person and I’m NOT allowing the death of a man I greatly despise and the day he died become a fucking miserable death gathering. I would have gave you condolences if your father wasn’t such a dickhead to me and my sister and I am most certainly not ruining my daughter’s day to make YOUR SELFISH ASS happy!”

Me and my wife have gotten messages from Jennifer's and Penelope's friends on how disrespectful we are disrespecting Gareth and how we're heartless bastards and shit.

Comments
"NTA. They got a lot of nerve talking to you like that, especially after everything they've done!" - ConquerorOfBestialWarfare

AITA for telling my daughter’s teacher that overly preaching and shaming students for having sweets in their packed lunch is the reason children and teenagers develop eating disorders?
Now, some parents think the teacher is trying to do what’s best for everyone but I'd argue otherwise.

Before you jump into conclusion, I’m all for living a healthier lifestyle, but some teachers really overreact to students having sweets and chocolate in their lunch, it’s fucking scary.

My wife packs Hello Panda sweets, which are there these chocolate-filled biscuits with cute little pandas on them, and she eats them last as a little treat, not when eating her bento, fruit juice, which is grape, or even her orange slices, after all that.

Now, when I picked Xiu-mei up from school, she was unusually quiet. I gently tapped her shoulder, and she handed me her lunch bag. I took a look saw that she wasn’t allowed to eat her Hello Panda sweets and drink her fruit juice, and she was only allowed to eat her steamed rice and orange slices.

When I asked her why she didn’t eat them, she told me her teacher said ‘it wasn’t healthy eating’ and they were confiscated from her until the end of the day.

Now, I struggled with an ED as a teenager and that shit made me furious. This is MY DAUGHTER for crying out loud! I don’t want a fucking teacher deciding what a six-year old girl eats for her own benefit!

I packed rice, orange slices, even apple juice, which is excellent. When I was starved as a teenager, I ate absolutely anything with sugar to keep my body going and didn’t care so much about healthy eating.

I went back into the school to speak to her with Xiu-mei in toll.

I went to the teacher’s classroom and knocked the door, she opened it.

Me: ”I’m Xiu-mei’s father. I need to speak to you.”

The teacher let me in, me and Xiu-mei sat down. Now, here's a fun game: Picture me sitting in an first grader chair… I’m really fucking tall…

Me: “So, can you please explain to me this?”

I showed her the apple juice pouch and the Hello Panda biscuits.

The teacher: “I had to tell your daughter this isn’t healthy eating. Fruit juices contain far too much sugar, and chocolate biscuits are not allowed in class as well as fruit juices like that.”

Me: “So, according to you, a six-year old girl is a greedy obese and unhealthy pig because I packed her Hello Panda and a fruit pouch, all because YOU decided my daughter wasn’t allowed to eat chocolate and drink fruit juice. You know the problem is?”

The teacher looked at me.

Me: “This is how YOU get children to develop eating disorders and that last thing I want is MY daughter to develop one! I’m all for living a healthy lifestyle. Hell, I even had to watch LazyTown with her, but I’m NOT letting a woman who is supposed to be teaching MY daughter judge and shame her for having chocolate or fruit juice in her bag!”

I soon got up.

Me: “I mean, this is getting ridiculous, this school. First my daughter comes home with an anti-vaxxer leaflet, and now she’s being shamed for what she eats?! This actually makes me want to find an online tutor instead of allowing her to be near anti-vaxxer, because a parent who deliberately sent their COVID-19-infected kid to school and me having to self isolate my own fucking daughter until the test came back negative!”

The teacher: "Hey! No cursing!"

Me: "Seriously? You're risking getting these kids eating disorders banning these kinds of snacks and you're more concerned about fucking cursing?!"

The teacher eventually ended the meeting early because she had such a problem with me swearing, but not with her putting kids in danger by shaming them with sweets, thus risking giving them eating disorders. To this day, she still insists she was in the right. Xiu-mei has also since moved to a different teacher, who respects the food she eats.

Comments
"NTA. Who does she think she is trying to control these kids what they can and can't eat? It's one thing if the kids is morbidly obese and eating junk food like there's no tomorrow, but from what I've seen from Xiu-mei, she's healthy for her age." - BelizeFelipe294

Is my friend the asshole for not getting his 15-year-old son anything for Christmas?
Lei at it again with another AITA story. This time, it's about a friend of mine.

For context, the person we're talking about is a guy named Choe Han-Gyeol, a Korean doctor who tends to the gang's wounds. Me, as well as BE!Maria, are particularly close to him and are the honorary uncle and aunt of his 3 kids.

Now, his eldest son is 15, but is very spoiled and won't accept anything less than Jordan's and pre approved gym wear. Choe has stated that his wife is very protective of her son and enables his behavior, leading to some arguments over it. The last straw for Choe personally was when he used his credit card to spend $500 worth of Fortnite skins. He decided that he was gonna not give anything for Christmas, and that he will wake up on Christmas with no presents as payment for this. He also somehow persuaded his wife not to get him anything either, which was shocking considering she usually defended him. I guess she finally decided that enough was enough as well.

But when Choe announced his plans on Facebook, many people did not liked that. Here are some of the comments:

"This isn't the way to teach him a lesson. This is going to be humiliating for him and honestly it's very cruel if you don't warn him ahead of time. This could also seriously damage your relationship with him. My son did something very similar, but he's ten. My husband and I made him earn the money back after taking all of his video games. He had to do chores that had a dollar amount until he had paid us back the 250 dollars. After he earned the money he'd spent he had to earn back his games and now he does chores in exchange for game time. You could make this a valuable teaching moment, but this isn't it."

"Eh, not good discipline. Find another way to discipline him. Stealing the joy of Christmas from him is not the answer and will only embitter him against you."

"Don’t grandstand on Christmas that’s cruel and so inappropriate. It ruins the sense of Christmas and it’ll change his behaviour so strongly that you’ll never forgive yourself."

While Choe did got some backlash, there were also others who supported his decision, including me and BE!Maria. I'd personally say that it's karma for all the entitled bullshit he has.

And also, I play Pokémon Masters EX with Xiu-mei, and do you know what I do? Switch off microtransactions in case Xiu-mei buys too many virtual currency since rolling 11 sync pairs is expensive AF and buying paid gems is also expensive and I inform my boss beforehand. He agrees that as long as I don’t go overboard and he tells me to text him and work so we can pay off a debt.

Comments
"NTA. Parent of 5 here, now adults, and 4 grandkids. I absolutely agree with no gifts from you as parents--he essentially received them already through theft. Siblings' or grands' gifts to him will soften the blow and make gift-opening more bearable for everyone. For stocking, I'd say candy and minor stocking gifts would be ok, to make sure tradition is kept and he has something to receive. We did toiletries, lip balm, toothbrushes, etc. in stockings with candy & ornaments, or silly socks. Nothing major and certainly no cash. He needs to learn this lesson and Choe and his wife need to hold the line, to teach him right from wrong. He's 15, not 8." - IzzyBizzy93

"YTA. I completely understand where Choe is coming from, but this is not the way to discipline your child. It is humiliating, cruel and will only serve to make your kid hate you and become bitter. Christmas is about joy and love. Forcing him to watch his siblings and relatives open gifts while he gets nothing will teach him nothing except that his parents care about money than their own child's happiness. Punishment is meant to teach and correct. This will not accomplish that." - BlindGuardianFanaticFrom1988

"YTA! OMG! I am horrified he would even think about doing this. I wonder how many of the people urging him to do this are actual parents. And I am reminded, once again, that Americans are unnecessarily harsh to their children and have unrealistic expectations for their behaviour. You can’t weaponize Christmas. You just can’t. Choe's already ruining it for himself — he say he feels bad. What other posters have said is true — he will be humiliated. The other kids might be emotionally affected as well, since they'll feel bad for him. If he is actively stealing from him in this way — this signals a whole bunch of issues might be going on with the family and for a long time. When he did it, did Choe ask himself what his contribution to the incident may have been? If it’s just one more transgression in a long line of transgressions, then he has a lot of work to do and humiliating his own son that way on Christmas morning — a day which is sacred in every child’s year and memory, will not fix anything and may make things worse. He may hate his father for it. If it’s an isolated incident, he has to ask himself why he did it. Is he unhappy at school? Is he going through a phase in his life that is making him hate himself? Or is he just immature? Kids often steal stuff — I grew up with many who did and turned into fine adults! My son stole things as a child. He would never do it today. Choe, if you're reading this, you need to find a different resolution, not this. You can’t ruin the memory of Christmas for him forever. Dear god in heaven I can’t believe anyone could even consider this and find support for it from anyone. This is not good parenting. I know you think it is because you’re being 'firm' and 'tough' and bringing down the hammer and this hurts me more than it hurts you. But you are dead wrong, Choe, please, I beg you, don’t do it this way. And if you feel what I’ve said is unfair, tell me, how does it feel to have the hammer brought down on you in public? And you want to do it to your son? Flame away, I don’t mind taking the heat for a 15-year-old child — because a 15-year-old is a child, whose own parents want to ruin his Christmas memories for life." - HevaenlyMother284

"HeavenlyMother... are you going to forget the fact that he stole $500 just to pay for some digital skins in a game that's dying? Get fucking real! He's 15, not 5! One bad Christmas isn't gonna tramatize him for life! My parents did the exact same shit to me after I stole money to buy some video games, and not only am I doing just fine, but I still maintain a good relationship with my parents. And don't even get me started on your anti-American comment... yes, the United States isn't perfect, but you trying to spin this into an anti-American thing is just shit..." - HypocritesofBodom

"Lei, Please tell Choe this: Do not mess with holidays. Have him make it up another way. He is a child. You are the adult. Act like it. Yes, everyone assumes he should know better, but that is assuming you taught him better. Unfortunately, it does not seem that is the case. Please do not fuck with his Christmas. Get him meaningful gifts. Puzzles, books, board games, something he can grow from. And have him get a job to pay you back. But please do not ruin his holiday. I almost hope he finds this Reddit post and never lets you live it down." - TraumacoreRager666

"TraumacoreRager, are you 12? That is absurd advice and I truly hope you're not a parent. Lei, Choe, please don't listen to this kid. Nobody 'grows' from board games and puzzles. Choe's son ruined his own holiday and should face the consequences of his actions, and the punishment Choe and his wife have decided is fair." - HypocritesofBodom

"Lol, I'm having a good laugh with all of these people clutching their pearls while saying 'yTa!!! YoU'Re gOnNa rUiN ThAt pOoR BoY'S HoLiDaY!!! dOn't aCtUaLlY HoLd yOuR SoN AcCoUnTaBlE To tHiNgS!!!'. He's a 15-year-old teenager who made a consious decision to steal $500 just to pay for some stupid ass Fortnite skins. I would NEVER think about stealing from my parents, let alone that amount of money. I might feel more sympathetic to the boy if he was 7, but yeah, after hearing he's spoiled and entitled, it's about time he learns not everything can go his way." - MichellPsycho482

AITA for not giving a teenager anything for Christmas after she decided to throw a tantrum over Xiu-mei receiving Pokémon Brilliant Diamond and Shining Pearl and I refused to give her it?
Hey, back again. This time it's another Christmas story. This happened when a Chinese-American friend of ours with her 15-year old daughter and 11-year old son visited. The daughter, who is named Becky, is extremely controlling of anyone and her mom unfortunately enables her behavior and is very possessive and controlling of what she's into. Her son Mickey actually was forced to give the Nintendo Switch he brought with his pocket money to her because she was so upset at it because he can't 'be into Japanese culture because it's HER interest'.

She considers Japanese pop culture her 'interest', so no one is allowed to talk about anime, manga, or even Japanese video games as only she can talk about it. Here's the thing, though: She's FUCKING CHINESE like my family! Her family has no Japanese blood in her.

Maria, Satsuki and Takashi understandably hate her, and Maria actually nearly fucking went apeshit on her when she demanded Maria to give her the JJBA manga she had.

This particular incident happened at Christmas. I bought Xiu-mei Pokémon Shining Pearl and Brilliant Diamond for the Nintendo Switch. Anyone who knows us knows that Xiu-mei LOVES Pokémon and is one of the franchises she's obsessed with. I also secretly texted Jiayi to return Becky's Christmas gift in case she did something stupid.

When she unwrapped it, Becky began to throw a massive temper tantrum.

Becky: "BUT I WANTED THAT GAME! It's not fair! I like Pokémon too!"

Becky just threw herself to the ground and began stamping her feet like a toddler.

Becky: (Whining like a baby) "She can't have that! ONLY I CAN! Me! ME! MEEEEEEE!"

Me: Becky, calm it down! You're gonna get a gift eventually!

Becky: IT BETTER BE POKÉMON, OR ELSE!!!

Becky was in a sulky mood all day and with every photo we took, she looked pissed off. However, the final straw came when I heard Xiu-mei and Becky fight.

Becky was in a tug-of-war with a Snivy plush I bought Xiu-mei. Becky was about to rip the thing to shreds when I broke them both up and snatched them off Becky, telling her to cut it out.

Maria ended up slapping her after hearing the commotion. Becky raged and tried to punch Maria back, but she dodged.

Maria: You better calm it down or else you will fucking regret it...

Becky then took Xiu-mei's Snivy plush and refused to give it back. Maria ended up hitting her again and giving her this speech:

Maria: "I want you to shut the FUCK up and LISTEN for once! I fucking hate your entitled ass and for a good reason. You are so possessive and controlling that your own goddamn mother won't discipline you at all. I'm a Japanese-American, and you are in NO position to control MY culture and proclaim it as yours because you're into it. For fuck's sake, your family is CHINESE, NOT Japanese. I feel for your younger brother, as that poor boy suffers under his bratty older sister who throws tantrums fit for toddlers whenever he gets something you're into!"

Becky: SHUT UP, BITCH!!! YOU ACT LIKE YOU'RE BETTER THAN ME, BUT YOU SLAPPED ME MULTIPLE TIMES AND TRIED TO TAKE WHAT WAS MINE!!! FUCK OFF, AND IF YOU HIT ME AGAIN, THEN MY MOM IS GONNA BEAT YOUR FUCKING ASS UNTIL IT IS REDDER THAN A STRAWBERRY!!!

Again, I'd like to point out she's so controlling that she actually made her younger brother give his Amiibos to her that he bought alongside the Switch and even other people aren't immune. She also got kicked out of high school for stealing a senior's copy of Resident Evil Village.

Lei: "That's it! I've given your family an INFINITE amount of chances, from demanding my friend give you her fucking manga her deceased mom left her, then your mother forcing your brother to give you the Nintendo Switch he saved up for and then FUCKING CONTROLLING MY CHILD! Tell your mother and brother it's their lucky day because you can fuck off back home!"

Becky, Mickey and their mom left soon after. To my shock, the mother actually decided to put her foot down and actually made Becky give back the Switch her brother paid for. I texted their mom telling her I returned the make-up set I was originally going to give her.

When Becky found out what I did, she flipped her fucking shit at me. She called me a "gay-ass c***k" who deserved to be abused by my piss-poor excuse of a father as well as the Gardners, and that I had a week to give her the make-up set or else "the gang would be getting the biggest karma known to man". It was at that point where I cut all ties with her.

Comments
"Y. T. FUCKING. A. LEI, YOU ARE THE WORST PERSON EVER!!! I WAS COMPLETELY JUSTIFIED WITH WHAT I DID!!! MARIA AND XIU-MEI ARE ALSO NOTHING BUT GAY D**ES WHO ASSAULTED ME!!! I HATE THIS FUCKING GANG!!! AND A CHINESE GIRL CAN LIKE JAPANESE THINGS!!! GO FUCK YOURSELF WITH A 1,000 MILE DILDO YOU LONG-HAIRED C***K!!!" - BeckyTheJapaneseQueen923

"Holy shit... Becky, I slapped your entitled ass for a good reason. You were so spoiled that your brother had no choice but to give the Nintendo Switch and Amiibos he paid for to you because you were that fucking entitled. You also threatened me several times just for having the audacity to not give in to your bullshit. At least your mother finally put her foot down and made you give the Switch back to your brother. Since it's obvious you'll never change, YOU, m'am, can go fuck yourself instead." - MariaTachimi1981

"Yeah, I'm gonna have to side with Lei on this one. Becky is pretty much a much more extreme version of Choe's son on the last AITA story, and her racist and homophobic comments towards people who are calling her bullshit out only makes Becky even worse. NTA." - DarkAngelFan666

AITA for telling a Blasian boy that gang life is nothing to be proud of and declined his offer to let him join?
Before you read this, I know and understand what this kid went through. Maria can relate, and no, we're not racist towards Blasians/Afro-Asians. Me and the gang and Davian are good friends and Zhao will give him advice. However, when Davian asked if he could join, I said this.

"Look kid, gang life is one of the hardest parts anyone can go through. It's not exactly a great thing to be apart of... We have done things no better than those assholes who hurt you did, which includes extortion, ransom, kidnapping, weapons and poison trafficking and drug smuggling. The United States underbelly is a dangerous place to live in, filled with drug cartels, triads, and the Mafia. We deal in business that would horrify you and make you fucking hate us, especially how me and Maria kill people."

Davian, however, didn't take this well, and still thinks he should join as a way to get payback for those who hurt him.

Comments
"NTA. Being an ex-gang member myself, I understand Davian's position, but gang life is something no one should go through. I pray to God his soul finds a better place." - NosyMass284

"Hey Davian here, I understand that I'm not allowed to join but we're still friends though, so NTA."- TheBoredBoy2764

AITA for telling a former classmate she’s not funny?
Back again with another AITA story.

Now, I have a friend who was a former exchange student from Colombia names Bruno. His English isn’t excellent, but he’s got a multitude of mental health problems and is autistic. Despite this, he just got his permanent US residence and has a wife Rosa who speaks better English than him and is from Puerto Rico.

Now, there’s a film called Encanto that just came out. One of the songs in it is called “We Don’t Talk About Bruno”. Bruno was awaiting a COVID-19 test in the hospital after he collapsed at work. Thankfully the test came out negative, which I’m extremely thankful and relieved.

I have a friend from middle school named Hailey who was obsessed with Disney and Pixar films, and she fucking loved this movie. Unfortunately, she had the annoying tendency of shouting “WE DON’T TALK ABOUT BRUNO!” whenever a character named Bruno arrive, even though we weren’t even talking about Encanto that time. For example, she shouted this when Maria was watching JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure: Golden Wind and when I was watching Pokémon Generations with my daughter. I had to skip the damn episode where the Kanto Elite Four appeared in because of this.

None of us thinks it’s funny except her.

Now, Rosa, me, Jiayi and Hailey were speaking when she got a call from the hospital. Bruno was in a COVID-19 ward. As it turns out, Bruno started showing COVID-19 symptoms again, and this time, the test came out positive.

Rosa: “Oh my god...”, she said after the doctors told her everything, “How’s Bruno? I hope he's doing okay.“

Then Hailey... you would not believe what she just said...

Hailey: “WE DON’T TALK ABOUT BRUNO!”

Me and Jiayi were disgusted. Rosa looked like she wanted to stab someone with a rusty letter opener. She soon returned to her call.

Rosa: “¿Lo siento, puedes repetir eso? (I’m sorry, can you repeat that?)”

After a lengthy phone call:

Rosa: “Bruno, he’s tested-“

Hailey: “WE DON’T TALK ABOUT BRUNO!”

I fucking snapped at that point. I ended up grabbing her to face me and I said this:

Me: “LISTEN UP! You’re not fucking funny. Her husband just got diagnosed with fucking COVID-19, and you wanna keep on talking 'wE DoN'T TaLk aBoUt bRuNo!!!!!!!11'? You better cut that shit out or so fucking help me...”

She was in a pouty mood for the rest of the day. She disregarded the fact she annoyed Rosa every time she mentioned her husband’s goddamn name. Her boyfriend called me to say that she was crying, and blamed me along with my friends for causing her to be distressed. I stated I had to hear Rosa cry herself to sleep most nights and when she got home unconsciously reach out for her husband who couldn’t hug her back and called me in the middle of the night and she was still very distraught.

For any of you wondering, Bruno thankfully recovered from COVID-19 but had to stay home for several weeks.

Comments
"NTA. You'd think Hailey would be more considerate towards Bruno's situation, especially since he just got diagnosed with COVID-19, but trying to ruin Encanto for everyone like that? Unbelievable" - VariationsonaTheme

"NTA. I don't blame you for confronting Hailey about this. My sister is doing the exact same shit, and she may have permanently ruined the song and even Encanto for me because of it!" - MissDiva2035

AITA for kicking someone out of a movie night for commenting on the movie and disrupting everyone?
Lei at it again with yet another AITA story that has to do with a movie of some sort.

Now, for this one, we're gonna be talking about a guy named Marshall, and he is in a separate gang that works as an ally with ours. Marshall works as the strategist in that gang and plans whatever activities they do.

While Marshall is a chill guy, he can have his dumb tendencies. One time, he actually pissed off Longwei heavily because he forgot to tune up the car like he asked him to, leading to him and Maria nearly crashing. Thankfully, they weren't seriously injured.

Now, for this one, the hideout was hosting a movie night, and Marshall was invited as well as several folks on Team Terrific 10. We were going to watch Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind, which is my personal favorite Studio Ghibli film. Xiu-mei was allowed to be in it as well.

When the movie started, however, Marshall began to comment on everything that happened in the movie like he was in a YouTuber Reacts To video. It wasn't that bad at first, but then it became really annoying when the Tolmekian troops kill Nausicaä's father, leading to her to flip her shit.

Marshall: Holy fuck! She's more pissed than my wife on a Tuesday!

BE!Maria: Dude, knock it the hell off! We're trying to watch the movie here!

Now, there were at least three times where Marshall had been told to stop talking and let us watch in peace, but he didn't. The final straw came when Nausicaä is fatally wounded trying to stop the herd. I kid you, not, Marshall laughed at that scene like it was a comedy!

Marshall: (laughing) Damn, girl! What does she and Mufasa have in common? They're no longer parents! Hope you don't get yo ass trampled on the way to heaven!

That's when I put my foot down. I paused the movie and said this to him:

Me: You know what? You can just go the fuck home. You've been doing this shit for the ENTIRITY of the movie, and I've just about had it. Get out, now! You're no longer invited to our movie nights!

Marshall ended up leaving in a pout. He still insists that he did nothing wrong and that he was just telling jokes.

Comments
"NTA. How could he disrespect Nausicaä like that? And the fact that he ruined everyone's movie night with his stupid commentary made it no better. You did the right thing kicking him out if anything." - GlammedUpShtt2395

AITA for filing a restraining order to Elizabeth "Savage" Forever after she vandalized the gang hideout?
If you've seen my previous AITA stories before, you may be familiar with Elizabeth "Savage" Forever. This woman is against abusers like me, but she takes those beliefs way too far as she punishes people with brutal punishment while insisting that putting a child in a naughty corner is abusive. She even kept on saying that she was gonna kill my piss-poor-excuse-of-a-father an even threatened to ship Nicole to South Africa if she didn't discipline Jake with the Calming Bottle. For the latter, I confronted her about this, and she cussed me out, leading to me cutting ties with her.

However, Elizabeth came back for me. The other day, she came in the gang hideout demanding to speak to me. Apparently, she didn't like the fact that I sided with Choe when he didn't gave his son anything for Christmas or even me not getting Becky anything for Christmas after her shitfuck of an attitude on Christmas.

Elizabeth: How can you deny children anything for Christmas?! THAT IS JUST ABOUT THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO ON THE HOLIDAYS!!! I'VE SEEN YOUR AITA POSTS, AND IT'S ABSOLUTE SHIT!!!

Me: Elizabeth, do me and everyone else a favor and fuck off. I am completely justified with siding with Choe as well as not giving Becky anything for Christmas. Besides, I still haven't forgave you for what you said to me when I confronted you about your treatment of Nicole and Jake!

Elizabeth left in a puff, and you'd think that would be the end of it, but since I'm typing this right now, it wasn't. The next morning, we woke up to find that the entire place was absolutely trashed. And I mean, it was as if a tornado touched down. The windows were shattered, the garden was damaged, and there was spray paint on the walls saying "ELIZABETH IS KING", "DON'T FUCK WITH ME, LEI", and even "HOPE PLANK IS A NAZI". Even the vehicles we had had some window damage and Maria's motorcycle was covered in pink spray paint. She was especially pissed about that. Thankfully, we were able to repair all of this in a cheap cost.

For me in particular, however, this was the final straw for me. Not only did me and the gang pressed charges on Elizabeth for vandalism and destruction of property (we had security cameras outside of the hideout that caught her doing all of this shit), but we even filed a restraining order so that she couldn't be too close to us or the gang hideout.

Elizabeth, however, still insists that she was justified in this and that she wanted to "make an example out of us".

Comments
"Do you need to ask? NTA! What was she thinking?!" - SpectralLoreFan333

== AITA for cutting contact with a former classmate after he stole all the savings out of my daughter’s side bank account to fund his own child’s Roblox and Fortnite and his own Raid: Shadow Legends addiction and League of Legends skins? == Hey everyone. This happened right now and I’m still fucking angry at my former friend and his spoiled son. That money was supposed to go to my daughter.

But first, here's some backstory: I have a daughter named Xiu-mei, and she’s six years old. When she was born, I opened up a side bank account where I would put in $50 once a week. This money will be hers when she turns 18 and it’s basically her funds. Now, at the time, we had $10850 (Out of $6000 since Xiu-mei doesn’t ask for a lot) in her side bank account that we use for her schoolbooks, Mandarin and Cantonese lessons, toys, books or just anything like clothing. I have made it clear to my other gang members that this account is for Xiu-mei ONLY, so no one is allowed to touch it.

Now, I have a friend called Gerry who used to be one of my closest friends in school as well as Jacob’s. He has a son called Sebastian.

Now, Gerry plays this game called Raid: Shadow Legends and League of Legends and Sebastian plays Roblox and Fortnite. Gerry has told me Raid is free, but what he did make me fucking doubt that and fucking despise him.

And his fucking kid, who I need to remind you is 12, was extremely spoiled and bratty. He screamed constantly and his parents did nothing but spoil the shit out of him.

Now, remember what I said: This money goes to Xiu-mei and Xiu-mei only. This includes birthdays, her Christmas, school trips that require money, or anything. Nobody is allowed to use that for anything else.

Now, when Gerry was staying over with Sebastian, Gyeo-ul, the new girl told me something was wrong and I needed to check. She gave me my tablet and I saw my daughter’s side account, the money that funds her Christmas, birthdays, clothing, and toys, only had $60 in it.

Gyeo-ul then said to me that she was looking at previous transactions for Xiu-mei’s account and saw a lot for Raid: Shadow Legends, League of Legends, Fortnite and Roblox. She said he transferred aswell as used Xiu-mei’s card.

Now, in total, the transactions were $500 for League of Legends, $900 for Raid Shadow Legends, $1500 for Fortnite and $6678 for Roblox. This was $9578 in total.

I was FUCKING outraged to say the least. I was saving that money since Xiu-mei was a week old. I knew none of the other gang members would do this. Adil doesn’t play either and neither to my other gang members but... I know the fact that Gerry did this because he enables his bratty son and the fact he won’t shut the fuck up about Raid: Shadow Legends. This is also the same guy who told me Pokémon Masters EX was a ‘baby game’.

I stormed into the living room where Sebastian who was playing Fortnite with V-Bucks and skins bought from my daughter’s stolen money and Gerry playing Raid Shadow Legends.

Lei: “Excuse me, you two, but can you fucking explain THIS?!”

I showed him the bank balance.

Gerry: “Look, Lei, I needed the money. My son is autistic and he said he wanted new Fortnite skins and Roblox items and he kept asking me for more.”

I felt my vision go red. He tried to deny he spent MY DAUGHTER’S MONEY ON FUCKING LEAGUE OF LEGENDS SKINS AND FUCKING CURRENCY FOR HIS SHITTY GACHA GAME! Not to mention he was trying to use his son's disability as an excuse!

Lei: “Look at this! LOOK! What the fuck is this?! Can you fucking explain THIS?!”

I pointed to the transactions for League of Legends and Raid: Shadow Legends again. Gerry then gave me a dirty look. Now, Gerry knows that this money goes to my daughter and nobody else, and yet he still chose to spend it anyways.

Gerry: “Look, there was a new Champion I wanted to get and new LoL skins! Your daughter doesn’t need all that money, you jerk!”

Gerry then accused me of spoiling my daughter. Then it escalated into a shouting match with basically telling me that Pokémon Masters EX was a game for babies and I fired back by telling him at least it’s not a P2W fuckfest that was linked to gambling.

I then told him to fuck off but leave their phone and tablet here. Gerry attempted to punch me in the face and tried to get them back, but Longwei escorted them out. I ended up calling Riot Games, Epic Games, Roblox Corporation and Plarium Games to see if they can refund me aswell as go onto their games websites. Now, these micro transactions were made yesterday and today and I had to explain that I don’t even play these games and neither do my daughter.

Plarium Games refused to refund me so the gang actually got together to actually raise $900. Thankfully Riot Games, Epic Games and Roblox refunded me without any problems. The guy on the phone when I was talking to Riot Games helpline actually said that he understands and would help refund me. Epic Games refunded me after I gave evidence that I didn’t make these purchases and Roblox refunded me. All three told me that the accounts would likely be suspended due to fraud.

Gerry has no longer been allowed back. He was angry because his LoL account aswell as his son’s Roblox and Fortnite have been suspended due to the fact he literally committed bank fraud.

He yelled I costed an autistic boy his social skills and I should feel ashamed. I told him he was a thief who enabled his bratty son and rewarded him for tantrums.

Comments
"NTA. Not only did he still so much money, but he also tried to excuse it with his son's autism! That is inexcuseable!" - MichellJaded8262

AITA for asking a gang member to return Squid Game merch she brought for a new gang member?
Lei again. If you read my last story, Gyeo-ul is a new gang member. She’s an 18-year old South Korean girl from Busan. Her story is that when she was 17, she was gangraped by four male classmates while a female classmate filmed. This led to a tale of murder and revenge after the boys were basically given a slap on the wrist for it all due to Korean's lenient law on minors committing crimes. She’s killed a teacher, her rapists, and her classmate. Her gang name? Kumiho.

Now, Han-Gyeol’s gang is predominately South Korean immigrants with a small handful of North Koreans and a Zanichi Korean (Korean-Japanese). One of Han-Gyoel’s gang members, Lisa, is the only Korean-American gang member of Blood Company (혈액 회사).

Lisa is obnoxious. Just... plain obnoxious. She doesn’t actually know how to speak Korean despite being in a Korean gang, Joseph. Mi-Yung and Gwi-han understandably hate her.

She disregards boundaries aswell, especially with her other gang members. According to Han-Gyeol, she was from a Salvation Army shelter.

Now, she was fascinated with serial killers and acted like a fangirl towards Gyeo-ul, which understandably disturbs her. She got pissy when Gyeo-ul told her to get out after she went through her bag.

Now, Gyeo-ul told us she wanted anything PG-13 or higher checked for fear she could see something sexual assault related. The same for Korean manhua or Japanese manga. She said if it features shirtless scenes, romance and kissing, it’s okay. But full on rape and sexual assault, we can’t give it to her. She also told us she needed time to heal before she could watch anything violent, but she doesn’t want to restrict us on what we watch.

And she has NO interest in Korean horror, so Squid Game, All Of Us Are Dead, Train to Busan, #Alive, and the alike are out of the question to her.

I can’t blame her for not wanting her to have anything to do with All Of Us Are Dead due to a subplot involving bullying, sexual assault and attempted suicide.

Now, because of this, we had to tell Blood Company to buy K-Pop albums and merch. BTS is her favorite, and she also buy Korean dramas.

The next day, Gyeo-ul unwrapped posters, BT21 plushies, K-Drama DVDs, Pepero and Choco Pies from Hang-il, a North Korean defector. He was a little shy around her. Xiu-mei gave her a Vulpix plush, and she appreciated it.

Next, Lisa gave her a gift, whcih was a Squid Game DVD and poster. Now, Gyeo-ul doesn’t hate Squid Game, but she avoids shows like that because she tells me she needs time to heal, which is understandable.

Gyeo-ul: “Umm... Thanks, but... I can’t keep this.”

I also crossed my arms in frustration. Now, everyone, including Lisa, had been told NOT to give Gyeo-ul anything that could disrupt her healing or trigger her and even gave examples, and Squid Game was one of them.

Lisa gave Gyeo-ul a look of “Are you kidding me?!”

Me: “I’m sorry, but you can’t give this to her. You might need to return it.”

Lisa: “How can you say that?! I spent my hard-earned money on this!”

I pulled Lisa to the side.

Me: “Lisa, she doesn’t want anything like that at the moment. She's still healing.”

Hong-il gently allowed Gyeo-ul to lean on him:

Lisa: “But didn’t you say she was South Korean?! She would have loved this!”

Me: “Are you kidding me?! She was gangraped back in Busan! She made it very clear she doesn’t want to watch that kind of show at the moment! I made it clear it needs to be K-Pop, K-Dramas, and whatever else she’s into. Hell, I even gave you a list on what to get her!”

Hong-il took Gyeo-ul upstairs. Now, she doesn’t mind him and he’s the only guy that can give her a hug without being scratched or bitten.

Lisa stormed out and Han-Gyeol profusely apologized to Gyeo-ul for Lisa’a actions.

Hong-il stayed over. Gyeo-ul reassured me she was alright. She loved the gifts and chocolate.

Comments
"NTA. If Lisa knew that Gyeo-ul couldn't watch Squid Game because of her trauma, then the fact that she did this knowing she won't like it makes Lisa look even worse! Seriously, her actions sound fitting in r/iamatotalpieceofshit!" - ChaosDomination661

AITA for cutting contact with a former high school friend after I found out he was mocking deceased children on social media and even targeted my niece?
Lei again. Now, this just happened and Lizzie actually told me what was going on...

Now Aimee, Lizzie’s daughter, has cancer and has been in and out of hospitals. She called me while sobbing because she told me one of my friends from high school was making fun of her daughter and falsely accused her of Munchausen syndrome by proxy and even told her he couldn’t wait until Aimee died.

Another thing she told me is that he was trolling the family of a 5-year old who died from a road accident after his father and the boy were struck by a drunk driver. He posted pictures and videos of Total Distortion’s game over screen (the one where the main villain sings a song about you have died), Dumb Ways to Die, and other videos of similar nature.

Now, if you read Maria’s story, you would know that two gang members from another gang had a daughter named So-won who had died from Huntington’s disease back in 2011. Her last wish was to play Pokémon Black and White. She did not have the strength to finish White. To troll the family, he posted videos gameplay videos of him playing Pokémon Black/White with his avatar named “So-won” and posted sixteen videos of him losing against Ghetsis every fucking time and using weak and commonly found Pokémon. He even used a Level 1 Purrloin named Loser and other insensitive nicknames relating to Huntington’s Disease and other shit and after each video. He added her face on a skull and crossbones with the words “HELP ME MOMMY! I CAN’T DEFEAT HIM! HE HAS ME TRAPPED AND I SUCK AT POKÉMON!”

What really fucking shocked me is that she showed me the vile messages and what struck me most of all is that he sent pictures of Nikki Catsouras’ dead body to her (Don’t look it fucking up, as the aftermath of the crash is really bad) and said that he hopes he ends up like her and sent videos of Krillin’s death scenes to her (Krillin’s the bald guy from Dragon Ball) and videos of Caillou.

I ended up dialing his number in a fit of rage and yelled his ass off on what the fuck was his problem. He just shrugged me off and insisted he was only joking. Mocking the death of a car accident victim isn’t a joke, and mocking So-won is also NOT A JOKE AND  WILL  FUCKING GET YOU CASTRATED AND TARGETING MY FUCKING NIECE  WILL  GET YOU ON  THE HITLIST .

We both argued on the phone, and he told me why should I believed Lizzie because according to him, ‘she’s a liar and child abuser who faked her kid’s cancer and poisoned her, and So-won was a spoiled little fucking brat and that little brat’s daddy was a drunk.”

Before I ran up to his place and beat him to a bloody pulp, I deleted his number and blocked him. And when Jiayi saw him at our high school reunion, she slapped him across the face really hard.

And believe it or not, after that, he fucking tried to play the victim when he was called out. His girlfriend claimed he was only joking and didn’t do anything wrong... So AITA?

Comments
"NTA. What the actual fuck?! How the fuck can he think this is okay? Not even the biggest edgelord I knew would find this funny!" - OverkillxGorguts

AITA for denying I’m a Columbiner?
Me again. This is something I wanted to tell everyone when Hope Plank whined like a little bitch after finding Columbine High School massacre newspaper clippings.

Now, this is before she destroyed my CD. She accused me of being a Columbiner when she found the clippings, which were hidden in a closet. They were also laminated so they couldn’t be destroyed.

Now, I collected newspaper clippings of various disasters, murders, massacres and other horrific events as a hobby, not just Columbine.

Here’s the thing why I collected these: To feel some sort of emotion, like anger, joy, sadness or even grief. Nothing worked, though.

When I was 14 years old in 1999, the Columbine High School massacre took place. It was a very dark time back then.

I’m a diagnosed sociopath, and I barely felt a damn thing like sadness, outrage, grief or anger. Now, being a sociopath to me is a hit or a miss, especially if something happens and I hear it on the news.

When Zhao discovered my newspaper clippings, I had to deny I wasn’t a Columbiner. He then saw me when I was watching a documentary on the Dunblane massacre hitting myself in frustration after Xiu-mei was born “Fuck... feel something... you have a daughter...”

Now, if you ask me, shooting kids is fucked, especially if they can’t defend themselves, so I’m kind of blessed with suck. It makes me numb and emotionless when killing someone like a pedophile (with a little bit of joy added in) or a Neo Nazi (I killed that one with a grin) but it actually makes watching a documentary like the Moors Murders and Dunblane difficult as fuck, especially after Xiu-mei was born.

Now back to Hope Plank, I don’t know where she got that idea. I do not like people going through my personal belongings, and I actually yelled at her for going through my belongings.

After an argument, she stormed out of the hideout.

Now, onto Columbiners, I have one question for you all:

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?! Just what the fuck?! There’s finding a fictional villain sexy, sympathetic, or attractive, and there’s... THIS FUCKING SHIT!

Now, I’ve read on them, they use their mental health as an excuse to sympathize and glamorize them. I honestly would have more sympathy if they DIDN’T FUCKING SHOOT THEIR GODDAMN CLASSMATES AND A TEACHER! I’m a mentally ill man and you don’t see me drawing yaoi fanart of two fucking school shooters and glorifying them!

This is why I fucking hate Tumblr and DeviantArt at times...

Comments
"NTA. I've seen eh Q&A where you talk about how your sociopathy makes you unemotional most of the time. I have an uncle who is like that, but not as extreme as you." - Jiajyia2984

Is my daughter the asshole for not allowing other kids to play with her Buzz Lightyear figure?
Me again. Here's some backstory: My daughter owns a Buzz Lightyear figure. But it isn’t just any Buzz figure that you can find in a shop. The backstory is when Xiu-mei went to the NASA Kennedy Space Center on a field trip in kindergarten. She found a broken Buzz Lightyear figure in a ditch. She hid it in her backpack until she got home.

The poor figure was in really bad shape. His left arm was held by a couple of wires and fell off when she got home. I then called a friend from high school who specializes in repairs and restorations and sent him pictures of the figure. He came over and told Xiu-mei Buzz was going to his hospital and that he was thankful someone as kind as her went out of her way to help him.

Buzz’ condition was:


 * Broken right wing, the wing was basically snapped. I nearly pierced my finger on broken plastic
 * Covered in dirt and other stuff.
 * Soles were malformed.
 * Left arm held by wires then fell off.
 * Battery compartment had erosion (the metal parts had to be replaced).
 * Head was damaged. He looked more like a zombie than a child’s toy.
 * No Space Ranger sticker.
 * Cracked Helmet (I also nearly pierced my finger).
 * Faulty voice chip.

It took five days to fix Buzz. He got spare parts, new stickers, a new paint job, a new head, cleaned and many other things, including new stickers, voice chip and he was good as new. He even wrote Xiu-mei a note as if it was written by Buzz himself thanking her for bringing him to a safe place and is happy becoming his new owner and hopes to bring her adventures “to infinity and beyond”. She still has the note to this day

Now, this is one of the few toys Xiu-mei doesn’t allow anyone but a certain few to touch and play with. James is fine as long as he’s gentle with her figure and doesn’t ‘hurt’ him. She is extremely apprehensive over other children touching Buzz. James is okay with it, but Alicia was not.

For those who don't know, Alicia was a shitty mother who pampered and spoiled her son Simon. She was infamous in the early days of our AITA stories for trying to get us to give her son toys that were suppose to be going to poor kids in our gang, as well as having her mother act extremely shitty towards us.

Now, what caused Alicia to be kicked out is that she snatched Buzz off Xiu-mei when she told her she won’t give him away and that it was HER Buzz Lightyear. I ended up snatching Buzz off Simon as he was about to make off with it (Thankfully there was no scratches or marks).

Simon threw a tantrum as usual. Then, Josie Jr then yelled at Alicia to get out and she was no longer welcome. Josie apologized profusely to us and promised she wouldn’t bring her here ever.

Comments
"NTA. The backstory behind Buzz was wholesome. I wished people like Simon and Alicia had more consideration to the situation." - DungeonSerpents381

AITA for refusing to turn off Turning Red for the sake of a “Moral Guardian” parent?
This happened at my place and when we were watching Turning Red. This involves Kelly and someone from her church named Lois.

Lois is basically an anti-vax, anti-science (in relation to these two, we told her we wouldn’t let her near Xiu-mei unless she got the vaccine), and Christian fundamentalist moral guardian who advocates for banning violent video games and movies and upholding ‘family values’. How Kelly puts up with her is anyone’s guess. She had one daughter named Kylie. Now, Kylie’s actually well-behaved, but if you’ve seen the series Diary of a Wimpy Kid, there’s a character called Rowley Jefferson who’s babied by his overprotective parents to the point he’s basically a six-year old in middle school. Well, she’s basically a female version of Rowley in a nutshell. She’s also actually 13, so way older than James and Xiu-mei, and is basically a teenager to 7-year-old James and 6-year-old Xiu-mei.

Now, Fumei doesn’t like Lois. Lois actually refused to buy menstrual pads for Kylie and she was basically sitting in bloodstained underwear to the point some of it ended up on Fumei’s bed in her room. Fumei yelled at Lois for that and demanded she buy Kylie pads.

Now, in Turning Red, there’s references to periods and menstruation. This actually flew over Xiu-mei and James’ head (which I'm thankful for since they're too young to understand that), but Lois flew into a rage.

Lois: “This is supposed to be a film for children! Disgusting how they mention menstrual products in a film made for children! Disney and Pixar ought to be ashamed of themselves!”

Fumei just glared at her for that and mumbled under her breath at least she would allow Xiu-mei to use menstrual pads when she reaches that point.

However, she continued to rant until Fumei told her to shut the hell up and watch the movie. This actually led to the two in a shouting match outside while we sat and watched the film.

Lois walked inside then told Kylie they were leaving. She even said that a company like Disney “should leave our kids alone” and stop enforcing “adult subjects”.

Her definition of “adult subjects” includes puberty, terminal illness, LGBT (yes, before you ask, she’s openly homophobic, and she wouldn’t let Xiu-mei watch Steven Universe or Owl House), racism (Thankfully Kylie isn’t racist, but Lois is despite ironically saying she isn’t), child abuse (she wouldn’t let her daughter play any Pokémon game because it’s basically a kid in a fantasy world catching monsters by themselves), death (she turned off an episode of Digimon after a character named Wizardmon died), other religions (she bans Pokemon all together because of the non-Abrahamic beliefs), and just about any dark subject.

The reason I worry for Kylie is because she is definitely gonna be eaten alive in middle and high school if Lois is going to keep babying her. She’s been pulled out of multiple classes due to “inappropriate content”, which is basically sex ed, any religion other than Christianity (she campaigned to have a class on Hinduism in her daughter’s school cancelled), and History (It’s actually to the point that Kylie, for a time, innocently believed that the Holocaust didn’t happen and thought WWII was a fantasy story).

Kelly asked Fumei what she said to Lois to make her storm off. She said:

”At least I wouldn’t deny my daughter when she’s older menstrual pads and at least I didn’t launch a campaign to ban non-Christian beliefs, anti-racism and LGBT lessons in the entire school district. Your daughter is going to get bullied at school and you only have yourself to blame for it. You baby her instead of teaching her about the facts of life and this will be your downfall. At least my daughter doesn’t deny the fucking Holocaust and think that World War II was a fantasy story. You ban her from things for the most ridiculous reasons. You ban her from playing Pokémon because you think it advocates child abuse and being ‘against core beliefs’. You treated Gyeo-ul like shit because she was raped and impure and didn’t allow Kylie near her, and don’t even get me started on my ruined bedsheets that took days to clean after your daughter started her period on my bed and she didn’t even know what a pad was! You’re a shitty parent and I hope Kylie runs away from home!”

Comments
"NTA. I hate those Christian fundamentalist Karens more than anything. Lois must be very desperate to permanently taint her relationship with Kylie!" - DickingsMaddnes924

AITA for kicking my friend out after he donated my daughter’s favorite Pokémon plushies to a pawn shop.
This just happened and I’m fucking befuddled, angered and confused.

Now, if you read one of AITA stories, we have a collection of Pikachu in the outfits of the villainous team leaders that are owned by Xiu-mei, BE!Maria, and Akara. They were released as part of the Rainbow Rocket line in Japan, in which we ordered them from the US website in 2019 and Xiu-mei LOVES them to pieces.

Now, I had a friend from high school, and his name is Pierre and he originally came from France.

Pierre doesn’t seem to like my daughter and he accused me of being a ‘daddict’ because I told him I couldn’t go to his birthday because I needed to take care of Xiu-mei because the other gang members were on duty and scolded me for letting her hug me. He even said that this was best for me because if I let Xiu-mei act the way she does, ’she’ll ‘never grow up right’.

The feeling is mutual with Xiu-mei. He has been nothing but condescending to her, belittling her for just everything and even switched the TV channel because he wanted to watch the sports channel and just whined at me when Xiu-mei knocked the TV remote out of his hand to put it back to Cells at Work!.

He actually thinks a child being a ‘Daddy’s child’ or a ‘Mommy’s child’ is babying them and will have a severe impact in the future. He even thought her watching Pokémon would delay her speech development because Pokémon speak in their own names in syllables, despite the fact Xiu-mei can talk NORMALLY.

He’s actually accused me of being a terrible father because I ‘spoil’ her, Which struck a nerve due to my poor childhood. He even proclaimed that I never discipline Xiu-mei when Xiu-mei stood up for herself against him. He actually screamed at her when she got a little mouthy then it escalated to a shouting match between this 37-year old man and a 6-year old girl! He called her a moron when she accidentally tripped, which ended him in being slapped by Longwei. Xiu-mei avoided him from that day forward and would glare at him.

Yeah, he has this mentality that children shouldn’t be mollycoddled, spoiled or babied, which are all things I agree with but his view tends to surpass those of mine. According to a friend, he read To Train Up A Child by Debi and Michael Pearl, which is likely the worst parenting book ever written and likely resulted in the deaths of three children. His wife ended up leaving him with their three children.

Now, when I was parenting alongside Fumei, Fumei rejected Amy Chua’s book Battle Hymm of the Tiger Mother from a friend when Xiu-mei was 2 because she didn’t want to hurt Xiu-mei if she fucks something up when she starts school.

If his wife is to be believed, he physically struck his 8 year old daughter because she asked him to keep his voice down because she was doing her reading assignment and accused her of ‘backchat’.

Yeah, this dude doesn’t like kids and he doesn’t like Xiu-mei for existing because he sees her existence as a threat to his ‘party life with former classmates’.

When he was staying, my daughter ran into the room crying because she couldn’t find Mr. Funny Outfit Pikachu (her name for the Pikachu in the Ghetsis outfit) anywhere. Akara told me that she couldn’t find hers anywhere while BE!Maria said that hers were gone too.

Now, the last time I saw it, it was when I was on her bed with the other two sitting on a desk.

Now, when Pierre came home, I asked him about this and his response made me want to soak his body in battery acid.

Pierre: “Oh, I pawned it. Look, your daughter barely played with those anyway, and doesn’t she have enough toys? And besides, a full set of those plushies would likely have some value. Not to mention she is such a brat and should be disciplined for it, since she snatched the remote when I was watching sports because she wanted to watch her crappy little cartoon, talked back to me, and you enable all that bad behavior by babying her.”

Now, if his eldest son, who is 13 was to be believed, he pawned his children’s possessions multiple times to ‘punish’ them for the mildest infractions.

And that’s a fucking lie. Xiu-mei LOVES them, as she is gentle with them and she loves them to pieces. The one in the Ghetsis outfit is obviously her favorite.

Here’s the weird thing, though: He’s never interacted with Akara and she avoids him like the plague.

BE!Maria took my daughter upstairs as she screamed and bawled.

So yeah... Pierre pretty much stole from my six year old daughter, my fellow gang member, and my friend’s daughter. I think BE!Maria was about to tear him a new one. After telling Xiu-mei she needed to talk with him, she held him against a wall and refused to let him leave until he told us which pawn shop he took them to. Pierre actually ended up biting her so hard, he nearly broke her skin, then made a dash out.

After that shit, we ended up having to go to four different pawn shops to find the plushies and Longwei called until we found the correct one.

Once we finally did find the place (which much to my relief, weren’t sold), the guy at the pawn shop was sympathetic and returned them for free. He actually apologized to Xiu-mei when we brought her there to retrieve the dolls. Well, to be fair, there was no way he could tell three of them were hers. One of them was Akara’s and the other three were BE!Maria’s.

I let him have it once I saw him again.

I screamed at him for being such a fucking bastard to my six year old daughter that he’ll go so low to steal from her. I told him to stay away from me and especially my daughter that point forward.

BE!Maria allowed the three of them she owned which was the Giovanni, Archie and Guzma-costumed Pikachu to stay with Xiu-mei since the experience greatly traumatized her while Akara never let the Lysandre Pikachu leave her sight. She’s even refused to bring the plush to show and tell. However, Akara actually got out of bed to place Lysa (her name for the Lysandre-costumed Pikachu) on Xiu-mei’s bed.

He has no longer been invited to high school reunions held by my former classmates. The gang in general and his wife actually filed a lawsuit against him. His kids testified in court. As it turned out, he left one of his children with PTSD after he destroyed one of her Barbie dolls for failing her math exam and beat her.

TL;DR: Former high school classmate with judgmental views on children and parenting steals my one of my daughter’s favorite toy aswell as six others belonging to BE!Maria and Akara.

UPDATE: Pierre has been sentenced to 15 years in jail.

Comments
"NTA. Just what the fuck, Pierre? At least the pawn shop owner was nice enough to give the plush back for free." - Gorgains2941

”I know. My daughter could barely sleep right for days without all seven with her and four of them don’t even belong to her. The fact one of my classmates from high school stole her belongings fucking traumatized her since a lot of my high school friends really liked her.” - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

”I know Pierre. He didn’t like it whenever his classmates had children. My girlfriend he admired had to graduate high school after she fell pregnant with my child. He has done this to other people.” - RedBlackMoon186

AITA for telling Pierre to keep his voice down because I was playing Yu-Gi-Oh! with Jacob (now deceased) and the fact my daughter was sleeping?
Okay, here's another story with Pierre the Asshole. Yeah, I know, I'm just as enthusiastic are you are, as in, not really...

Now, this happened in 2017 when Xiu-mei was 1. Jacob, who’s now deceased, was a huge Yu-Gi-Oh! fan and he watched the anime with me and actually taught me how to play. For my 32nd birthday, he brought me my first structure deck, which was Structure Deck: Marik and several booster packs, which was nice.

As it turns out, the deck was an unused gift he got for Christmas back in 2010 that was forgotten until he found it while decluttering and decided to give it to me as a birthday gift, which I appreciated.

Now, when we were playing Yu-Gi-Oh! at the kitchen table, I told Jacob not to shout because my daughter was having her nap upstairs and we had to keep our voices down. Jacob agreed as we began to play.

Meanwhile, Pierre was watching sports, more specifically NASCAR. Now, if you read my previous AITA story, you would know that he does NOT like the fact I became a father to begin with and has made it clear he hates Xiu-mei.

Before Xiu-mei was born, me, Jiayi and several high school classmates including Pierre on a Saturday night would go into the city for a nightlife of partying and alcohol. But after Xiu-mei was born, I decided not to be a deadbeat and I actually had to miss out on a lot of our Saturday Parties. While most of my high school classmates respected my decision not to go to these parties, Pierre, who was the party boy, didn’t take this well and told me when he met Xiu-mei who was 9 months she should have been aborted and that she was an ‘unwanted pregnancy’. No wonder Fumei despises him.

Now, I had 2000 life points left out of 8000 and Jacob had 1500 left out of 8000. He had Lava Golem on his side of the field thanks to me and had Mirror Force set down in case Jacob tried anything.

Now, for the entire duration of our gameplay, Pierre was shouting at the TV when watching football and Jacob accidentally forgot Lava Golem’s effect twice and we ended up having to do a recount. Then, I ended up getting up and walking towards Pierre while he was talking too loudly.

I basically asked him to keep his voice down because my daughter was sleeping and I was trying to play Yu-Gi-Oh! and we ended up nearly messing the game up.

That's when he became extremely pissed for no reason (especially since I asked him nicely) and he proceeded to scream abusively at me and shouted that he had the right to watch his football game and how I never hang out with him anymore after that ‘unwanted pregnancy’ came into my life. His tirade was so bad, he actually woke up my daughter.

I fucking slapped him after that angrily, turned off the TV and told him when I get Xiu-mei settled, I will be putting on cartoons for her.

He flipped the bird at me, called me an "ugly c***k", and then left in a pouty mood all day and when my daughter was watching cartoons, he glared at her the whole time while muttering some awful shit under his breath that I'd rather not type out.

Comments
"Holy fuck. At this point, I don't see how anyone can defend Pierre. Yes, he actually has a small group of people defending his crazy ass, and it's really insane." - Felix932

AITA for refusing to give my foster sister $40,000?
If you know me and Penelope, then you already know how this story is gonna go. Christ, I can’t believe this bitch is trying to fucking heckle me for money, even after all the shit she did to me and my sister!

Now, in case you all haven’t noticed, the net worth of both Scorpion Blood and Black Heaven’s (a more formal name for the Xiaoying gang) net worth is 2.4 billion US dollars (15,276,240 in yuan) and both gangs are extremely wealthy (our separate net worth is 1.2 billion (7,638,120 in yuan), so both me and my wife are well-off).

So being the daughter of two gangsters from two wealthy Chinese crime syndicates, my daughter tends to get a lot of things.

Now, when me, my wife, and daughter were at home watching TV, we heard aggressive knocking on the door.

I answered with the Ring video doorbell and it was Penelope,. Now, if Tassie is to be believed, she was pregnant by a guy who had been a convicted pedophile and sex offender (no, seriously) and she wanted money.

Me: “What the fuck do you want?! You’re violating the restraining order you bitch! And don't you remember the last time you did something like this?”

Penelope: “I don't give a damn! I want $40,000 and your family to pay me $12,000 every week! Get your boss's ass downstairs so we can negotiate some pricing!”

Now, Penelope wanted this all because she was pregnant, even though from what I've heard, she's a terrible mother. And considering all the shit she did to me and Jiayi, me and Fumei looked at her in disbelief.

Fumei: Did this bitch just got knocked out by a metal baseball bat or something? Why did she even bothered asking that, especially if she knew what the answer was!

Now, out of the 2.4 billion dollars we both get, we only get $20,000 a week as part of ‘the share policy’. It funds basically our groceries, equipment, and childcare for Xiu-mei and the $50 we put into a side account for her.

Now, I told her a flat out NO, saying she wasn’t entitled to shit because she was pregnant, and once again, if you read my backstory, she was a horrible bitch. I told her I had to work since aged 17 after running away to stay alive, how her father’s food deprivation fucking caused to develop an eating disorder and how she mocked me for it, and worse part: She used the foster checks that were supposed to be used for me and my sister so she could go shopping.

She spent it all on clothing, shoes, watches, jewelry, handbags. She also bragged about her father buying anything she wants and always pretends to cry until she buys it, and when I was 13, I was fucking whipped with an electrical cord, punched and slapped in the face because the dollhouse me and my sister bought for 700 FUCKING DOLLARS! And the only reason Jiayi was spared from the whipping was because she kicked Garret in the nuts and dashed off, and I wasn't so lucky to get out.

So in short, I basically told her to fuck off while listing off everything she did and what her fucking father did to me. To this day, however, she still insists that she get money to take care of her baby.

Comments
"NTA. Someone needs to make a 'Gardners Fuck Off!' logo that's similar to the 'Nazi Punks Fuck Off!' logo." - AntiFascistandAntiAbuse

== AITA for telling a mother to watch her 3-year old daughter herself and calling her out for expecting everyone to look after her while she either smoked, played games on her phone and or watched YouTube videos during her ‘me time’ == Back again, and this time it’s about one of my middle school classmates named Angelina, and fuck she is a neglectful parent. Before anyone asks, no she’s not abusive, but overly neglectful.

And how neglectful? Well, for starters, she expects others to look after her daughter, who’s name is Erika. She actually tried to leave her in the care of Feng despite the fact he had been experimenting with potassium cyanide prior and had to shower. SShe actually opened the door to the bathroom and put her in there! Yeah, no wonder Feng doesn’t like her.

And she will leave any of us with her. Even Gyeo-ul, who can’t stand children personally, has made it clear numerous times she doesn’t like babysitting.

And what does the so-called "Mother of the Year" (yes, she actually calls herself that) do? Either watch YouTube videos, play games on her phone, and smoke, when she could have been watching her own daughter herself!

And Erika just plays with Xiu-mei, Patime and Akara anytime they come over and if Erika gets hurt in anyway. She actually shouts at the person she left us with.

Erika is fully aware her mother doesn’t want her around.

Now, If you know me, I have mental health problems and I escaped abusive and neglectful foster parents when I was a teenager, so that shit makes me furious. She actually left Erika in charge of Gyeo-ul and Hang-il, even though like I said earlier, Gyeo-ul said she doesn’t babysit and makes it clear she doesn’t want to.

Gyeo-ul was downstairs playing Pokémon Sword with Maria doing a Dynamax Adventure. We just faced Kyurem and since she didn’t have Kyurem. I let her catch Kyurem, and she nicknamed it ‘Icy’.

After that, we heard a scream. Erika had fallen outside and skinned her knee.

When Angelina saw, she began shouting at Gyeo-ul at how she should have been watching her. The thing is she spent the whole fucking time watching YouTube videos instead of watching her!

I got angry and yelled at Angelina that she was a lazy parent who only got pregnant because she was such an attention whore and stopped giving a shit when the baby was 6 months old.

Comments
"NTA. How she hasn't lost custody of that poor kid is beyond me. I hope she finally started caring for her after that incident!" - OptimisticOlivia2834

AITA for coming at a Karen for turning off Helluva Boss for an autistic friend of mine?
Lei here. Now, this one involves a good friend of mine named Austin. Now, Austin has mild autism, but he is really good at computers. He has been involved in our projects that involved computers, one of which was a scam online that earned us nearly 2 million dollars. Even though he technically isn't a member of our gang, he is treated like family here.

Another thing to know about him is that he is a huge fan of the dark comedy show Helluva Boss. He doesn't mind Hazbin Hotel, but he finds Helluva Boss to be a superior show. One of his favorite characters is Octavia, which he found to be relatable because his own father actually cheated on his wife for a black woman. Since his mom was a racist, she divorced him, left, and Austin still hasn't seen her to this day.

Now, there's another person involved in this story, and that is a woman named Isabell. Isabell is one of those Karens who flips her shit over the littlest of things. One time, she raged at one of our gang allies because one of the members joked about her short pink hair. Speaking of which, she has that stereotypical SJW feminist look, but she swears up and down that she's not a leftist. She's also a big fan of Stonetoss and Antoons, who are notorious right-wing comic artists. The latter was also involved in a bunch of drama that would take me all day to explain.

Now, this particular incident happened when Isabell was visiting our hideout. At this time, Austin had finished repairing BE!Maria's PC and was relaxing in the living room while watching Helluva Boss. Xiu-mei was in school, but whenever she's at home, I ask Austin not to play the show around her due to its graphic nature. This episode involved Blitzo and his gang competing with Verosika Mayday on who can get that most kills or the most who had sex with. As the gang is killing people left and right, Verosika holds a concert at the beach, which causes the people in the audience to have sex. When Isabell saw this, to say she got pissed would be a big ass understatement.

Isabell: WHAT THE GODDAMN FUCKING SHIT IS THIS DEGENERACY?!?! THAT SINGER LOOKS LIKE A WHORE, AND ALL OF THESE PEOPLE PERFORMING DEGENERATE ACTS AGAINST EACH OTHER IS SHIT!!! FUCK THIS GODDAMN SHOW TO HELL!!!

Austin: Can you keep it down? I'm trying to watch this.

Isabell: FUCK YOU!!! YOU KNOW WHAT?!?! FUCK THIS SHIT!!!

Next thing we knew, Isabell takes the remote and shuts off the show!

Austin: Hey! Put it back on!

Isabell: You're gonna have to get the remote from me, asshole!

And believe it or fucking not, she proceeds to make Austin chase her all over the area just so he can get the remote to change it back to the show he was watching. Now, Austin may have mild autism, but when he gets a sensory overload, it's pretty bad. Austin was ready to throw a huge one before I ran up to her and snatched it from her.

Lei: Are you out of your fucking mind?! This man has mild autism and is about to have a sensory overload because your entitled ass couldn't handle a cartoon with some mature themes!

Isabell: LIKE I GIVE A SHIT! GO READ STONETOSS COMICS, YOU SJW SCUM!!!

I ended up slapping her after that line and told her to shut the hell up. Long story short, the boss kicked her out of the base and she has not been allowed back since. As for Austin, as a way to say sorry for the incident, the boss ordered him a bunch of enamel pins for all the Helluva Boss characters along with some witches pins for Octavia, Millie, and Verosika, Valentines day pin for Stella, plushies for Millie, Moxxie, and Loona, and these two puzzle pieces. We even got a custom-made plushie for Octavia, Stolas, and Fizzarolli, which Austin especially loved.

Comments
"NTA. As a fan of Helluva Boss, Isabell's actions were extremely poor to say the least! At least Austin got a happy ending with those generous apology gifts." - HelluvaBossFan696

AITA for telling a friend from high school that he’s not doing his kids any favors?
Lei again. I have a classmate named Arthur and he has six children, Abbie, who is 18 and his stepdaughter from his wife’s previous marriage. Together they have Peter aged 16, Philomena aged 15, Jay aged 8 and Myla aged 6.

Abbie, Jay and Philomena are tolerable, but Myla and Peter, for fuck’s sakes... Now, Joseph has a daughter named Sa-rang II and it was her first birthday a week ago. This will play apart later.

Despite Gyeo-ul not standing kids, even she had to admit Jay was a total darling. He likes Pokémon too and thanked her for helping him catch legendary Pokémon with a hug. Gyeo-ul normally doesn’t like guys touching her and she accepted it in return.

The problem with Myla if she wants something, she’ll beg her parents and ask ‘please’ until they say yes, and I have the belief Peter was extremely spoiled as as a child because he was born with a kidney defect and Abbie told me when she was 5 and Peter was 3. He threw a massive tantrum because she got one of those YoToy shoes toys and he wanted it.

It was a small toy doll and unfortunately, Arthur is his two sons and youngest daughter’s biggest enabler. He demanded Abbie hand it over this instant until their mother shut them down. In the end, he didn’t get the small YoToy doll.

And believe me, he is like this his whole life. He has no respect for his parents or siblings and is bratty. And yet, his father does nothing but give into his tantrums.

And Arthur has the habit of giving his two youngest kids sweets before bed. The problem is that Jay had cavities as a result and had to have fillings, and it explains why Myla is so fucking hyper.

Xiu-mei does eat sweets, but certainly NOT before bed.

This happened when Gyeo-ul was playing Pokémon Sword and Peter challenged her. Gyeo-ul forgot to heal beforehand and even told him, but he wouldn’t listen.

Now throughout the whole match, Peter was extremely condescending to her, and acted like she was stupid and proclaimed she was bad at the game, which pisses her off. I told her to disconnect and not to link battle. She agreed and told him to fuck off.

And she had a set of the Tao trio Maria helped her catch while on Dynamax Adventures and while she was tending to them on Pokémon Camp.

Peter said he wanted them because she was ‘bad at the game’.

Gyeo-ul shut that down extremely quickly, basically telling him to piss off and find someone else to annoy.

He tried to force her to link trade and tried to send her really common and weak Pokémon in return and when she refused, he screamed then Arthur came in.

Now, when Arthur demanded she trade them at once, she refused.

Now, Gyeo-ul is extremely defiant in most situations. She loves her three Tao dragons and she sometimes behaves like a woman with cats in Pokémon Camp.

When he realized it wouldn’t work with her, he spent the entire day trying to guilt trip her until Gyeo-ul told him to fuck off and get away from her.

Now, Joseph put his daughter down for a nap and during this. He asked Arthur to tell Myla to keep her voice down because his daughter was sleeping.

He refused saying, “She’s just a kid!”

After Sa-rang being woken up at least 5 times, me, Devi, and Joseph had a bit of an intervention.

Me: “Look, Artie, I know you love your kids, and I love Xiu-mei, Joseph loves Sa-rang, and Devi loves Akara, but here’s the thing: You’re not doing your kids any favors. Giving them ‘goodnight candies’ isn’t doing them favors. Your eldest son doesn’t respect you because you spoiled him all his life because he was in and out of hospital for a kidney defect. I’m actually impressed Jay has turned out to be nothing like him. I know you work a lot. I work a lot, but it doesn’t give me the right to give her sweets at night, nor enable poorer behavior and others. In this sense, you are not doing them any favors.”

Now onto Peter’s shit behavior:

Me: “Peter talked down to Gyeo-ul the entire time they had a link battle and demanded she hand over three of her Pokémon because she ‘forfeited’ under my suggestion. No wonder she hates him. ”Your son is nothing but a spoiled fucking brat you can’t say no to.”

Jay lightened up Gyeo-ul’s shitty day and asked if she could help him ‘get Pokémon like she has’ since Peter refused to help him. She agreed.

Me: “And onto your two youngest children: Even though your son, Jay is a total sweetheart and a darling. As for your daughter, we have a one year old who got woken up 5 different times because she was being extremely hyper and loud. I get you don’t get to see them as much as you’d like, but you’re not doing her favors, and neither your son.”

Comments
"NTA. Sounds like a parent who doesn't know when to put their foot down." - LicyDice291

AITA for kicking out my former friend after he ate my birthday cake?
Another fucking story on Pierre the fucker. Before anyone asks, yes I understand that you're tired of seeing stories about Pierre and want to hear something original. However, there are still some people who are actually defending him, and I really need to drive the point that their so-called "hero" is actually a piece of shit.

Now, this happened on my 30th birthday in 2014, so it was before Xiu-mei existed and I’m still pissed off aswell as my twin sister.

Now, my on and off girlfriend (soon to be wife) and her friends went out of their way to make red velvet and chocolate cake, which are my and my sister’s favorite flavors of cake with chocolate outside and red velvet insides.

Now, me and my sister had to go out for a bit while my friends got the party ready. Kelly was there, as she was my friend at my Chinese-American community group. Now that I think of it, it's ironic how I became close friends with a Christian woman.

Now, our day was we planned to buy Asian sweets (I love Pocky sticks. We put those on the cake), some video games, and many others.

Now, I was away when Kelly phoned me. If her conversation with Pierre when she walked into him eating me and my sister’s birthday cake was to be believed.

Kelly: “Pierre, I need your help with the... Isn’t that Lei and Jiayi’s birthday cake?”

If Kelly was to be believed, he had partially eaten the whole damn thing when she entered.

Pierre: “Lei told me he and Jiayi didn’t like red velvet and chocolate, so I figured I'd snag some for myself.”

Now this was bullshit to the highest extent. From all the times I was known, I loved red velvet and chocolate cake, and my gang and friends know this.

Kelly: “Are you serious, Pierre?! He loves those flavors! You’re so greedy...”

Me: I cannot believe you! Kelly's right about me loving those flavors! Matter of fact, get the hell out of my party! You're no longer invited!

Pierre ended up leaving in a huff. Fortunately, Kelly returned to the bakery and explained the situation, and they were able to rebake the taken pieces.

Comments
"NTA. I thought you were joking about the Pierre defenders, but you weren't. There's even a Facebook group called 'We Love Pierre!', whose leader is actually an advocate to abolishing the age of consent and even considers himself an 'alley' for MAPs, a.k.a., Minor-Attracted Persons." - ClevelandBaseball03

"Jesus-Fucking-Christ... me and my gang might have to invade that Facebook group." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for refusing to let a severely autistic girl use my daughter’s Nintendo Switch then shouting at her father when he tried to take the Switch case containing her Switch off my sleeping daughter.
This happened on a train ride back home from Jacksonville to Miami and I’m still befuddled by this.

Now, my daughter owns a Nintendo Switch and she owns a lot of the Pokémon games. I own my own but I hardly play Pokémon but the gang got a save file made up for me if I felt like playing it.

And during the train ride, Xiu-mei was playing on her Nintendo Switch. She was playing Sword and Shield and I was helping her catch a legendary Pokémon. The train had free Wi-Fi and I got gift cards so I bought some gems in Pokémon Masters EX.

During the car ride, I felt a tap on my shoulder. It was a man and a woman. The man wore an Autism Speaks shirt (Ew, gross) and the mom wore an Autism Mommy shirt.

The man asked me if my daughter could lend her Nintendo Switch to their daughter who is 13 (They told me she was 13).

Their daughter was sitting behind them looking stressed out and pointing at my daughter’s Switch.

”Please... My daughter’s phone battery died and she needs something so we don’t have a meltdown. She’s autistic you see, and it would be a great act of autism kindness!”

My friend Sarah said that this is not a way to deal with an autistic child, especially with her daughter. Sarah makes sure she’s prepared for it all. When I told her about this, she shook her head in disapproval telling me they’re not doing her any favors.

My daughter paid no attention (She was wearing headphones). I told them a flat out NO, saying my daughter was playing it, and she was no way inclined to hand over her Nintendo Switch to a complete stranger. Not to mention the child’s hands were covered in soda and I didn't want to get it sticky,

The parents for the two hours tried to guilt-trip me into handing over my daughter’s Switch until my daughter fell asleep. I saved the game, put the Switch into sleep mode and put it in the case then put it in her bag, which was a pink messenger bag.

Then I told them to stop the ‘whining’ because my daughter was finally asleep (she sleeps on my lap).

I put some death metal on, then closed my eyes,

Half an hour later, I heard rustling and when I opened my eyes, the dad was going through my daughter’s bag!

Me: “What the fuck are you doing?!”

My daughter woke up thanks to me shouting. The girl screaming and hitting herself and others and she asked the guy what she was doing, albeit with tired annoyance.

The dad said that Xiu-mei wasn’t using the Switch and thought he could take it because his daughter had hit his wife during her autistic meltdown. He then called me ‘ableist’ and told me it was my fault for allowing his daughter to have a meltdown.

I have a multitude of mental health issues and I was like ‘WTF?’

I retorted he wasn’t doing his daughter any favors by going to a complete stranger and demanding they hand over their console, even told him that going through my daughter’s messenger bag to find her Nintendo Switch was nothing short of fucking creepy (my daughter was wearing a summer dress that day). Xiu-mei looked at me then tapped the man on the shoulder.

Xiu-mei: “The answer is no, end of discussion! Get away from me and my daddy!”

Lei: (me, whispering) “You fucking heard her. Leave me and my daughter alone...”

The staff member came around after hearing reports of ‘a man creeping on a sleeping child’.

The man yelled that he wouldn’t hand over my daughter’s Nintendo Switch and his daughter had a meltdown because I was ‘ableist’ and the reason because his daughter’s phone battery died and he forgot the charger at home.

I retorted he and his wife spent two hours trying to guilt trip me and annoy me when I told them no and the fact their daughter’s hands were dirty, and the fact he sneaked on my sleeping daughter just to try and take her Nintendo Switch. Xiu-mei was left creeped out by this.

The staff member scolded the ‘autism couple’, telling them I was in no way inclined to give my Switch to their daughter.

They both glared at me while their daughter passed out from her meltdown and we both made remarks to eachother.

”Your daughter is a brat!” - Mom

”Yeah, at least I know when to tell her no and I don’t baby her!” - Me

We both got off at Miami. The parents and I glared at eachother. Meanwhile, the daughter woke up a bit.

My final gesture was to give them a rude gesture (who wouldn’t after having to deal with these two who can’t even tell their daughter ‘no’).

Comments
"NTA. People like them give us autistic people a bad rep, and I hate them! And fuck Austism Speaks as well!" - Naliko291

AITA for yelling at Peter for calling my daughter lame?
This just happened when Arthur and his family visited and I’ve already talked about his family.

His son Peter is a condescending and entitled brat who thinks he’s above everyone and is entitled to get away with shit, and Arthur is arguably worse as he REFUSES to discipline him. It’s actually to the point his younger and older sister don’t want to be around him.

Earlier on during the day, I helped catch my daughter a set of Lake Guardians on Pokémon Shield/Sword, and Peter did nothing but make comments on how they weren’t shiny so they didn’t matter and aren’t worth it. He also made comments on my daughter’s main team.

I don’t give a fuck if they’re shiny. As long as she’s happy, I’m happy.

I also specifically told Xiu-mei NOT to battle him because he is a condescending and rude sore loser. He accused me of cheating when I won against him. He even demanded I traded him my MVP, which was a Level 100 Zekrom (I was using Shield). He threw a fit like a baby when I refused. This caused a dent in me and Arthur’s relationship.

But what permanetly severed ties between me and Peter is when he called my daughter lame and said she wasn’t a "real" gamer.

Now, on Peter’s Nintendo Switch isn’t just Pokémon Shield but Fortnite, Super Smash Bros, Five Night’s at goddamn Freddy’s, and other similar games. Peter even though my daughter owned FNAF plushies, despite not actually being allowed to play FNAF.

Xiu-mei mostly plays Pokémon and Animal Crossing. She only plays Smash Bros on my Switch, and not on her own. She also watches YouTube on it, but just like YouTube on the TV. She’s restricted on what she can watch so she doesn’t use the app often.

Now, when she was tending to her Pokémon in Pokémon Camp (She likes Pokémon Contests in BDSP and Pokémon Camp and Dynamax Adventures) he asked her what games she played. She said Pokémon and Animal Crossing.

He scoffed at her and called her lame, when I was helping Arthur fix the TV after a fault.

According to Abbie, his perception of a true gamer is one who plays games from more than three franchises, which is a pretty lousy definition if you ask me.

I got pissed at this. I told Xiu-mei to go upstairs, and she complied.

And this is my Reason-You-Are-An-Asshole speech to both Peter and Arthur:

“Peter, I can think of a reason why Gyeo-ul hates you and why my daughter and your sisters resent you. You were spoiled for all your life, and all because you had a kidney defect and were in and out of hospital. Your dad can’t fucking tell you no and in return. You hardly respect him or your own family. He even demanded that your sister hand over something her grandmother gave her because you wanted it and Arthur gave in to your fucking tantrum until your mother in law shut that down. You are the worst kind of Pokémon competitive player. One who is entitled, bratty and condescending to his own goddamn opponent. When I taught my daughter how to link battle, I used it as a teaching opportunity. Instead, my daughter to you is ‘lame’ because she plays mostly two kid friendly titles instead of a clusterfuck battle royale, a crossover fighting game, and a fucking indie horror game I don’t even let my daughter play!

And as for you, Arthur, the reason Peter is a disrespectful, condescending asshole who has no empathy towards you is because you let him be like this. You’re an enabler who enabled his spoiled son all his life. He bullies his siblings, sold his own consoles I fucking bought him for his birthday for money, and has the audacity to use his brother’s own Nintendo Switch console.“

Everyone was just silent in shock, especially Peter and Arthur. I continued with this:

“During the time you knew Gyeo-ul and my daughter. You were condescending, you made disparaging remarks because the lake trio I caught for her and the Tao trio Maria helped catch for her weren’t shiny, but they were happy either way!

You hate the way they played because they weren’t these assholes who thought every Pokémon should fall under your eyes of ‘worthy of giving a fuck’.”

Comments
"NTA. I knew Peter and Arthur, and they're weirdos who expect everything to go their way. It's good to see you finally put them on blast." - MadJack946

== AITA for punching a pro gun activist who claimed the victims of deadly school/college shootings (Dunblane, Columbine, Virginia Tech, Sandy Hook and Stoneman Douglas etc, etc) deserve to die because they were ‘bullies’ and could have grown up to be ‘rapists and criminals’ == This just happened and I wanted to fucking shoot this man after what he said and did...

Now, I’ll call this asshole ‘Columbine Fanboy’, as this asshole is not worthy of one normal name, he is THAT bad. This guy was an extreme pro-gun activist. Now, I used my fair share of weapons, which include guns, knives, and explosives, but NOT on fucking kids, as that's where I draw a line.

However, this dude glorifies the fucking Columbine shootings. He claimed Matt Kechter, one of the kids was a bully, and jock and Lauren Townsend, who was captain of the girl’s volleyball team, deserved to die because she was a bully. He even called one of the victims, Kyle Velasquez, the r-word. He even glorifies the Dunblane and Sandy Hook shootings, claiming “those kids could grow up to be criminals and rapists”.

Now, I don't think I need to explain why these beliefs are shitty and absolutely fucking disgusting. I ended up punching him in the face out of anger and told him, "If you seriously think that for one fucking second that these kids deserved to be killed in those brutal ways just because they bullied the perpetrators without knowing what they were or even because they would've became criminals in the future had they lived, despite zero fucking evidence of that, then you are a heartless privileged BASTARD and one of the most DISGUSTING individuals that I have ever known! Now the get the fuck out of my face before I give you more than a punch..."

Comments
"Hey, Lei, you're clearly NTA here. Why even bother asking?" - Hijokida9341

"Well, believe it or not, this guy has followers who actually defended his comments. One of them even said that one of the female victims in the Sandy Hook massacre would've grew up to be raped as a child and that it was good that the shooter killed her before that ever happened. I don't even know what the fuck goes through their heads half the time..." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for telling another Chinese parent to fuck off when he told me I should've had a son instead of a daughter?
This happened at my Chinese-American community group just last week.

Now, in Chinese tradition, most specifically Confucius traditions, which is something neither me nor my family follow. This caused a cultural preference for boys and patriarchal attitudes and the belief that boys are more valuable than girls.

In China (I’m Macau, not PRC BTW), there was a policy called the One Child Policy, and it was a fucking mess and it caused nothing but problems. And since a lot of parents, especially ones in rural areas want boys, they have only one shot at this. Female babies are usually aborted, abandoned, or put up for adoption. It’s actually was to the point several hospitals were banned from ever giving ultrasounds to check the baby’s gender. The policy would eventually be repealed in 2021.

Okay, enough of that. Let’s get going.

Now, there’s a woman at the Chinese-American community group I attend and she had one son around the same age as Xiu-mei.

Now, one of Xiu-mei’s favorite activities is decorating my hair which reaches my hips and waist with hairclips and ribbons. I don’t mind it since she is very gentle and makes sure she washes her hands since she doesn’t like hair follicles on her hands.

When she was doing it, this woman scoffed at me and told me.

“You should of had a son instead. At least he’ll be more valuable and carry on your family name, take responsibility for your family. Daughters are such burdens. They leave their families once they’re married.”

Now, Zhao and Fumei’s boss, Yuyan do NOT want me nor her to have a second child due to my multitude of mental health problems, and contraceptives were mandatory (Including condoms and pills). We were happy with our daughter anyways, and because of obvious reasons. My family name ends at Xiu-mei’s, and I would rather have her not carry my family name down.

I responded with this:

”I don’t want my grandkids when I have them to share the surname with that disgusting monster of a father I had. I don’t practice that shit. I’m perfectly fine with having a daughter and I have a multitude of mental health problems, so that’s off the table.”

Comments
"NTA. This woman needs to be in your shoes for once, since she clearly doesn't understand that your mental illness and trauma is a major burden in not having another kid." - DarkHeart2066

AITA for refusing to change my daughter’s birthday plans for the sake of one of Xiu-mei’s autistic classmates
Xiu-mei’s birthday is coming up in a week and she wants a Nintendo series (basically Mario, Pokémon, Kirby, Donkey Kong, Animal Crossing and Zelda, etc, etc)-themed birthday party since she really loves Nintendo games.

Now, I just planned everything including cupcakes, decorations, and even my daughter’s new qipao which colors matches Purrloin/Liepard, which is her favorite Pokemon (basically purple, green and cream).

There were also stands of a lot of Nintendo characters which are custom made.

One of Xiu-mei’s former classmates who I invited alongside his mom.

When she came up to see the decorations, she told me I had to change the celebrations.

I was befuddled and asked why.

”My son is afraid of character cutouts and he doesn’t play Nintendo games. I don’t want him getting overwhelmed.”

I told her a flat out no, telling him it was my daughter’s birthday party and not his.

Her behavior didn’t get any better when the day of the actual birthday. Her son wanted it to be all about him that even Xiu-mei got really annoyed with him.

The unfortunate thing with her and her kid is if there’s a birthday party, it has be about him even if it isn’t his birthday.

She wanted the entire party to accommodate him, she wanted the stands taken down, and she didn’t want SSBU to be played at the party in case her son lost a match. He wanted to blow out Xiu-mei’s candles, and he even wanted to watch Captain America instead. The last straw came when he tried to steal Xiu-mei's gifts, and when I snatched it from him, he had a panic attack tried to destroy one of the character cutouts. At that point, I told her and her son to leave.

Comments
"My goodness! As an autistic person myself, I wouldn't dare act that selfish! They kind of remind me of Liane and Erica." - AnotherStonetossHater3485

AITA for going against a Disney adult’s wishes and getting her daughter a toy she wanted?
Me again. So this happened a few weeks ago, when my ex-friend’s daughter had her birthday party.

This friend, who I’ll call Cheryl, is extremely controlling to the point I am really concerned for her daughter, who I’ll call Maddie(a little younger than Xiu Mei).

You see, Cheryl is what you’d call a “Disney adult”, and takes her love of Disney to extremes, and forcing it on her daughter. Cheryl makes a clear reminder to everybody that every toy, movie, etc. that Maddie gets is only allowed to be Disney-related. Anything other than that, will get tossed. Heck, poor Maddie isn’t even allowed to watch any non-Disney cartoons! You can tell that Maddie does not like her mother policing what she is into, and even Xiu-mei feels really sorry for her.

So, Maddie’s birthday was coming up, and something she really wants is a Calico Critters play set. For those unfamiliar Calico Critters (or sometimes called Sylvanian families) is a toy line from Japan. They’re basically these cute little plastic animal figurines with a felty surface, giving them a soft feel. I called up Cheryl and her husband and asked if it was okay to get one for her. Husband said it was fine, but Cheryl ignored every word.

The Friday before the party, I took Xiu Mei to the mall with me to pick out the gift for Maddie. Xiu-mei thought the Baby castle play set was really cute, and I agreed so I bought that one.

On Saturday, the day of the party, when it came time for Maddie to open her gifts, Xiu Mei excitably handed Maddie our gift first. When, Maddie opened it, she squealed with delight, and gave Xiu-mei a big hug. Cheryl just stood by and don’t say anything but a flat “How nice”. Later, Cheryl was very furious and got into a big fight with her husband when she tried to get rid of the toy. The other parents would not take the toy and called Cheryl disgusting for trying to get rid of a toy Maddie was happy to have.

Finally, I had enough and shouted the first thing I could think of:

Me: “Honestly, I would not be surprised if your daughter grows to resent you! She has her own personality an interests. Why would you take that joy away from her?!”

Cheryl proceeded to curse me out, and with that I took Xiu Mei and left.

Comments
NTA! I love myself some Disney, but I would never go to far! Good on you for sticking up for this little girl! Xiu-mei is also such a caring friend. - Aquastone98

AITA for telling Pierre to fuck off after my wife bought me an Nintendo Switch
Yet another story about Pierre the Asshole.

Now, Pierre, when he was in high school, had a hatred of ‘childish things’, and that included Nintendo.

He was an Xbox fanboy BTW. He is basically an headass edgelord who frowns upon anything fun. He even had the audacity of telling Jiayi not to tickle me because ‘it’s childish’ despite it being a coping mechanism but that’s a story for another day

This happened on my 37th birthday in 2021. My wife bought me a Nintendo Switch Lite with Pokémon Shield and Sword + Expansion Pass (I got a free Reshiram and Zekrom :D)

And I got it so I could play with my daughter. She had one of her own and I bought her the Expansion Passes.

Pierre scoffed at me when I was playing Shield, telling me Pokémon was a kid’s game and that just because I had an abusive childhood does not mean I should engage in ‘childish nonsense’.

Like, WTF? I rarely played video games other than a few at a friend’s house, but one game I did love was Doom and when the gang got a desktop PC. I also played Doom a lot.

I then told him to go fuck himself and hug a giant hogweed (Got a big ass laugh from Feng XD).

He then told me I should buy a ‘man’s console’ and should pawn the Switch.

Me: Seriously? No way in hell am I going to pawn my own Switch and buy a quote-unquote "man's console" just because you find Nintendo "childish".

Comments
"NTA. This is admittedly one of the lighter stories involving Pierre, but Pierre was still awfully weird here." - Ako92

AITA for refusing to get rid of our cats?
Sigh... Fuck the HOA...

Okay, here's some backstory: We have three cats. Dio is nearly four, Endeavor's three, and Kuíqísī is nearly two.

I own Kuí, a Dragon Li cat that my daughter looks after that just became my ESA when he was one. Satomi owns Endeavor, a Japanese bobtail, and Maria owns Dio, a black cat.

Jenny, the HOA official in charge of our neighborhood is an ableist and racist cunt who thinks the mentally ill and disabled belong in institutions and group homes (ironically, our home is kind of a group home, and most of us live independent lives) and thinks me and several others should go back to our own countries (Our neighborhood is predominately white).

Now, she fucking complains about everything from Chinese lanterns to our cats’ existence.

Remember how I said she was an ableist bitch? She once knocked on the door while Kuí was in the living room playing with my daughter and when I opened it.

She demanded we get rid of our cats or face a fine and eviction.

The thing is, our house is owned by a private landlord, who is my boss’ nephew. And as long as we pay him, he doesn’t give a shit and makes sure our house is suited to accommodate the entire gang.

Comments
"NTA. Please tell me there's a way you can get her fired, because I used to work for HOA, and if I were to act like that, I would've been fired on the spot!" - ArchaicInvincibility535

”Sadly, she hasn't been fired yet. However, we are still trying to get her to fuck off. I swear, she has it for us because we’re a group of Asian-Americans living together.” - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for refusing to bow down to a diehard Chinese nationalist?
This is about the Chinese nationalist I mentioned in the previous story.

Now, what’s her issue this time? My daughter owns a Nintendo Switch and Pokémon plushies and she hates the Japanese and boycotts Japanese goods. And in Hong Kong, the Nanking Massacre is being taught to junior primary school children, which Feng, who is from Nanjing, told me he wouldn’t recommend teaching to young children in case you want to deliberately screw up a classroom of 6-11 year olds with mass murder, mass rape and basically everything wrong like inserting bayonets into vaginas.

Me and Fumei talked it over if we should teach Xiu-mei about the Rape of Nanking and we agreed we should wait until Xiu-mei was in her final year of middle school for us to teach her it. Now, if we do discuss Japanese war atrocities, we don’t go into too much detail.

We do teach Xiu-mei about Chinese folk stories, culture, her roots and clothing.

Now, during a Chinese-American community meeting, Xiu-mei brought her Nintendo Switch and a Snivy plush toy.

She did nothing but rant about Xiu-mei being a traitor to her people and how I’m a terrible parent.

Comments
"NTA. The die-hard nationalists have been annoying lately, and after reading Adil's AITA on a tankie who denied the Tiananmen Square massacre, they've clearly gone mental." - HazzuMak022

AITA for refusing to eat my ice cream upstairs because a child of one of my middle school classmates wanted it despite being lactose intolerant?
This just happened and I think one of my classmates disregards her son’s lactose intolerance because she can’t say no to him.

My classmate Polly has an autistic son named Ryan who also has ADD and lactose intolerance, and she spoils the shit out of him and can’t tell him “no”. This is a serious problem because one, she has actually made him violently ill, and two, she had been told by doctors, pediatricians, and even an allergy specialist while Ryan had been told by teachers, a school nurse and even his family doctor not to give him that.

Now, I had a bad throat infection and sore throat (don’t worry, not COVID-19) and I could barely speak so my wife was speaking for me. My daughter developed the same symptoms and was in her room, so my wife bought Ben & Jerry’s ice cream (I had the Chocolate Fudge Brownie and Xiu-mei had the Cookie Dough) because cold foods are actually good for easing sore throats. It soothes the pain. She didn’t buy the non-dairy variants since she only buys them for close friends.

Now, I was eating mine while watching TV. Polly and Ryan were in the living room while I was watching a documentary on Harold Shipman.

I heard Ryan complain he wanted ice cream and I felt Polly touch my shoulder.

Polly: Please give them to Ryan. He really loves ice cream!

Fumei (translating my lipreading): Isn't he lactose intolerant, though?

Ryan: “I want it now!”

AITA for snapping at a member of the Chinese-American group when she kept referring to me as mainland Chinese (PRC) instead of Macau Chinese despite me correcting her multiple times?
Back again. Here’s one about my Chinese-American community group.

Now, I’m from Macau, which is a Special Administrative Region of China, not PRC. And I fucking hate it when I’m referred to as a Mainlander (People from PRC China that isn’t Taiwan, Hong Kong, or Macau). And despite my wife being from the mainland (Chongqing to be specific), Mila HATES being called Chinese and has asked other members to refer to her as Hongkongese and to treat her as such. She only will accept the term “the Chinese speaking world”.

Now, I don’t speak Mandarin as a first language. In fact, it’s my third language. Cantonese is my first, English is my second, and I only speak Mandarin when teaching my daughter or with Fumei.

There’s a Chinese-American woman who just came to the USA at our community group named Cassie (or Cui Ping) and my fellow gang members hate her.

Basically, anyone from the special administrative regions such as me, Jiayi, Mila, and kids of immigrants from Taiwan like Longwei are all PRC Chinese. Yes, she’s one of those who thinks Taiwan is apart of China.

NO ONE in my gang likes her, especially the Chinese speaking world members we have including me aswell as Adil.

Now, she kept referring to everyone from Greater China (HK, PRC, ROC and MSAR) as Mainland Chinese repeatedly despite being told using Native American tribes as an analogy.

She even calls Adil this despite Adil telling her he’s Uyghur, Not Chinese.

When she referred me as Mainland Chinese when I was watching Cells at Work! when she admonished me for watching ‘Japanese imperialistic propaganda’, I angrily shouted at her this:

”I’m not PRC! I’m Macau Chinese you fucking idiot! There’s a FUCKING difference! You are an insensitive whore!”

Comments
"YTA. They're all from China! Down with your false lies!" - CCPLOVERR

"The fuck? Look, 'CCPLOVER', there ARE differences in these regions and mainlain China, and with all the shit the CCP has done, I'd rather not be associated with them. Adil especially loathes them after his parents were forced into those horrid camps that probably killed them. So please fuck off with your pro-CCP bullshit." - TypicalSociopathicGangster999

AITA for not allowing a transwoman to witness my GF at the time give birth?
This happened when Xiu-mei was born and Fumei was pregnant so 2015.

Now, Fumei at the time had a transgender friend called Lila (formerly Lee), and at the time, she’s only told her pregnancy to me via text messages and phone calls and to a handful of friends including me.

Xiu-mei was due date was 24th August but came one week early. This actually led to her gang members discovering she was pregnant.

Lila wanted to actually be there for the delivery since she would be unable to give birth naturally, but Fumei told her a flat out no, saying she only wanted me and her brother Dongshun to be there.

Lila got really huffy and accused Fumei of being a TERF (I was told it meant Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist. I never heard that term before and I actually had to get a friend who was also MtF to explain what a TERF is to me), and yelled she would be unable to give birth and excluding her is taking away her womanhood and depriving her of ‘femininity’.

When we had a secret baby shower, I told her to ‘shut her fucking mouth’ because she was complaining when Fumei were opening gifts.

Fumei gave birth on the 17th of August, and Madame Xi and my boss were pretty unhappy at first, but Fumei proved it was consensual. Now, at the time, not a lot of her fellow gang members, including her brother, liked me.

The reason they were so pissed is because I had a multitude of mental health problems including ASD (Sociopathy), and they were worried that I would be unfit to be the father.

When Xiu-mei was two days old, Fumei booked herself into a maternity hospital because Xiu-mei was one week premature and said she wanted to stay until the 24th August.

The head nurse was a bit horrified Fumei had a homebirth, but I explained it was a week early and she hadn’t told anyone aside from me since it was so early in the morning, it was actually pretty dangerous if there’s no trained professionals. But thankfully, Fumei gave birth okay aside from amenia from blood loss and Xiu-mei was healthy.

Now, when we were there, Lila came barging in. Madame Xi and the boss were there too. They passed off as Fumei’s mom and my dad and Xiu-mei’s grandparents.

She screamed and yelled that Fumei was a TERF, a transphobe, and that Fumei hates trans people.

Now, she has been told at least 50 times when Fumei was pregnant it was only going to be ME and her brother watching her give birth and Fumei she went into labor earlier than expected.

She ended up having to be kicked out of the maternity hospital because she was disturbing new mothers and their babies.

To this day, however, she still insist that she should've been there to witness the birth. Even many folks in the trans community have be coming at us, accusing us of being transphobe and "mistreating" Lila.

Comments
"YTA. You and your wife should've put yourself in her shoes for once. Since Lila can't get pregnant, she probably just wants to experience what her body couldn't experience. Y'all should've accommodated her more instead." - BLMTransActivist483

"YTA aswell. Even though Lila shouldn't have been as angry, I completely understand where her anger comes from. If you don't want people to call you out as transphobes, then you need to apologize to her and guarantee that she can come to your next birth." - FleetwoodMacFan1935

"For those who are saying YTA, you all need to understand our side of the story, particularly mine. I have made it clear multiple times to multiple people that only Lei and Dongshun should be there. I do sympathize with Lila's situation, but I don't really feel comfortable with letting her be there as she won't understand my emotional problems like Lei and Dongshun do and I reserved it for family only. And let me make this clear: Just because we didn't allow a trans person in my birth doesn't make us transphobes or even TERFs. We do support transgenders and the LGBT community, but at the same time, we still have standards." - Fumeiee193

“Dongshun here. To those saying YTA, let me make it perfectly clear so that even the densest person can understand it: My sister would NOT be able to make it to the hospital in time by the time she went into labor and me finding her so it had to be that way! I would also like to remind everyone that Xiu-mei was born a WEEK FUCKING EARLY! Lila has been told at least a thousand times over the past several years that Fumei was one week away from giving birth. She also made it very clear if she actually gave birth on her due date, only me and Lei would be allowed, not any of her friends!” ~ FormerPLA168

"Yeah, I'm not sure how anyone can side with Lila on this one. If Fumei was deadnaming her and flat out disrespecting her by mocking her gender, then I could understand the transphobic accusations. But to me, it seems like they were being respectful and being understanding, while also being clear that she cannot attend Xiu-mei's birth, and if anything, Lila was the rude one here. As a trans woman myself, Lila's actions do not represent the trans community as a whole, as we are a caring and loving community regardless. I hope Lila eventually realizes the error of her ways and apologize." - TransRightsAreHumanRights25

AITA for reprimanding our babysitter for not allowing Xiu-mei watch or play her favorite things due to an educational value/ age-appropriate content concern?
Hi there, this actually happened several weeks after the incident when Xiu-mei got in trouble at school for having having sweets in her lunch. I still feel kind of bad about this and am starting to wonder if there is some truth to what this woman told me.

It all started one Friday night when Fumei and I left Xiu-mei with a babysitter to go to a dinner party at a friend's house. So, this woman (Who I'll call Erin) we hired to watch Xiu-mei that evening had a part-time job as an elementary school teacher's assistant, and studying to be a child care worker. She seemed like a lovely young lady, and she seemed to really adore Xiu-mei, so I thought she seemed like the person I would feel comfortable leaving my daughter with.

We dropped Xiu-mei off at Erin's at 4:00. Before leaving, we gave Erin her instructions, and our cell numbers in case of an emergency. We then hugged Xiu-mei goodbye and to behave herself, then left.

Now, here's what I think caused the problem. As I have mentioned many times before, Xiu-mei is into the anime/manga series "Cells at Work". While it's a bit old for her(due to it being pretty graphic in nature), it's a very sweet anime that can get you into learning about the human body. Xiu-mei decided to bring along her favorite plushie and manga that evening, also her Nintendo DS. Yes, we do limit how much time she get's to play on it.

When it came time to pick Xiu-mei up, Erin walked Xiu-mei to the door. We expected that Xiu-mei to have enjoyed herself, but when we saw her, she didn’t seem terribly happy. We asked Erin what happened, and she shrugged saying maybe Xiu-mei was just tired. On the way home, I asked Xiu-mei if she had fun. Xiu-mei said she was, but Erin did something she didn't like. Concerned I asked what happened to which Xiu-mei replied, that Erin wouldn't let her watch CaW or play her Nintendo games. Fumei and I exchanged looks, seeming confused.

The next day, I called Erin, and explained what Xiu-mei had told me, and asked why she did what she did. Here's how the conversation went:

Me: Hey, Xiu-mei told me that you would not let her watch her show. I'm just wondering why.

Erin: You mean "Cells at Work"? Yes, I made her turn it off, because I found it to be a little too inappropriate. It looked pretty violent. Plus, there were a few curse words in it. So, I had had her watch PBS Kids instead.

Me: Okay, but she told me you didn't let her play on her DS either.

Erin: Yes, I made her put that away as well, and we played non-electronic games like Uno and Candyland. Then we did some art projects. She seemed to have fun, but didn't seem too happy about the rules I put out. But I did let her read the book that she had brought with her, and let her play with her plush toy.

Me (annoyed): Umm....she's not YOUR kid! Just because you work in childcare does NOT mean you YOU get to dictate what YOU think is appropriate for her! You sound like you'll be a helicopter parent if you have any kids!

Erin (calmly but blunt): I'm sorry if this upsets you, but as long as I'm in charge and she's in MY house, she's expected to follow the rules. And you know, just because I don't have kids of my own doesn't mean I don't know what I'm talking about. I have babysat quite a few times in the past, and I have seen parents let their children watch the most un-child friendly stuff.

I just huffed, said goodbye, and then hung up. Fumei said I overreacted a little, and was being ridiculous, but I just said I didn't care and she doesn't get to police my child. However, the more I thought about it, the more I was starting to think Fumei was right. So, am I in the wrong here?

EDIT: Erin called me up to talk to me and Fumei in person, she said she apologized for not allowing Xiu-mei to watch CaW! and play on the DS.

We also ended up working out a compromise. The next time Xiu-Mei is over there, she will watch some educational and age-appropriate cartoons, and then she may watch 1 episode of Cells at Work! As for the DS she will be allowed 10 minutes of game time, and when those 10 minutes are up, she’ll put it away and either read or do an art project.

Comments
Soft YTA. You and Xiu-mei have every right to be upset, but Erin is kind of right. What happens at her house is her business, and if you can't agree to her rules, she'll drop you as a client. -Aquastone98

ESH. On one hand, it was certainly wrong to push her beliefs and morals on your daughter, treat her like her own child, and make her watch stuff she doesn't like. However she does somewhat have a point. You do need to be more openly of what you're letting Xiu-mei view at her age. CaW is rated TV-14 for a reason in the U.S. It's like letting somebody her age, who is into firefighting, watch anime like "Promare" or "Fire Force". They're not even realistic depictions of the occupation. If I were you, I would let her watch in moderation? just a thought. Then again, you do keep her away from stuff like JoJo and CaW: Codeblack, so I don' think it's that big of a deal. -Emberberry24

NTA. She's ridiculous. There's far worse stuff out there, and you can't keep kids sheltered forever. -Horseraddishlover

”Emberberry24, CaW! isn’t bad compared to other violent gorefests I’ve seen, Lei doesn’t even let her watch a more mature version of Cells at Work! because of it’s 18+ rating.” - Animefan2974

AITA for refusing to delete my Pokémon save file after I was accused of cheating?
This just happened at a Pokémon GO Deino Community Event. Xiu-mei plays Pokémon GO and we took her to a meetup spot.

Now, I was playing Sword as there was a lot of people playing Pokémon SWSH or BDSP there.

Now, I mostly used Sword and Shield for Dynamax Adventures with my daughter, and as a result, my team is filled to the brim with Level 70-75 Legendary Pokémon and I haven’t finished the main game yet. I’m only at the fourth gym because I get distracted easily. My highest level Pokémon is a Level 75 Zekrom that was my very first Dynamax Pokémon, Jiayi’s highest level Pokémon is a Level 76 Reshiram.

In case you haven’t played SWSH and the Expansion Pass, they allow you to catch Legendaries at the Max Lair after reaching the Wild Area, so before your first gym, I spent more than three hours doing it and after a while, I got myself a kickass team. My only non-legendary was a Liepard to make it fair and grinded him to Level 72.

Now, during this, this guy leaned over my shoulder. I was in Pokémon Camp when he said the following:

Guy: “You cheater!”

I got startled and turned around to see this guy with his hands on his hips.

Guy: “You know you can’t catch legendary Pokémon until after you beat the game.”

He began to falsely accuse me of using a GameShark/Action Replay Pokémon modifier code and hacking my save file.

Now, let me explain this to even a dumbass and the most condescending of assholes: I caught these using Dynamax Adventures, a mechanic you can do the MOMENT you enter the Wild Area.

This guy actually had the audacity to tell me to delete my save file and start over without the ‘hacked legendaries’.

A security guard looked over my save file when he heard the commotion. He actually told Super Nerd that my Pokémon were legit since Dynamax Adventures isn’t illegal.

The man stormed off in a huff. Soon after, Xiu-mei caught a fuckton of shiny Deino that day.

Comments
"NTA. Mans should've been finding some actual evidence of foul play before making suck accusations like that. He was a joke!" - SadZuma536